Lets play "who can get a dance from shadowcat".
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
At one point there were 4 of them sitting together in a booth right in front of me and they decided to see who of them could get me to accept a dance. One by one they each came over and sat down next to me. The they all asked "How are you?" Followed by "Wanna dance?". They all got turned down and I noticed that all of them were watching very intently and smiling at each attempt. I wonder if there were any bets involved.
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When it comes to getting dances. My only criteria is liking how she looks
Of course, some guys go to clubs to get their ego (among other things) stroked. Duh.
And having no criteria besides looks means you could end up with a . . . situation.
Down here, if I turned down every chick cause she was Cuban, I'd strike out on the majority of my trips to the clubs or I'd have to dramatically lower my standards. With the Cuban girls I'll get a table dance or two and see if I can get a feel for them. Sometimes I'll do that on a couple of visits and see if they warm up to me. A surprising number of them will do just that. The first time it's a "wanna dance" drive by, the second time when they're more confident they're gonna get paid a little they'll sit and cuddle or make an effort to chitchat. The dances tend to improve too. If they do, then I'll do a room. Don't get me wrong, a lot of them remain cold and robotic. But if she's hot it's worth $20 for me to test drive with a table dance or two. Some of those Cuban girls can be very warm and affectionate, or at least very good at faking it.
Shadowcat knows his way around strip clubs, and I respect his instincts. If he isn’t interested in the team approach, then I respect his decision.
It can suck when you get the feeling you are a bait fish in a tank of sharks.