What a difference a baby makes
rickdugan
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Pre-kid she was impossible to score OTC. Some of this had to do with what she was earning, but the other part was that she was feeling little pressure to earn. She only had herself to worry about and I suppose she could eat Ramen noodles if needed, or find a guy to buy her a meal. She was footloose and fancy free as the old expression goes.
Post-partum it has become a different story. Formula is a lot more expensive than Ramen noodles and diapers even more so, especially for a newborn going through 8-10 diapers a day plus lots of feedings. Then of course she had to improve her housing situation. Also, while I'm sure that she was less worried about her electricity being shut off when she was alone (in FL that just means drinking more water and buying prepared food), it's now a much greater priority to keep the lights and AC on with a baby.
So imagine my (un)surprise when she recently lets me know that she's changed her mind about my pre-kid OTC approaches. Man what a difference a baby makes. 😉
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kid could be a toddler or even way more older. pampers, crayons, toys, cool clothes for school, iphone, books, etc - it all adds up and mama has to to find ways to pay for all of that.
My week so far would terrify your buddy lol
You wrote and I quote;
“What a difference a baby makes...”
Pics before, during and after the baby or it didn’t happen.
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Where is the “baby’s daddy” in all this?
Did she keep the baby to get child support?
Does she has full custody?
Is the baby’s just a deadbeat dad or what?
Not all of them. When I found out how many kids my ATF had I asked her how so many kids came out of that tiny body.
Exactly! I think I've fed more kids over the years than the Save the Children Foundation. ;)
It takes the fun out of lots of things lol. But some of the most dedicated parent's I've met are also dancers. Then there's dancers I've met who aren't allowed to have their kids, so the point gets a little muddled I guess.
I've seen bad stretch marks on a dancer who was pregnant at age 15. So bad, it was better to turn the lights off.
Rumdum is proving he is a huge douchebage as usual. Shrek looking old balls seeking young perfection. I’ll deal with a few stretch marks if she can deepthroat and tickle my nuts with her tongue at the same time.
Others I've had to drop like a hot biscuit after having just one and that has been after allowing them time to get back in shape.
I get that. But any of us could substitute a lot of things for "kid(s)" in the sentiment. Without going to the extreme dickishness some of the TUSCLers display when expressing the need to focus on the transaction, we are customers and these clubs are a business. I don't think about what happens when the gal who brought my plate at the steakhouse goes home at night. But being clear on where you draw the line in the hobby for yourself is a good thing. It beats trying to remember where the line is supposed to be after another WTF moment.
Does it make you feel better if she's using it to buy heroin?
"Does it make you feel better if she's using it to buy heroin?"
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Of course not. I want absolutely *nothing* to do with drugs or criminal behavior. That's why I screen so carefully. Thanks for the dumbshit non sequitur.
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My sympathy rumdum but you have to realize that even those old tricks that assfuck you have a little bit of taste. That's why they prefer not to see you while they're doing their thing in the dark.
"I want absolutely *nothing* to do with drugs or criminal behavior. "
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Sure rummy, even though you paying sugar boys cash is illegal, you're not a criminal. Dipshit!
Not going to comment on the preferences themselves. Those probably are what they are, and I think lots of those things are affected by upbringing/life experiences anyways. But I do wonder how much of his scathing comments about others are him feeling guilty about himself deep down and needing to project. 🤔
Good post!
As for how their bodies hold up, some of it's genetics, some of it's age, and some of it's lifestyle. Case in point a dancer who I knew of who danced through at least 3 pregnancies. The entire time I knew her, she always gave very good dances.
Before her first pregnancy she was thin with firm B breasts. Decent body, but a bit too thin. She danced about 5 1/2 months while pregnant and in that time her tits grew quite nicely, but unfortunately due to sensitivity didn't want her tits played with, and also didn't like giving more than three sings in a row.
Didn't see her again until at least 4 months after giving birth, and her body actually came back much better gained a bit more weight, and exercised more . Breasts also jumped up to a large C or D cup.
About two years later she had her second kid, and again danced while pregnant, this time for over 7 months. This time she wasn't nearly as sensitive and wanted a lot of attention paid to her tits, and didn't want to stop after 3.
This time she waited about 3 month before coming back. She looked even firmer than before, but her tits deflated. So about a year later she got implants. Well done, but a bit too firm and fake looking.
Two years later she's pregnant a third time. This time she danced until a few weeks before birth, and came back about a month after giving birth. This was probably the best looking she had been. While she still stayed in shape, she cut down on the real strict dieting and her skin around her breasts loosened up a bit, allowing a much more natural look to her tits.
She danced about two or three more years, then disappeared.
Would it be better if she DIDN'T feed her kids?
Also, wouldn't she be just as reliant upon the money if she was working at Walmart, except getting much less? By saying that you are trying to take away her power to make her own choices and decide what is best for her and her kid(s). She obviously doesn't think that Walmart or some other crap job is the answer or she would be there instead.
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Lol this reminds me of a gal I used to OTC hang with. She was a dancer and for a year once a month we’d hang out. Intercourse always a cover. One day I asked about not using a cover since she was pretty careful. She said ‘I’m ok with it with you, but just know I don’t believe in abortion. So long as you’re cool with that I’m cool.’ As tipsy as I was I paused and said ‘I don’t know if you’re serious or if that’s the best line I’ve heard to make sure guys use condoms.’ And yeah the condom went on lol.