Decreasing money spent on the hoby
Thursday, September 8, 2022 5:06 PM
I feel like over the years my budget for the hobby has been overblown. When I first started I feel I had a much lower budget and had more fun. Any thoughts? What would you do to cut back on your budget for the hoby and still have a good time?
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If you want to cut back on what you spend on dancers, then you need to figure that out on your own. That ties directly into how you have fun and it's very subjective.
I would recommend taking a little break - and then giving the hobby another try.
If that doesn’t help, then I’d recommend taking a longer break.
Sometimes you just hit a spot where it’s not as much fun as it was.
Just because you post here doesn't mean you're obligated to spend a certain amount a month on strip clubs.
I do tend to take breaks from strippers from time to time, so there may be some value in that advice too.
I don't even remember how long everything was totally shut down, but what I do remember is how crappy everything was during the long gradual period of reopening with all the insane restrictions. I was so excited to start getting back to the clubs that I went as often as I could, regardless of having to sit outside, wear masks, and whatever other stupid bullshit was going on. Didn't last long. It sucked so bad that I went back on a self-imposed strip club holiday.
Then once I became aware that things were mostly back to normal, I tried again a bunch of times, but honestly it was never the same. Many girls that were regulars to me had left the business. The ones I found were of lower quality and demanded higher fees/tips. Yeah, not really so much about the money, it's more just the lack of fun, but I cut way back on the frequency of clubbing. Finally, I took another maybe 8-month break. A couple weekends ago I hit up four clubs. If you read my two most recent reviews you'll see they weren't great visits, and the other two I couldn't even write a review for because they were so uneventful.
I suppose the worst thing for me is the one club I was visiting almost exclusively prior to Covid never opened back up. I'm afraid that place was the last of what is now a by-gone era. Anyway, I can't imagine a life where I'll never club at all, but what was once a twice a week habit has definitely become more of a once-in-a-while test the waters type of thing.
Only spend $300-$500 maximum for each otc encounter. $500 should be someone pretty extraordinary. Limit otc to once a month maximum with the same dancer.
Limit all escort and strip club and sugaring spending to $1000 a month total.
OR
My Organization, where the women are always very well taken care of and all of them are yours.
SJG
So, I’ve been spending less, not for financial reasons but because of the quality of service available.
Yep, here's the creep reigning over his organization.
BTW, his name is leonardo not lloyd.
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LULZ
I'd say starting out with lower spending is where most of us were at who clubbed at a young age. This site gets a bad rep because guys here are trying to get the most bang for their buck, but what does that turn into when guys who got everything they were looking for on small dollars increase their spending?
Supporting higher prices everywhere but strip clubs and hookera.
It's gets old pretty quick.
I think spending is going down overall. Girls aren't making as much coz men have less disposable income. It's trickle down economics.
So you spent $1500 on non extras lapdances? Or stage tips? What did you get out of it?
Pretty much everything gets less fun as you get more and more geezery. And there are times when you cross through a fav desert, where all your favs are kinda meh. But, even with the ups and downs, there's just nothing else I could enjoy more with the $.