How Creepy Is This? TUSCL Vote -5 to +5 Rapper T.I. says he takes his t
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0 - Ambivalent, No Strong Feelings Either Way
-5 - Not Just Creepy But Sick. Control Issues??
Rapper T.I. says he takes his teen to the gynecologist to confirm her hymen is ‘still intact’
T.I., whose real name is Clifford Joseph Harris Jr., detailed aspects of the examination while appearing on the “Ladies Like Us” podcast with Nazanin Mandi and Nadia Moham. When the conversation turned to parenting and “the sex talk,” the rapper invoked his 18-year-old daughter, Deyjah Harris, who he says just began her first year of college.
“Right after her birthday, we celebrate, then usually like the day after the party, she’s enjoying the gifts, I put a sticky note on the door: ‘Tomorrow. 9:30,’ ” he said. Harris’s annual trips to the gynecologist to “check her hymen” began after her 16th birthday, he said.
“So we’ll go and sit down and the doctor will come and talk, and the doctor’s maintaining a high level of professionalism,” T.I. said. “He’s like, ‘Well you know, sir, I have to [have Deyjah's signed consent], to share information’ — I’m like, ‘Deyjah, they want you to sign this so we can share information. Is there anything you would not want me to know? See, Doc? Ain’t no problem.’ ”
The rapper indicated his daughter’s gynecologist also explained other ways a hymen can become stretched open, such as riding a bike, horseback riding or other physical activities.
“I say, ‘Look doc — she don’t ride no horses, she don’t ride no bikes, she don’t play no sports, man — just check the hymen, please, and give me back my results expeditiously.” He added: “I will say, as of her 18th birthday, her hymen is still intact.”
TI and Deyjah Harris have not commented since the podcast was released, though Harris has liked tweets condemning her father, including one that described his behaviour as “disgusting, possessive and controlling”. TI’s daughter Deyjah Harris has [since] unfollowed him on Instagram following claims he regularly escorts her to the doctor to check if her hymen is still intact.
https://news.yahoo.com/ti-daughter-unfol…
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Fucking creepy!
SJG
SJG
What a gentleman.
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+5
It's none of his business.
At least he's doing something. Probably a bit too far. I think that's between him and the daughter honestly. But at the end of the day he cant save even his own daughter from herself if she makes a mistake.
Someday she'll be taking T.I. in for his regular shock therapy treatments.
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Odd for a rapper.
daughter blowing some douche than getting pregnant by one.
Prior to her 18th birthday, I would go as high as +5. His daughter is not of legal age to consent, living under his roof, and is his responsibility. Ensuring that she is being honest and responsible wrt to any sexual activities is a legit parental concern.
After her 18th birthday, unconditional -5. She's a grown-ass woman, can make her own decisions, and own the consequences of those decisions.
The guy I helped put into San Quentin did conduct himself in similar ways with his daughters. And it was all used to help get him convicted.
SJG
Maybe I'm a little biased, since all of my kids actually told me when they were planning on losing their "V-Card", and when they actually did.
But she's 18, her vagina is no longer any of his business at all.
Man now in San Quentin had to have that demonstrated to him in a criminal jury trial.
SJG
Of course as George points out, a relationship with your daughter that lets he tell you about that is way more healthy than what this idiot did.
SJG
And I got to read in the Police Report how they did not see things the way that this guy was explaining them to be.
This girl should refuse the medical exam, and consider a lawsuit. Ask her to PM me here and I'll find her a suitable attorney in her area.
SJG
I'd give it a solid 0. It could be worse, he could care less, or make her stay on lockdown until she's married...like a mormon. OR he could be absent entirely. This is a very opinionated subject apparently.
If you're seeing a girl, and you're not willing to get to know her parents, you probably have bad intentions.
That being said, a lot of parents have a tendency to not adequately explain why they do what they're doing. That's the #1 reason in my experience why teenagers break rules and act out is because teenagers fundamentally don't understand why the rules are there. They were just told to follow them because its the parents' rules, and if you're a rebellious teenager, obeying authority for the sake of obeying authority is the exact opposite of what you want to do.
LG
But back on topic, minus-5, just plain idiotic and possibly traumatic, not only having to go spread your legs and have your pussy probed by some strange old dude, but that asshole letting the world know about it. How fucking embarrassing for her.
And one more thing, medical professionals have long maintained the absence of a hymen doesn’t necessarily indicate the girl/woman is not a virgin.
Yes, it was a news item back when Diana and Charles were moving towards marriage, and officials who deal with the Royals got involved.
To know more I would have to try and do some searching.
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If you're seeing a girl, and you're not willing to get to know her parents, you probably have bad intentions. "
I do not agree with this. Many parents have bad intentions. Some girls would not want their parents to know who they are seeing.
At a minimum, the parents represent a kind of social conformity. Most always a negative.
And no, a parent does not have any need to do any vaginal inspection. Girls over puberty would not like that. They should refuse. If their is a problem, just dial 911, or join TUSCL and PM me.
SJG
I will concede though that if the matter is in dispute, then it will take more than this to settle the matter.
SJG
Local guy who thought he had the right to order his daughters on how to conduct such affairs. That became a part of his case. I helped to get him convicted and to get a sentence which might exceed his lifetime.
SJG
We all have things we do, that we won’t tell others. I’d hate to hear about the shit TI thinks is too creepy to mention publicly.
This is a different type of creepiness than SJG - who continues to set the standard for an Uber-creep.
If the doctor did do it, even with a minor child, I think there is grounds for a lawsuit. Such procedures should only be conducted when there is medical need.
Of the case in question I think it should be in the hands of LE right now. That is how I would handle it if it were close to home.
SJG
Given the number of women who end up in abusive relationships. I think she kind of does.
For a minor, no she still does not have to have her parent's permission and they cannot brow beat her or otherwise try to force info out of her.
The man I mentioned above, the jury got to hear about and see pictoral evidence of all that he did, and it did influence their verdict and his sentence.
Case started when the youngest girl, 13yo 8th grade said some things to an intern youth councilor which did not sound right. That Intern then did exactly what the law required. Without consulting with her supervisor she asked some more questions and the wrote it up and faxed it to both Police and Child Protective Services. Soon police were tracking down the eldest daughter, and then they used a different Detective to do a video taped interview with each family member.
Then charges were filed and the defendant was arrested.
SJG
"In 1981 when Lady Diana Spencer was about to marry Prince Charles and become Princess Diana, her virginity was a huge issue. Several magazines and newspapers reported at the time that the soon-to-be Princess Di was examined by Dr. Pinker, surgeon-gynecologist to the Queen, to ensure that she had an intact hymen (which, btw, isn’t always a sign of virginity). In fact, many theorize that Queen Elizabeth chose Diana for Prince Charles because she was as “innocent” as can be. Princess Diana’s uncle Lord Fermoy, even took to the press to uphold her good name. “Purity seems to be at a premium when it comes to discussing a possible bride for Prince Charles at the moment… Diana, I can assure you, has never had a lover,” he told The Daily Star, according to Tina Brown’s book, The Diana Chronicles."
https://themerlions.com/2018/05/31/megha…
Look dude, I don't give a rat's ass whether it's true or not. But why do you have your panties in a bunch about it? Still whacking it to her memories? It's time to move on. Do like me, instead, and stroke it to Megan Markle. She exudes sexuality, and I'm fairly certain she didn't need to have her pussy examined to determine her virginity before marrying Harry.
Cheers.
Much better to have a relationship built on trust and communication. Ever hear of Preacher's Kid Syndrome? If the reins are held too tight for too long, kids go absolutely wild at their first taste of freedom to make up for lost time.
SJG
SJG
SJG
The guy I helped put into San Quentin was using shame and humilation, and this helped to get him convicted.
SJG
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Also, this Pentecostal Molester might not live long enough.
I'll be attentive. Really what I would like is to incarcerate a lot more of the people from his church, cause they do the same types of things to their children.
SJG
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