The Condom Conversation
Muddy
USA
Wednesday, October 7, 2020 11:11 AM
I notice that a string of girls recently I met up with have brought up multiple times how do I feel about condoms. Even after saying I’m cool with it, they will repeat this maybe once or twice more before intercourse. It’s such in way that they must be getting pressed by a lot guys to go raw dog. Yeah if feels better but for me I don’t like fucking with paranoia so always use a condom (and I last a lot longer with one anyway)
It got me thinking though how many guys won’t even use protection and are you someone that doesn’t use any? It’s a little crazy to me with someone you don’t know or if you haven’t had a vasectomy.
It got me thinking though how many guys won’t even use protection and are you someone that doesn’t use any? It’s a little crazy to me with someone you don’t know or if you haven’t had a vasectomy.
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I am snipped and have retrograde ejaculations so I am not worried about knocking any one up.
At my age even with ED meds I still need all the help that I can get to get it up. Condoms tend to desensitize me. So I won't attempt to use them.
I've never had an STD. Maybe lucky but part of it is being some what cautious on who I have intercourse with. BBBJ not so much!
I'm not scared of getting pregnant. I use two different types of BC and have pondered getting a third. I want my uterus to be a dead zone to sperm. Only reason I haven't gotten sterilized yet is due to concerns about triggering early menopause.
STDs are always my primary concern. Everyone seems eager to ask for bareback but aren't as eager to show when their last test result was. And no one has ever asked me - even knowing I'm non-monogamous or a SWer (or the stigma behind it). I think out of every person I asked to see test results from, only a quarter of them had recent results ready to show or were willing to get tested and show me the results before anything happens.
Never a rubber since then.
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I can bring up my own test results on my phone. On several occasions I've paid for my SB's testing.
For those of you with multiple partners per month, condoms are only 30- to 50% effective at preventing HSV and HPV. Of course Covid is a far greater concern right now.
Wow, that's pretty scary. I'm with Muddy on this--don't really want to fuck without a condom, although I hate using condoms for BJs.
On the flip side of this, has anyone noticed an increase in the number of dancers willing to do FS raw? I've noticed a significant uptick, and the girls that are wiling usually don't ask. That's not something i usually cover in the pre-VIP talk. Some girls will bring it up and say they will do FS only with a condom, which is my preference, but I assume that with condom is the norm. However, lately I have had several that didn't mention it and when the moment came just started to jump on without a wrapper. I have had to stop some of them and insist on a condom. I wish I could say my strength of will allowed me to do this 100% of the time, but . . .
Anyway, I'm getting tested pretty regularly.
She texted me the next day and asked if we had really done it bareback and if so please tell her that I was clean. Said she was really drunk even though she didn't act particularly drunk. Anyway, this happened last fall so I know Covid had nothing to do with her going bareback at that time.
With a dancer, every time. With a civvie, only if she's responsible, and wants a kid less than I do.
That being said, I've had several SA girls , on a first date, start to go bare before I was even ready....and I've had to pause to put on the cover
After, she gave me the line about hardly doing it anyone. I'm thinking hardly anyone "today"?