Question for Dancers: What Occupation impresses you the most?
This is a question for dancers: what job about a customer would impress you the most in a strip club. I know it's a generalization, but still. For example, if there were a bunch of guys who were the same age, looked about the same etc and the only thing you knew about them were their jobs - which would you job/jobs would think the guy is more likely to be worth your while in a club?
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You’re really overthinking this, most of these girls don’t put that much thought into who they’re doing tonight usually they have a number in mind, and if you are reasonably presentable and agree to something close they’ll be fine for the night.
I don't know about anyone else, but I've been asked about my profession more times than I can count, and more than any other "casual conversation" topic I can think of off the top of my head. The question is so common that I'd have to consider a dancer <em>not</em> asking it to be the exception.
So the notion that "it doesn't matter" seems unlikely to me. Now, whether one well-paying profession, career, skill, or job matters more or less than any other similar is a slightly different question, one I'm not qualified to answer.
Same here, regardless of what part of the country I'm clubbing in. And we know exactly why they're asking - to determine whether we may be worth their efforts.
You're getting bad advice and going about it wrong though lulz
Bingo.
Not sure I know where that comes from I certainly have negotiated a few over the years, not as many as you or many others, I wasn’t trying to say that there aren’t any considerations but, if you’re a regular or even just a known quantity they tend to stop vetting you at that point, if they feel safe, the number they want is much more important to them than your occupation, I don’t think they put as much thought into the event as you’re implying.
Once they’ve established that they trust you they’re usually good to go.
Agreed about the known quantity stuff removing much of the vetting. But even still IME at some point the girl asks the question or already heard from someone else that you spend real money. I doubt that many of these girls want to do a one-and-done with a dude who rings a cash register at Home Depot and saved up for many weeks to pay for the event. Potential repeatability often matters, as does the belief that the guy can afford the fun and won't get emotional about it.
I am wondering amongst the top professions - not Wallmart, Home depot etc. For example, what would be preferred among Engineer, Doctor, CEO of Fortune 500, Wallstreet-type Financier etc.
I would be interested in hearing from some females/dancers...
Am I off base on my thinking ?
I think a struggling musician, who plays video games on his sofa, and who smokes a lot of pot would be the top choice of dancers.
And hookers aren't picky about who they fuck for money. You can think you're special coz you pay $500 but the drug dealer can fuck her for under $100 in drugs. Or make yourself feel better telling yourself she's low mileage 🤡
As long as you have money you're good.
She told me she is most impressed with guys that say they have their own business, whatever that might be. She knows this means they have some cash and the flexibility to come into the club whenever they want because they set their own schedule.
So the notion that "it doesn't matter" seems unlikely to me. Now, whether one well-paying profession, career, skill, or job matters more or less than any other similar is a slightly different question, one I'm not qualified to answer."
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I'm in this boat too. I can't prove it does matter, but they not only ask but I've had many girls remember that answer when often times they don't remember my name, suggesting they're more interested in my profession than my name. This doesn't exactly seem counter-intuitive or anything either. I don't know how much it figures into their OTC decisions directly, I think it influences their immediate actions ITC which could influence the development of enough of a relationship to even broach that subject. I tend to meet a girl ITC a several times and I think by that time they've got better information to assess me on than an occupation that could very well be total bullshit. And for me the occupation I tell them is usually total bullshit or generic enough so as to be useless
Either way, I would have thought one of the regular dancers around here would weigh in, if it matters or not.
I worked in an SC* for several years. The girls then (mid-90s) didn't care what they did as long as they had cash in hand, and there was some behind-the-scenes mocking of dudes who claimed they were a Hotel Sierra CEO or some shit like that. I doubt that's changed in the meantime.
: Deja Vu, "Hundreds of beautiful girls and three ugly ones." When I was in the booth and the PLs weren't tipping, I'd tell them I was one of the three ugly ones and they'd best start spending if they didn't want to see my ass on stage.
Not a rare thing that higher income people want to have a spouse who'd be homeless without them. It's a power trip. Since dancers commonly like to flex on PLs, no surprise many like to have a full-time PL at home they can flex even harder on.
But stay-at-home spouses can be entirely benign. If one spouse has a strong income, makes little sense for the other one to work a job they detest, especially if it's low paid. This is especially true if there are kids to take care of. Which spouse has the penis is not relevant to this logic.
Plenty of non-strippers have parasitic SOs. Hard to say really if strippers are especially prone to this. Our vanity makes us think they should prefer us over their SO (even though we are at best ambivalent about wanting to actually be involved with them). So, to sooth our own egos, we stereotype then at being especially stupid about who they want to be involved with.
That whole club will know who you are in 30 seconds, and they will remember you for long after.
My best guess as to the unfiltered answer? As customers, we make one primary impression, thirsty fools. If we can control our thurstiness enough to remain pleasant, polite and not try to push their boundaries, that's as positive an impression as we can hope for. Available $ relevant, occupation irrelevant. As to what single occupation is universally impressive to all strippers for dating reasons, the answer I think is non-verbal, lots of eye-rolls, perhaps one stabbing.
Works every time.
Over the years, I’ve had dancers look at my watch to judge my ability to spend.Seems like a more accurate approach, at least for old guys who still have watches.
I'll tell you, there is no way in hell I'd wear a nice watch to places in a town like Bridgeport CT where I last was at a strip club!
There are some occupations where the guys who do that job are consistently behaving the same, so that can be a plus or a minus.
My best customers, in order, are:
Attorney
Attorney
Mexican construction dude
Military dude
Retired blue collar dude
Retired real estate dude
People have all kinds of circumstances with money and as such your job is not an indication of your spending in the club.
Icee what are you saying about low mileage? How is anyone making themselves feel good saying someone is low mileage? If anything, low mileage dancers would make people feel bad. Cause they would feel their money was wasted
No I'm not talking Pepsi's competitor.
There are exceptions of course, but public sector employees are less likely to be preferable.
Engineers are a ridiculously easy customer base.
Attornies can be good customers but it seems like a fair amount I’ve met like substances a lot and that can have its challenges. And I’m not going to snort coke with them.
Drug dealers can be pretty great, since money is easy come and easy go 😁 But if they have a flock of dancers with them already…ehh I’ll pass unless he specially calls me over.
Customers in sales often either have empathy and make everything so easy I don’t have to “sell” anything, OR be a huge pain in the rear.
That’s what I can think of off the top of my head. And somebody’s job isn’t the end all be all. And somebody mentioning their job can be can be useful in other ways other than what Glassdoor.com says the median salary is…like it can lead to general conversations down wherever. Some customers get really enthusiastic about describing xyz if you ask them the right questions. And one time I remember joking to a data scientist that he “plays with pythons all day” and just the fact I was aware a programming language exists impressed him for whatever reason and he made it rain $100 on my next stage set 😁 Fun times.
But I'll sit here with my popcorn waiting for an actual dancer to give her opinion.
Are you trying to lie to strippers to seem more impressive for an easy lay? I totally get it.
And some strip clubs are more talking places than others.
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