Better to be a good but not great regular?

I don't know what you're asking.

Most would agree that the more options that are available the better. I'm a flavor of the week kind of guy , the novelty of a dancer no matter how hot doesn't last for me

I've been a so-so regular for a couple, could never afford to be a great regular, so there's that.

Whether you are seeing these girls outside the club or just in the club, there often comes a point where it appears they are taking you for granted and putting in less effort to please you. To me, they seem to become more like a wife. It's a younger prettier wife but also a much more expensive one. I've decided I don't want the regular I see every week or even every other week. I have two regulars and I see each one about once a month and only in the strip club. I see them frequently enough they smile and head in my direction when they see me but not frequently enough that they start to turn into the strip club wife.

On the general topic, I agree that the law of diminishing returns definitely applies to stripper activities. There is a point where one converts from "valued customer" to "profligate mark" and the former is the space I like to occupy. This of course assumes an OTC component as I am at best a mediocre regular if I'm just tipping ITC. But any girl who sees me OTC is definitely having a good, if not great, night by local standards.

But also keep in mind that all good things must come to an end eventually. After a while it gets stale for one or both parties. I can only imagine how much faster this point is reached for a girl who has to work hard, constantly rubbing on a guy's clothed penis over many songs, just so that he can cum in his own pants. 😆

I don't really see the diminishing returns by repeating with the same stripper. I don't think I've ever really been a great regular either though. Maybe a good one, but never great. I do end up spending more time on less intimate activities, but it never comes at the expense of the sexy time, it's always in addition.

In any case, its usually an easy fix. When I'm not enjoying a stripper as much as I used to, I find a new one to play with. Sometimes I find the new one isn't as much fun as the old one & have to go back. But maybe that little break is what keeps me from falling into the profitable mark category. IDK.

Bippitty boppitty bacon!!

I would say the best position to be in is to have your favorites view you as a good, but not guaranteed source of income whose business they have to continually work to keep.

Always keep your options open. The services were seeking isn't unique to a single provider, and therefore they shouldn't be charging more than market standard rates.
The only argument for staying committed to a regular provider would be if you're married and need someone who is both discreet and flexible with your schedule.

Otherwise I'd seriously doubt that there's any stripper who can suck dick any better than another.

I've had several OTC encounters at this point and can say that the initial thrill of full service dies down after the second or third visit and becomes as dull(?) As ITC services after the third.

Just my experience. Yours may differ if you're not living in a city with an overabundance of clubs and providers at said clubs.

2 thoughts: I agree that "no good deed goes unpunished" but IDK, not really convinced that applies here. IME... it takes some iteration to be a known quantity before mileage peaks but then I agree it becomes routine / taken for granted.

If I become a “regular” with a girl it’s because I enjoy her company or whatever she’s doing with me. If I don’t enjoy it, I stop being a “regular.”