Some are both my type and have an irresistible physical and vocal seduction at first contact.
Some melt me with just their eyes, even if the rest of their body is less than remarkable.
These are the rare dancers that make it tougher for regulation hotties to get me in the VIP. I've become very patient at waiting for them, too.
Did you want other people to talk about what makes a dancer stand out for them?
Actually, I'd like all comments to go on the closed Extras thread please.
Kidding. Any favorite dancers that have raised your expectations?
There was a very pretty spinner who danced at a regular club of mine. She wasn’t my type body wise as she was so small and very fair skinned, but she very pretty and we always chatted a bit on her tip walk. Additionally, I was under the impression that she was a hardcore lesbian and assumed a room with her would be not interesting to me. This went on for maybe two years until she finally said ‘why don’t you ever ask me about a room?’
I said ‘aren’t you into chicks?’
She replied, ‘yeah but I’m into guys as well.’
Taking my cue, I took her to a room and she proved her point quite well and used that spinner body to its fullest. I had a great time. We never repeated and 6 months later she was dancing in FL. If she ever makes it back, I won’t question her again.
What makes a dancer stand out to me is personality and having chemistry. Her vibe is the most important thing.
I am shallow about looks, but I don't seem to have a particular "type", as you can tell from looking at my pictures.
Much more fun with dancers who can act like they are into you to some degree.
Unfortunately it's not at all rare that you fear a dancer will be homeless or dead before she hits 40. Hard not to feel like you are using her. You may provide her with good, fast money, but she doesn't seem to know how to use it to good advantage. Most of my favs have been at least average at life management (which is damning with faint praise). But, typically with them, I have to bite my tongue to avoid asking the question "why didn't you just go to fucking sperm bank!".
Every once in a blue moon. I lived in J'ville for almost a decade before I met one locally, which I posted about last year. Most girls with her skillz move on to better club environments to go big game hunting - for the life of me I don't know why she's still here. Thank goodness she doesn't work much anymore, lol.
Only three others have strummed all my chords like that over the last 15+ years. One I met recently in the Lodge in Dallas and definitely overpaid for OTC, but it was worth it. The only other two I ever liked that much both worked in the NYC metro area and that was many years ago.
They all shared the same traits: Smart, engaging, charming, classy and sexy as hell, yet at the same time seeming completely relaxed and down to earth.
High heels and makeup do it. THigh high stockings, action slut uniforms.
SJG
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And in your case they're so fat you have to roll them in flour to find the wet spot then you don't know what to do with it when you've found it.
@Daily_Grind: "Some melt me with just their eyes, even if the rest of their body is less than remarkable."
My ATF. Her smile, her eyes, her laugh, her amazing ability to be sexy without even really seeming to try. Her ability to make an old, fat, ugly guy feel sexy without seeming to try.
It's the genuineness of the interaction for me
There's a dancer at Club Desire that has a very good reputation, and it's pretty hard to get time with her if you're not one of her regulars. I never felt like I was missing out, though, because she's really not my type. I mean, she's very pretty, but not my type.
Anyway, I was there on a Sunday day and for whatever reason she approached me. We had a wonderful chat and she asked me about VIP. She had an amazing reputation, so I figured what the hell, why not?
Basically, I discovered in spades why she had such a great reputation, and I've been a regular of hers ever since. I don't see that changing.
Blonde 10, non smoker, no drugs, no tats, no piercings
I run into those dancers by the dozens every day
To me they are the ones that are doing exactly, if not more, what you want before you have to do anything. They already know what you want and it takes minimal effort on your part. And they have a good and genuine, by all accounts, desire to do it for you.
For example I have a long time fave that is 100% friendly and bubbly with me every single time I see her. As soon as I sit spoon at our table with her she's reaching behind to give me some OTP stick shifting. Her A-game is always on. She was like this from day 1 too. I call her the gold standard of strippers. If every stripper had her attitude no PL would ever have a bad night.
Since I mostly go on Fridays and Saturdays, I'm uncomfortable when strippers spend more time with me than what I'm paying for. I worry they are not taking $ seriously enough, not taking full advantage of the busier nights. I'm aware of the strong creepy aspect, but I can't forget that I'm usually old enough to be their father. Getting old enough to be their grandfather. And no, I'm not into incest porn (or actual incest).
Ooooh, I can bench press the bar! (Just no more additional weights plz)
LOL all she has is a bunch of fat in her chest.
And the bar weighs more than her. 😂
O-Face's eyes and expression melted me the first time I saw her on stage. The difference was that this girl could naturally stay in character during our one-on-one pregame. Add her pretty voice and soft moans, and I was helpless.
Feline was also like this, but also nuzzled me like a cat, including purrs, with her whole body. Again, irresistible.
The problem (or benefit) is that these girls reset my radar to wait for these approaches. Or at least wait for those willing to fake it convincingly.
It's taught me to be very selective about who gets all my ITC money.
@Daily that's why I'm a regular more often than not. Good faves raise the standards of a good club experience and then it's a bit of a letdown when you get with a mediocre one. A fave that delivers is a guaranteed good visit.
That said, it's good to try new randoms every so often.
Are dancers doing the limbo now?
Dancers that are the bar:
m.youtube.com (Al Bundy and No Ma'am rock the Jiggly Room)
this one for sure. i'm in love.
then laugh at all the stuck-up failing r/cunts bashing her.
