Why would anyone pay for full service in a strip club?

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markwillwalkthanks
Connecticut
I really have a hard time understanding why anyone would pay for a full-service experience in the back room of a strip club! I've read that the costs for this often equal or exceed that of an escort.
If I were interested in paying for a full-service exp. for the money I'd likely blow at a strip club for door fees, drinks and whatever it costs for the backroom experience, I could get a nice hotel room and an escort and see exactly who I want in a private setting without a bouncer lurking around. In addition, I would save the amount of time I'd spend hanging out at the strip club listening to mostly awful music to meet a stripper I'd be interested in doing this with AND who is free at the moment AND is not with a regular. Am I missing something?

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Mate27
4 years ago
It’s all about convenience. The scenario you prefer as stated also involve time and money to procure said services, and those who are regulars in a strip club do not have to jump through all the hoops to your preferred method of hobbying.
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georgmicrodong
4 years ago
This is only been covered a gagillion times already, but there are several factors.

One is the enjoyment of being in the club surrounded by above average looking women in scanty clothing, or in many places, completely nude. That's often worth the price of admission, if there is one, all on its own.

Second is the chance to see and interact with the woman whose affections you're seeking *before* laying out a load of cash. There's a chance to see if she's actually gonna be fun be fun.

Third is there's no "escort lottery" involved, where you don't know if the person in the ad is the one gonna show up at your hotel room. You know who you're going to be playing with, and if you've been paying attention and asking the right questions, and will have a pretty good idea of what you're going to get. Barring shenanigans on her part (that's where the "paying attention" part comes in), that is.

Fourth, most dancers who will fuck in the club will, with some work, also fuck outside the club, and oftentimes be much less expensive, on a per hour basis. Find an escort who will spend more than 10-25% more time than you paid for? Rare. Find a stripper who will spend two or three hours with you for the same cost as the escort? Pretty damned common.

Fifth, and key for me, strippers are, on average, waaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyy more fun than escorts. Subraman posted an *excellent* article on this subject last year, or maybe the year before. Check it out.
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Tetradon
4 years ago
What @georgmicrodong said.

A strip club is a party and a buffet of beautiful women. You can talk, joke, interact, grab a drink before you commit to one. There's a subversive feeling to getting it on ITC, even if the bouncers look the other way and cops/city hall are probably greased.

You know you're not getting baited-and-switched, robbed and beaten by her waiting friends, and are much less likely to get busted by the cops. You don't have to give out your home address, or buy a hotel for the night, or meet her at a Motel 6.

If a girl is with a regular, I'll wait for one of them to use the bathroom, or just smile and make eye contact. Maybe she's taken for the night, but maybe that outside escort isn't available either.
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Cashman1234
4 years ago
Georgemicrodong covered it with his post.

The OP has been a member since 2014 - posted 1 review - and a few comments. He’s not a real clubber - and I doubt strip clubs are his idea of a good time.

Maybe he enjoys a hotel room type of whore - in a nice hotel. That’s his choice, and I hope he has a great time. With the right whore - it can be a great experience.

I prefer my whores to be filthy, without rhythm, and not house trained, so keep your opinions to yourself, and I will continue to chase the filthiest girl in the club.
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TJ Walker
4 years ago
Why not.
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Jascoi
4 years ago
mark. it’s exciting! and you KNOW she’s a sexy babe!
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nicespice
4 years ago
I think I read a review recently of somebody whining about a club in Bridgeport where dancers were charging $80 instead of $60 for sex (!!)

No idea if it would be a fun experience or not, but if you already live in Connecticut....YOLO
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Sgrayeff
4 years ago
I used to think that. I used to think exactly like that. Why waste my money on full service on cramped couch? Why not spend the same or less on an escort on a hotel bed?

Then a gorgeous, fit Latina slid her silky pussy over my pulsing cock in an upscale NYC club. The room didn't cost me $300. The young lady could have been a model. The pussy was divine. (Read one of my articles on this site for more.)

I've mostly gone downscale since. I've found that full service can be found in lots of clubs and from all kinds of girls. Where I hunt these days is even more economical than escorts. Plus I get to see all the other girls too. Sometimes the hardest part is managing several at once.

And yes, they're not all sublime. Surprisingly, some of these girls seem like they need instructions on fucking and sucking even thought their livelihoods depend on it. Most, however, are great. Many are superb in every respect.
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Sgrayeff
4 years ago
This is the article I'm referring to: https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=57287
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lotsoffun201
4 years ago
I think it’s the “taboo” nature of it. Sneaking off for a quickie with a hot girl
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mike710
4 years ago
I've done both a lot over the years. A lot of points made about both are spot on. The only one I thought was not so spot on was the mystery of who shows up at the door if you do your homework. Maybe, back in the day of searching for escorts in the yellow pages or adult personal ads in the newspaper there was mystery in who would show up but not in the age of the internet. That is, again, if you do your homework. There are also some reliable review sites that have been around for years that you can learn how to use them and be assured of what you are going to get.

That being said, the "Me-Too" movement killed a lot of the escort review and ad sites and that got set back a lot.

Each adventure has it's pluses and minuses but they are both fun. I've been sticking with strip clubs for a few years but don't see anything wrong with either.
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shadowcat
4 years ago
Yeah. Why pay for FS in a strip club when you can stay home and jack off for free?
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Cashman1234
4 years ago
Shadowcat makes a good argument - as the op basically disregards the other benefits of itc club experiences.
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twentyfive
4 years ago
oP is just a judgemental prick looking for an argument, why the fuck should he care how another man enjoys himself SMH
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whodey
4 years ago
Most of the reasons have already been covered but for me it mostly comes down to how you make your choice and the instant gratification.

I would much rather be looking at beautiful naked women in a strip club while deciding who I want to spend time/money with instead of looking at pictures online to make my choice.

Plus you don't have to schedule an appointment and then hope she shows up on time, hope she looks like she did in the ad and hope she has a good personality.
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shailynn
4 years ago
Like said above this has been covered a million times.

Here's my take - someone who has participated on both sides of the fence all over North America.

1. Stripper are hotter. How many times have I read a million reviews of an escort, looked at the photos, accepted that the photos make her look like a 10 and in reality she's probably a 7. When she comes to the door, she's a 5. I've been disappointed more than I've been pleasantly surprised.

2. Rules - Most escorts have all types of rules "no kissing" no oral, etc. etc. most strippers have very few rules.

3. Can't argue that a hotel room is 100 times better than a VIP area of a club, but you just need to find the RIGHT club that has a good private VIP. They are out there.

4. Many of us build up a rapport with strippers and get them to meet us at a hotel for OTC. That's a great alternative.
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Ggmanspot
4 years ago
Yes always find who you would enjoy to be with and go to VIP a few times to see if she's into meeting up otc, it's the only way I have FS now
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dirtyburt
4 years ago
Have never had to give my Real Name, Driver License, Work Info, cell number and references in a Strip Club.
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Nidan111
4 years ago
I have paid for full service numerous times. Never paid more than $150 at a SC. Some of the clubs were absolute dives, but had gems inside. When I do FS at the AMP, it is about $200 and 75% of the time they can’t do the paid for act. I just pay them and thank them for their service! Usually, the table shower makes up for the lack of honest penetration.
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WILLYSGOTAWOMAN
4 years ago
I've never paid for full service. But I do have enough intel to say with confidence that you are wring in the assumption that fucking a stripper in the back costs the same as a hotel and an escort.
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rl27
4 years ago
I have done both. Escorts can be iffy. The woman in the photos are not always the woman you get, or if she is, she's 15 years older and 30 lbs heavier. Reviews can help, but I have gotten taken by shill reviews before. Even if the escort matches the photos, I have met too many whose skills or enthusiasm have been lacking. Canada is better than the U.S. for how accurate the photos and reviews are. On average strippers are hotter than escorts, especially lately. Too many of the escorts advertising the last year or two are so drug addicted that they are no longer appealing.

At the club I can choose from many hot dancers, try them out for a few songs, and if they aren't worth it, on to the next. Sure in many of the hole in the wall clubs you are in cramped quarters, but in those clubs I can usually get by with $150 or so for everything no song count. Clubs with more comfortable VIP's it's been typically $200 to $250 for all but the high 9's and 10's, and even those I can occasionally get for $250 to 300. Many times after one or two ITC sessions I have gotten OTC offers, often for less than what the club charges for an hour or two in the VIP. While and escort may want $300 to $500 for an hour, I have seen several hotter dancers for $200 or so for well past an hour. Plus by the time I agree to OTC I know how good she is.
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docsavage
4 years ago
First, let me say anyone should do what they like. Every option has pros and cons. In the club activities are usually safer and you have choices and you can see ahead of time what you are getting. It's not like a massage parlor where you might end up with a fifty year old Asian woman or an escort who doesn't look like her picture. Many cities, though, such as Indianapolis where I live have limited in the club possibilities. Because of greater risks due to the stricter legal environment, only girls who are desperate or a bit crazy and reckless are readily available. The desperate ones are usually desperate because they aren't attractive enough to make money just selling lap dances and the crazy ones are unpredictable. I've decided not to do either in the club or outside the club illegal activities here. Even if you don't do this, there's plenty to enjoy at the strip club. It beats going to a regular bar and sitting and drinking while watching a bunch of other guys sitting and drinking.
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rickthelion
4 years ago
Of course, there is no better feeling than fuckin’ one sexy female hairless ape while another sexy female hairless ape licks your lion balls and then a bouncer comes in to break it up...

All I have to say is “wildebeest” and the bouncer pisses his pants and runs off, Then I finish with the sexy female hairless apes. A few hours later. ROAR!!!
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rockie
4 years ago
The OP does need to consider why he would ask this question on TUSCL, in that it's a strip club forum for strip club enthusiasts. Strip club visits can certainly be useless, but I am a treasure hunter that doesn't mind dumpster diving for that hidden jewel. Given the OP's sensitivities to noise, effort and the fact he's not guaranteed a prize with his happy meal - I suggest he finds a different sandbox to play in.
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Dave_Anderson
4 years ago
I ask the opposite question, why would someone pay for an escort or OTC "date"?

Going to a club itself is part of the fun, like going to a theme park. Full mileage in the VIP is like getting to ride in the front car on the premier roller coaster in the park.

To me paying for a date personally is something I consider kind of for losers, but that's just my personal view
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rockie
4 years ago
Out of fairness Dave_Anderson, they are pretty much the same thing. I'll take the strip club loser card, as that's my chosen flavor of entertainment.
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markwillwalkthanks
4 years ago
Maybe I am going to the wrong strip clubs or they just aren't my cup of tea. In my experience, the nights when the best variety of hot women are there also means it is packed with other guys and regulars. There is also no guarantee the stripper you end up with is even WILLING to do FS. I would guess that the less appealing ones would be. That and the fact that stripper willing to do FS, in the back room of a club has done it lots of times before and is likely full of STDs. At least quality escorts get tested and some even limit the amount of guys they see. Before covid, I used to go for lapdances and I enjoyed that. Even at that, 95% of the time was a bust where either the girl did not give a good LD or I was just sitting in the club listening to awful music for hours while the hottest women had regulars or would not even make eye contact and the unattractive ones would not leave you alone and you had to be almost rude for them to get the hint. I guess if you are a regular it's a different story. All the girls at the club know you and you have better options. I just don't have the time or inclination to spend the time and money to be a regular. If I were gonna go FS, I'd find an escort with good reviews and recent pictures and do that. As far as strippers looking better... I can't count the number of times that a woman looked really hot and amazing on stage and when she was sitting up close, didn't look as nice. I'd sometimes go during the day and when I was leaving, I'd see some of these women out near the door having a smoke in the daylight. Yipes. I was just curious though, not planning to do FS at either. Covid lockdown has given me some time to think. I went only occasionally for a few years and the most I did were lapdances. Even at THAT if I could go back in time and get all of that money back,not to mention time, I could take a nice trip to Vegas or a country with legal and well managed prostitution and see a different dream girl every night if I did my homework and found the best places with the best reviews.
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rogertex
4 years ago
Cramped space, filthy couch and rushed sex are the only downsides of ITC.
So Subraman wrote the bible https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=44731
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Huntsman
4 years ago
They both have there pros and cons. The ITC v escort question will vary a lot based on where you monger and how you monger.
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bang69
4 years ago
It's safer and cheaper to stay home. And jack off while watching free porn.
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rickdugan
4 years ago
I fall somewhere in the middle on this debate. I actually agree with the OP that having sex in one of these shitholes with other dudes hovering close by is far from ideal. The older I get, the less I'm interested in freeing my willy ITC.

But I do agree with most of what GMD posted. I like being able to hand pick the girl and not having to worry about bait and switch and other bad behaviors perpetrated by some anonymous drug addict. I also rarely see pics of escorts that look as good as the hottest girls I deal with ITC. I also agree that dancers just do not behave the same as full time escorts - it tends to be a more natural experience.

So my solution is to take my favorite strippers OTC. Except unlike some on here, I don't want the girls who I know are sucking and fucking ITC. I have very little interest in being x of y served in a day, whether it's with a dial-a-ho or a girl who is servicing 6 hairy cocks a day ITC.

But is it generally more expensive to play with strippers than escorts? It depends on the market. In markets where girls are routinely fucking and sucking ITC, IME ITC sex prices more or less fall in line with mid-tier escort prices. Sure you could still bottom feed on STG and find a much cheaper girl, but do you really want to? In markets where ITC sex is not as prevalent, the pricing imbalance between hot strippers and escorts becomes even greater, with those strippers earning a significant premium. But sometimes you really do get what you pay for.
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skibum609
4 years ago
Finding a girl for OTC and comparing it to ITC is kinda fucking dumb in the first place. If the spirit moves me in the club I go beyond dances, but the number of times I have headed to the club looking for ITC is less than 20 lifetime. I haven't done otc in 36 years. Know why? I don't like. It is of zero value to me. I would rather take the money I would spend on OTC, change it into quarters, drive around throwing the quarters at people and then go home and jack off rather than doing OTC. I like strip clubbing. The OP reminds me of the guy on the fishing boat who in the middle of the fucking ocean won't shut up about hot dogs.
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WavvyCain
4 years ago
Skibum you’re autistic shutup. No one cares what your racist ass does in your time off tuscl.
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