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How Creepy Is This? TUSCL Vote -5 to +5 Rapper T.I. says he takes his t

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+5 - Not Creepy At All. Healthy Father - Daughter Relationship
0 - Ambivalent, No Strong Feelings Either Way
-5 - Not Just Creepy But Sick. Control Issues??


Rapper T.I. says he takes his teen to the gynecologist to confirm her hymen is ‘still intact’

T.I., whose real name is Clifford Joseph Harris Jr., detailed aspects of the examination while appearing on the “Ladies Like Us” podcast with Nazanin Mandi and Nadia Moham. When the conversation turned to parenting and “the sex talk,” the rapper invoked his 18-year-old daughter, Deyjah Harris, who he says just began her first year of college.

“Right after her birthday, we celebrate, then usually like the day after the party, she’s enjoying the gifts, I put a sticky note on the door: ‘Tomorrow. 9:30,’ ” he said. Harris’s annual trips to the gynecologist to “check her hymen” began after her 16th birthday, he said.

“So we’ll go and sit down and the doctor will come and talk, and the doctor’s maintaining a high level of professionalism,” T.I. said. “He’s like, ‘Well you know, sir, I have to [have Deyjah's signed consent], to share information’ — I’m like, ‘Deyjah, they want you to sign this so we can share information. Is there anything you would not want me to know? See, Doc? Ain’t no problem.’ ”

The rapper indicated his daughter’s gynecologist also explained other ways a hymen can become stretched open, such as riding a bike, horseback riding or other physical activities.

“I say, ‘Look doc — she don’t ride no horses, she don’t ride no bikes, she don’t play no sports, man — just check the hymen, please, and give me back my results expeditiously.” He added: “I will say, as of her 18th birthday, her hymen is still intact.”

TI and Deyjah Harris have not commented since the podcast was released, though Harris has liked tweets condemning her father, including one that described his behaviour as “disgusting, possessive and controlling”. TI’s daughter Deyjah Harris has [since] unfollowed him on Instagram following claims he regularly escorts her to the doctor to check if her hymen is still intact.

https://news.yahoo.com/ti-daughter-unfol…

https://www.washingtonpost.com/arts-ente…

https://www.theguardian.com/music/2019/n…

51 comments

  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    Those are horse doctors. The British Royal Family does stuff like that, like checking Diana when she was slated to be married to Charles.

    Fucking creepy!

    SJG
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    ^^^^^^^ -5

    SJG
  • gSteph
    5 years ago
    A sticky note. No conversation, just demand on sticky note.

    What a gentleman.

    - 6
  • Papi_Chulo
    5 years ago
    Hey at least he's not an absent-father and she's not a teen-mom

    +5
  • Liwet
    5 years ago
    -5

    It's none of his business.
  • prevert
    5 years ago
    -5. Totally out of line.
  • Nidan111
    5 years ago
    -5
  • chessmaster
    5 years ago
    0

    At least he's doing something. Probably a bit too far. I think that's between him and the daughter honestly. But at the end of the day he cant save even his own daughter from herself if she makes a mistake.
  • ATACdawg
    5 years ago
    -5^11 👎
  • RandomMember
    5 years ago
    Be kind to your kids. Someday they will choose your nursing home.


    Someday she'll be taking T.I. in for his regular shock therapy treatments.


    -5
  • jackslash
    5 years ago
    This is as creepy as Trump saying that if Ivanka wasn't his daughter he would date her.

  • Call.Me.Ishmael
    5 years ago
    Apparently, T.I. is unaware of blowjobs.

    Odd for a rapper.
  • chessmaster
    5 years ago
    ^If I was a father, which I'm not, but I would be much less concerned about my
    daughter blowing some douche than getting pregnant by one.
  • gammanu95
    5 years ago
    2nd to last paragraph: He added: “I will say, as of her 18th birthday, her hymen is still intact.”

    Prior to her 18th birthday, I would go as high as +5. His daughter is not of legal age to consent, living under his roof, and is his responsibility. Ensuring that she is being honest and responsible wrt to any sexual activities is a legit parental concern.

    After her 18th birthday, unconditional -5. She's a grown-ass woman, can make her own decisions, and own the consequences of those decisions.
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    I think the girl should refuse to go to the doctor, and she should also file a lawsuit.

    The guy I helped put into San Quentin did conduct himself in similar ways with his daughters. And it was all used to help get him convicted.

    SJG
  • georgmicrodong
    5 years ago
    Jesus fuck, what an asshole.

    Maybe I'm a little biased, since all of my kids actually told me when they were planning on losing their "V-Card", and when they actually did.

    But she's 18, her vagina is no longer any of his business at all.
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    Her vagina never was any of his business.

    Man now in San Quentin had to have that demonstrated to him in a criminal jury trial.

    SJG
  • prevert
    5 years ago
    Stupid Jerkoff Guy, as a minor, it certainly could be his business. For instance if she’s been assaulted.

    Of course as George points out, a relationship with your daughter that lets he tell you about that is way more healthy than what this idiot did.
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    Harassing her, trying to enforce chastity by bullying, no. This guy had to answer in court, and with all the evidence he got convicted and is serving a term which may go beyond his lifetime.

    SJG
  • Uprightcitizen
    5 years ago
    She is going to develop some epic blowjob skills.
  • Subraman
    5 years ago
    On the rick scale, from -5 (not at all rick) to +5 (so very rick), I rate this very unrick.
  • Subraman
    5 years ago
    If rickthelion wasn't sleeping on the job again, he would have come up with that joke
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    Brow beating beyond the hour of midnight, banishing her from the home, making her read Evangelical books, talking everything out of her room, that was all stuff the jury got to hear about. And they got to examine the pictures the guy took to humiliate his daughter.

    And I got to read in the Police Report how they did not see things the way that this guy was explaining them to be.

    This girl should refuse the medical exam, and consider a lawsuit. Ask her to PM me here and I'll find her a suitable attorney in her area.

    SJG
  • Estafador
    5 years ago
    you all must have had fathers in your lives.

    I'd give it a solid 0. It could be worse, he could care less, or make her stay on lockdown until she's married...like a mormon. OR he could be absent entirely. This is a very opinionated subject apparently.
  • Estafador
    5 years ago
    I'll change my answer to -2 for blasting the results in the media. We didn't need to know that. But T.I. is not grabbing women by the pussy, so still doesn't deserve a -5. I haven't hit 30 yet, but one day she's going to appreciate what T.I. is trying to do for her. He was a dog, he's been in that life.
  • CC99
    5 years ago
    I'm gonna give this a 0 as well.

    If you're seeing a girl, and you're not willing to get to know her parents, you probably have bad intentions.

    That being said, a lot of parents have a tendency to not adequately explain why they do what they're doing. That's the #1 reason in my experience why teenagers break rules and act out is because teenagers fundamentally don't understand why the rules are there. They were just told to follow them because its the parents' rules, and if you're a rebellious teenager, obeying authority for the sake of obeying authority is the exact opposite of what you want to do.
  • londonguy
    5 years ago
    SJG. Please tell us your source of information about Diana.

    LG
  • JAprufrock
    5 years ago
    ^^It was in news reports back in the day, when they were engaged, she supposedly had to be examined by “The Royal Gynecologist” to determine if she was pure. Sounds like a fun job actually, since she was an adult.
    But back on topic, minus-5, just plain idiotic and possibly traumatic, not only having to go spread your legs and have your pussy probed by some strange old dude, but that asshole letting the world know about it. How fucking embarrassing for her.
    And one more thing, medical professionals have long maintained the absence of a hymen doesn’t necessarily indicate the girl/woman is not a virgin.
  • londonguy
    5 years ago
    Absolute bullshit
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    "SJG. Please tell us your source of information about Diana."

    Yes, it was a news item back when Diana and Charles were moving towards marriage, and officials who deal with the Royals got involved.

    To know more I would have to try and do some searching.


    "
    If you're seeing a girl, and you're not willing to get to know her parents, you probably have bad intentions. "

    I do not agree with this. Many parents have bad intentions. Some girls would not want their parents to know who they are seeing.

    At a minimum, the parents represent a kind of social conformity. Most always a negative.

    And no, a parent does not have any need to do any vaginal inspection. Girls over puberty would not like that. They should refuse. If their is a problem, just dial 911, or join TUSCL and PM me.

    SJG
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    https://www.eonline.com/news/235464/will…

    I will concede though that if the matter is in dispute, then it will take more than this to settle the matter.

    SJG
  • londonguy
    5 years ago
    It was a news item ? was that top of the news that day or further down the schedule. How did they get their story, was it an official press release or did the guy who carried out the procedure announce it on mainstream news. Only a numpty would believe such a 'story'.
  • CC99
    5 years ago
    @SJG doesn't a girl who hides her relationship from her parents know on some level that she's making a bad decision? I might make an exception for a really young couple (like 12-14) but beyond that age unless your parents are fanatics who think dating anybody at all makes you a whore I don't see a legitimate reason to hide it.
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    The girl does not have to convince you or I that what she is doing is legitimate, just like she does not have to convince her parents to accept what she is doing.

    Local guy who thought he had the right to order his daughters on how to conduct such affairs. That became a part of his case. I helped to get him convicted and to get a sentence which might exceed his lifetime.

    SJG
  • Cashman1234
    5 years ago
    I think this is a -5 easily. Remember, TI is proud enough of his actions to mention it in a public forum.

    We all have things we do, that we won’t tell others. I’d hate to hear about the shit TI thinks is too creepy to mention publicly.

    This is a different type of creepiness than SJG - who continues to set the standard for an Uber-creep.
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    I don't think a reputable doctor would even do such an exam, let alone disclose the results to a parent. And really this applies to a minor child as well.

    If the doctor did do it, even with a minor child, I think there is grounds for a lawsuit. Such procedures should only be conducted when there is medical need.

    Of the case in question I think it should be in the hands of LE right now. That is how I would handle it if it were close to home.

    SJG
  • CC99
    5 years ago
    "The girl does not have to convince you or I that what she is doing is legitimate, just like she does not have to convince her parents to accept what she is doing."

    Given the number of women who end up in abusive relationships. I think she kind of does.
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    No she does not. If you are talking about a girl who has reached the age of 18yo, that is a matter of law.

    For a minor, no she still does not have to have her parent's permission and they cannot brow beat her or otherwise try to force info out of her.

    The man I mentioned above, the jury got to hear about and see pictoral evidence of all that he did, and it did influence their verdict and his sentence.

    Case started when the youngest girl, 13yo 8th grade said some things to an intern youth councilor which did not sound right. That Intern then did exactly what the law required. Without consulting with her supervisor she asked some more questions and the wrote it up and faxed it to both Police and Child Protective Services. Soon police were tracking down the eldest daughter, and then they used a different Detective to do a video taped interview with each family member.

    Then charges were filed and the defendant was arrested.

    SJG
  • JAprufrock
    5 years ago
    @londonguy

    "In 1981 when Lady Diana Spencer was about to marry Prince Charles and become Princess Diana, her virginity was a huge issue. Several magazines and newspapers reported at the time that the soon-to-be Princess Di was examined by Dr. Pinker, surgeon-gynecologist to the Queen, to ensure that she had an intact hymen (which, btw, isn’t always a sign of virginity). In fact, many theorize that Queen Elizabeth chose Diana for Prince Charles because she was as “innocent” as can be. Princess Diana’s uncle Lord Fermoy, even took to the press to uphold her good name. “Purity seems to be at a premium when it comes to discussing a possible bride for Prince Charles at the moment… Diana, I can assure you, has never had a lover,” he told The Daily Star, according to Tina Brown’s book, The Diana Chronicles."

    https://themerlions.com/2018/05/31/megha…

    Look dude, I don't give a rat's ass whether it's true or not. But why do you have your panties in a bunch about it? Still whacking it to her memories? It's time to move on. Do like me, instead, and stroke it to Megan Markle. She exudes sexuality, and I'm fairly certain she didn't need to have her pussy examined to determine her virginity before marrying Harry.

    Cheers.

  • londonguy
    5 years ago
    Whatever.
  • datinman
    5 years ago
    -5

    Much better to have a relationship built on trust and communication. Ever hear of Preacher's Kid Syndrome? If the reins are held too tight for too long, kids go absolutely wild at their first taste of freedom to make up for lost time.
  • Jascoi
    5 years ago
    maybe her pussy hasnever been fucked but I’ll wager that she’s been getting fucked in the ass...
  • JAprufrock
    5 years ago
    ^^Yup, and sucking dry every cock she can get her lips around. Sounds like his has-been, never-was, washed up rapper clown's plan backfired and he ended up fucking himself.
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    IF this gynecology exam was not already in the news and was local people, I'd of gone directly to police and child protection.

    SJG
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    Has a lot in common with the guy I helped put into San Quentin.

    SJG
  • JAprufrock
    5 years ago
    @SanJoseGuy, will your organization require ladies to undergo a gynecological exam to prove they ARE NOT virgins?
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    No, we will make sure that they are not ourselves.

    SJG
  • Lil_Baller100
    5 years ago
    Creepy? The hell you sayin nigga? I told my baby momma yo better be checkin yo daughter's pussy or she gon' be suckin off every cock in the hood when she grow up.
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    A parent cannot control a child's sexual activities. They can suggest, but that is about as far as it can go.

    The guy I helped put into San Quentin was using shame and humilation, and this helped to get him convicted.

    SJG

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  • JAprufrock
    5 years ago
    @SanJoseGuy, are you concerned that the guy you helped put in San Quentin will be paroled one day, infiltrate your organization and seek revenge on you?
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    I'm going to try and hire Nidian111 as my body guard.

    Also, this Pentecostal Molester might not live long enough.

    I'll be attentive. Really what I would like is to incarcerate a lot more of the people from his church, cause they do the same types of things to their children.

    SJG

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