How young is too young?
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We all have a line we won't cross, right?
I'm not sure why, but I have a problem with an 18 year old giving me lap dances. (Or extras for that matter) I know, it's really hard to tell sometimes how old they might be until you're already committed.
I'm not sure why..... but 19 feels ok to me. Just not 18. I had a great time with a 19 year old at flight club, who didn't tell me her age until the waitress had served her 2 or 3 tequilas.
18 year olds on SA seem too young too. I've connected with a few 19 year olds on SA that were great experiences. The energy level and enthusiasm is off the chart!
I'm not sure why, but I have a problem with an 18 year old giving me lap dances. (Or extras for that matter) I know, it's really hard to tell sometimes how old they might be until you're already committed.
I'm not sure why..... but 19 feels ok to me. Just not 18. I had a great time with a 19 year old at flight club, who didn't tell me her age until the waitress had served her 2 or 3 tequilas.
18 year olds on SA seem too young too. I've connected with a few 19 year olds on SA that were great experiences. The energy level and enthusiasm is off the chart!
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However, I prefer dancers in their mid-20s to mid-30s. I have not moral objection to younger dancers but I can't find much to talk to them about.
Another consideration, if you are buying shots o tequila (or any alcohol) for a woman who is between 18 and 20, I believe most states could charge you criminally with contributing to the deliaunicy of a minor.
w.r.t. young dancers; an 18 y/o that looks the way I like women to look is def not off the table for me (there are 18 y/o(s) that look like women vs girls) - but for the most part the younger dancers often don't have the look nor carry themselves in a way that would make them my preference in clubs.
I don't make it a habit of asking dancers' age - I go with the way they look and carry themselves - if for w/e reason her age comes up and she tells me 18, 19, or 20, it's not a deal-breaker but by reflex I kinda cringe a little inside.
That being said, if a dancer is hot, and has a pleasant personality, I’m not going to turn her down. Obviously.
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Honestly, you shouldn't go after anyone your taking advantage of mentally. Have fun out there but don't be immoral. Only you'll know what your up to.
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My current consistent otc girl is 43. So, my preference is a bit older.
I also find older men in general are better at oral... now that doesnt mean the no one younger isnt, just seems those older in my dealings have been overall superior in that areana.
Practice is a thing lol
You do have to wonder about some young looking girls. I had a freaky VIP at a club with a girl "first day just turned 18". I was her first VIP. She had big tits and about 5 extra pounds, but we clicked. She looked like she could have been older than 18. After she wore me out in VIP she told me she was really 16 and used her sister's ID to work there. Don't know if it was BS or not but I never saw her there again.
The vast majority of times, you will get away with it.
But that is not the same as saying that you are immune from the consequences of your actions.
I will say that I was getting dances from one of the Griffin girls a few years ago, and she told me that her birthday was the next week (I had gotten dances from her on a few previous visits, but not sure how long I knew her.) I asked her how old she was going to be and she said 19. I found this out after she had given me a very good Follies dance in the corner. I really thought she was lying, but I saw recently that she is now 21, so I guess it was true.
If you order and pay but shes in an establishment where u need to be of age to get into/work at the business and the person who served and poured the drink are liable in most cases.
Even if you dont need to be a certain age to enter the place if business should always card anyone within looking questionable of underage or possibly underage, so again the establishment and employee who made the drink or didnt card at the door is liable in most cases, not the person buying the drink (unless theres alot of proof that you brought them there to drink knowing they were underage maybe you could get some kind of trouble especially if the establishment goes after you to turn the heat down on themselves.)
Always so many things that could make it diff outcomes based on details and area of situation
Had never been an issue up to that point and I'm hoping that trend doesn't extrapolate (misused?) as I age.
i hope that 23 or 25 remains as a line of demarcation.
"18 is the number we have reached as a society today. 100 years ago was 15 and 200 years ago was 12."
18 is just the number they picked but there probably isnt much of a difference mentally between 16 and 18. Or 14 and 16.
I’m just glad Covid 15 year olds on his boat killed him...
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King Trucidos AKA Dougster AKA Txty
Usually I do best with dancers between 23 or so and 35 who have danced for at least a year. By then, she has gotten into that nice firm dancer shape, as well as gotten in the grove when it comes to lap dance moves. After 35, unless she has good genetics and didn't get too mixed into the stripper lifestyle, dancers typically start declining in looks in the mid thirties.
Thats not a trait exclusive to strippers.
As customers, all we can do is be polite, considerate, friendly, and not use dancers to dump negative emotions on. This is especially important with naive dancers (regardless of age), but what we should be doing that in any case. Life experience prior to stripping is more important to how naive a dancer is than age. A lap dance is a win-win as long as nobody thinks they're any better than anyone else. Generally speaking, we're all up in the club because we choose to be. If it's nasty, we're all equally nasty.