Warrior15 that's the OP's point. There are plenty of 20 yr old mothers out there but he doesn't consider them MILFs, and I agree with him. When I first heard the term was back watching porn in around 2004. They had MILF hunters and the women were always older with curvy bodies (we used to call those baby bodies). So I'd say mom's over 30. As a matter of fact I saw a meme about this same thing. [view link]
I used to think “any woman older than me” but a decade+ later, now there aren’t many strippers older than me in a club.... and porn is taking 27 year old girls and calling them MILFs because that’s a popular segment in porn at the moment.
I think the definition of a MILF has “widened” over the past decade and I’d say anyone over 30 with a kid can be called a MILF. Maybe even late 20s isn’t out of line.
Think of it this way, when the term was first used it was kinda seen as derogatory to some, kinda like a MILF is a skanky divorced single mother who will give it up for an appetizer and 2 margaritas at Applebee’s but now it’s almost become a badge of honor IMO. Kinda like “yeah I’m 40, I have 3 kids, go to the gym 4 days a week, weigh less than most 20 year olds, have more plastic (Botox) in my face than a Honda bumper but still look good.
I, too, used to think any mother older than me that I wanted to bang could qualify as a MILF, especially as I got older myself.
However, you do really need to be 27+ with kids to even be considered as an actual MILF. If you want to use MILF or MILF-y as an adjective, now you are describing a more voluptious, full-figured body type, particularly in the bust. Being simply Ruben-esque doesn't qualify.
If she's got a kid, she's a MILF. The porn industry has its own thing for how they book talent, but I don't worry about marketing. My ATF has like 3 or 4 kids in her 20's, and you'd never know it. But seriously how is a mother of 3 not a MILF?
I’m in the “if she’s a mother, and I want to fuck her, she’s a MILF” camp.
I draw the line at 16 and 17 year old mothers though. That was my mom and fortunately for the bastard who knocked her up, he’s dead now.
Well, in my case, a 40 year old with 5 kids who could still pass for a decade and a half younger. Un-bloody-believably hot body, and loves to be eaten out. And doesn't mind a fat old man pumping away.
@prevert - "I draw the line at 16 and 17 year old mothers though" - if you're drawing a line then by definition those Moms are not in the category, since you would not want to fuck them.
I wasn't familiar w/ the MILF term till I joined TUSCL - for me MILF is more of a figurative vs literal term - I tend to see a dancer as a "MILF' more b/c of the way she looks vs knowing she has kids (or even assuming she has kids) - I use the term MILF loosely to usually refer to an older dancer (generally in her 30s) who I assume has been "around the block" a few times and has more of a mature (been around the block) look vs a girly look - in the Miami Latin community we refer to bit older women (30s thru early-40s) as "veteranas" (veterans) and for me "MILF" is more inline w/ the term "veteran" (experienced) vs if she actually has kids or not.
Well if we’re goinf to start making categories of MiLF-ness then I pick the topic of a girl who has a come fuck my mouth look to her. That’s what I qualify as a MILF. She has to have that look and be a mom!
I've always, and I mean always had a thing for older women. Now that I'm older it's movie star looks-GMILFS that do it for me. Yes they're everywhere. Y'all are all smart enough to know what that means. Of course I also like the younger ones but Red Foxx said
"Older wmen are great 'cause they don't yell,
they don't swell,
and they're greatful as hell!
I have thought essentially MILFS are 30's, Mature (cougars) are 40's and 50's, and above that is Granny porn. Of course, some of it is based on how old they look, instead of how old they are.
A MILF is a hot mom. That’s all it means.
I don’t think there’s any age for a MILF. In terms of porn, they have created a genre of busty ladies who are a little older. But porn has done a disservice to MILF’s.
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