So I’m a bisexual female, and I often go to strip clubs with my bf, I’ve been a few times alone but it’s more fun with him there. My question is, do you guys who go with gf/ wives do you ever get “extras” for you both? And how does it work together if you are getting extras. I’ve had extra fun alone but I really want to see how likely it is to get extras as a couple of what are your experiences as a couple?
I've taken girlfriends into clubs a few times. If I took a dancer into VIP, it was for my girl to enjoy. I would just watch the two of them. Then I would get my reward when we got back home. VIP booths are usually not roomy enough to have a full blown 3some.
Used to go with my wife, and she'd get off once in a while. Usually in a lap dance, either from grinding or fingering. Only once did she get herself eaten out. She's shy about that sort of thing, so I wasn't in the booth at the time, but she told me all about it later. Honestly, even if I'd been there, I wouldn't have tried to get in on it.
My ATF treated me to a live action porn experience with a dancer one time.
I once had a girlfriend who liked going to strip clubs with me. I would buy her dances, but let her get the dances alone since I wanted her to be as uninhibited as she wanted with the dancer. However, despite the fact that I really supported her being into girls, and I loved it when she got all sexed up by a hot lap dance, the privilege was not reciprocated. My girl always got jealous if she thought I wanted to fuck a stripper more than I wanted to fuck her, so that ultimately led to the end of our couples strip club adventures.
I’m all for women going to strip clubs, but I have seen situations where this can also be problematic, especially if the female customers are dressed provocatively.
I brought an ex girlfriend to strip clubs a few times several years ago, and got turned off by her reactions. Not sure if she was trying to pander to me or felt threatened, but she adamantly made note that if she was a dancer she would want to be dancing for me instead of all the other guys she saw in the place. It killed the mold knowing she thought other dancers were looking to me as a target. This happened on every visit. Finally I decided it was better to go by myself and then she spontaneously looked for me at a club without me knowing. I see her walk by inside the club and I farted out. The ensuing argument at home an hour later for me on the path to figure a way out of the relationship, which took a few months. I think she knew she was insecure and couldn’t let it go.
I've been with girls. They always got real possessive if I showed interest in a dancer but thought it was okay for them to show interest. It got old quickly.
I've had better dates at swingers clubs. Putting on a show or watching her with a girl. She liked watching me get my dick sucked a few times. As long as you have boundaries. But it was less stressful than a SC with a girl
Thanks everyone, yeah I’m not possessive I’m more interested in all the fun! I like to watch my bf have sex with other girls and he likes to watch me also. If there is any jealousy it’s because we both want to play with the other girl haha I can have him whenever I want 🤣
Honestly it's hard in a club as a couple. Girls don't come up and some would ignore us at the stage. It's happened like that st s few clubs.but I think they read our energy. As soon as I'd look at a girl she'd mad dog her 😂😂😭 but in a swingers club she was fine coz she'd say that's what uts for . Kinda weird but worked. She never did anything with guys and I wouldn't do anything with other girls except get a bj. Boundaries are the most important thing
My last visit, I saw a couple that were at least 70 years. They didn't look into it, more like it was a curiosity.
I dated a girl who with a past bf had gone to a strip club. Date said a dancer grabbed date's finger and stuck it in dancer's pussy, which grossed date out.
I wouldn't take a date or gf to a strip club unless she were at least curious about touching and getting touched by another girl and willing to get a dance.
I wouldn't take her to the VIP unless she were willing to fool around with the dancer, and cool with the dancer fooling around with me.
I preferred how it was with my last girlfriend who, knowing that I had gotten extras in the past, insisted I cum in her mouth and pussy at least once each within 24 hours before heading to the club to ensure my loyalty. I'm not a cheater but still loved that arrangement.
I will say - if you’re a female going into the club some strippers will hate you, and others will love you. It won’t be hard to find the ones that like to dance for / hang out with / cater to women.
As far as going with a girl this is different but taking a dancer from a different club can be a very fun experience and can get wild. As far as civics who haven’t done it before it’s probably a wild card. How girls engage you may depend on the vibe you give off.
I went to strip clubs with Mrs. Hornibastard I a few times, but never went to a strip club with Mrs. Hornibastard II or Mrs. Hornibastard III.
Mrs. Hornibastard I never showed any interest in getting attention from a stripper but they inspired her to try shaking her fine ass on the stage once. That was quite a turn on for both of us.
Mrs. Hornibastard II probably would have enjoyed a strip club but we never went. But she definitely had a closeted interest in other women which I was privileged to witness on a few, special occasions.
Mrs. Hornibastard III never showed any interest in other women but has a delightful exhibitionist and voyeuristic streak which she put to good use when we lived in Jakarta and had a marvelously private backyard pool. She was more than willing to let her girl friends watch us getting sticky and, before too long, happily watched me having a good time with her girl friends (but always with the understanding that this only happened in her presence).
On rare occasions my wife wants to go with me. It's usually after we've been drinking. Mostly we sit at the stage and tip and drink. We might get a lapdance if we see a pair of strippers we like. It's more of a party and stage tipping experience when I'm with her.
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My ATF treated me to a live action porn experience with a dancer one time.
I’m all for women going to strip clubs, but I have seen situations where this can also be problematic, especially if the female customers are dressed provocatively.
I've had better dates at swingers clubs. Putting on a show or watching her with a girl. She liked watching me get my dick sucked a few times. As long as you have boundaries. But it was less stressful than a SC with a girl
I dated a girl who with a past bf had gone to a strip club. Date said a dancer grabbed date's finger and stuck it in dancer's pussy, which grossed date out.
I wouldn't take a date or gf to a strip club unless she were at least curious about touching and getting touched by another girl and willing to get a dance.
I wouldn't take her to the VIP unless she were willing to fool around with the dancer, and cool with the dancer fooling around with me.
I preferred how it was with my last girlfriend who, knowing that I had gotten extras in the past, insisted I cum in her mouth and pussy at least once each within 24 hours before heading to the club to ensure my loyalty. I'm not a cheater but still loved that arrangement.
Mrs. Hornibastard I never showed any interest in getting attention from a stripper but they inspired her to try shaking her fine ass on the stage once. That was quite a turn on for both of us.
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Mrs. Hornibastard II probably would have enjoyed a strip club but we never went. But she definitely had a closeted interest in other women which I was privileged to witness on a few, special occasions.
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2. https://tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=7507…
3. https://tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=7510…
Mrs. Hornibastard III never showed any interest in other women but has a delightful exhibitionist and voyeuristic streak which she put to good use when we lived in Jakarta and had a marvelously private backyard pool. She was more than willing to let her girl friends watch us getting sticky and, before too long, happily watched me having a good time with her girl friends (but always with the understanding that this only happened in her presence).
Those were the days!
SJG