Slow Jam vs. Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am
Muddy
USA
Two very different clubbing styles. I can go either way on them depending on where i'm at and how to maximize value/fun/time.
One you have revolving door ITC fun. Your in and out. Your not about hanging out, just go in like gangbusters and bust and then get the fuck out of there. Only spend what is absolutely necessary. You might be in there if even an hour. Strictly business. An example of a club where I do this was XXXV club in Jersey, recently burned down. Not comfortable place to hang, seating mostly at the tip rail, all these stupid fees. But at the end of the day all the fun is in the VIP with one of those good looking girls they got. So get there.
Then you have a slow play style. Your going for the whole experience, not just some rushed sex in a dark corner somewhere. Your buying girls drinks, making them laugh all shit, building rapports, feeling like your Dean Martin for the night, the whole thing is just an event. This kind of style I gravitate towards more and more. That buildup of sexual tension dare I say is almost as good as fucking. My old regular club I used to go you had the ability to do both, but I've since moved all the way across the country so I'm constantly looking for the next great club that your able to do it all. I'm almost at the point where I would trade the super duper extra fun for just buying a hot girl drinks for a couple hours chatting her up and getting a solid LDK from a few dances. Almost. It does usually end up being more affordable though, and just overall more elongated fun vs some rushed, cramped, paranoid ass sex. What y'alls thoughts and what do you do?
One you have revolving door ITC fun. Your in and out. Your not about hanging out, just go in like gangbusters and bust and then get the fuck out of there. Only spend what is absolutely necessary. You might be in there if even an hour. Strictly business. An example of a club where I do this was XXXV club in Jersey, recently burned down. Not comfortable place to hang, seating mostly at the tip rail, all these stupid fees. But at the end of the day all the fun is in the VIP with one of those good looking girls they got. So get there.
Then you have a slow play style. Your going for the whole experience, not just some rushed sex in a dark corner somewhere. Your buying girls drinks, making them laugh all shit, building rapports, feeling like your Dean Martin for the night, the whole thing is just an event. This kind of style I gravitate towards more and more. That buildup of sexual tension dare I say is almost as good as fucking. My old regular club I used to go you had the ability to do both, but I've since moved all the way across the country so I'm constantly looking for the next great club that your able to do it all. I'm almost at the point where I would trade the super duper extra fun for just buying a hot girl drinks for a couple hours chatting her up and getting a solid LDK from a few dances. Almost. It does usually end up being more affordable though, and just overall more elongated fun vs some rushed, cramped, paranoid ass sex. What y'alls thoughts and what do you do?
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Maybe this is part of the problem? If there were clubs around where the payoff wasn't rushed and uncomfortable would that make a difference in the equation?
But starting about 15 or so years ago my interest in quick strike stuff began a rapid descent and has been at 0 for some years now. I just don't find it exciting anymore and have no tolerance for the paranoia element. When I go out, I want the full experience. Ideally this includes an OTC finish, but I'm OK on nights where that doesn't happen, especially if I have made progress in lining up my next contestant or just had a decent night out.
Muddy, the problem that you have now is that you've moved to a place where casually hanging out in a club for any length of time can be very expensive. NY metro clubs can bleed you dry very quickly just with drink prices alone. When you add a fun finish to the equation, you have to set aside some serious green for a full night out.
The only way youll get the true slow jam experience is in a club with no dollar parade, kills the vibe every fucking time. Rare in ny/nj area but Hott 22 comes to mind...
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