what would you do?
poledancer83
Narnia
This song keeps me grounded alot. What would you do if your son was at home crying all alone on the bedroom floor cause he's hungry, and the only way to feed him is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money.... Thats a deep lyric. Somewhere out there is a girl that's auditioning for a porn shoot or starting to strip or hook for money. I think adult entertainment is a blessing and a curse because what other means could a girl with no education make the money they make. With that being said i believe the psychological effects are real and detrimental in most cases. The problem becomes.. just as the song says... what would you do?
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Assuming I had a child by “accident” without it being clear baby daddy is going to provide, and also without me having a secure income stream to have a child, then what I would do is...
(I think the idea of accidental pregnancies are baloney but I won’t get further into that.)
...Part-time pharmacy tech or some other entry level job in the medical field. Work just enough hours to get health insurance.
And then some type of sales job for the rest of it, for the $$ potential.
I freaking love dancing for the lifestyle it enables me to have. And freedom and flexibility. But children are a freedom and flexibility killer, and I don’t see much upside in that.
There are usually other options. These can include welfare, food stamps, etc., but I'd also point out that a pretty girl can also get a job waitressing or bartending (in or out of a strip club).
But I don't judge when I find out that a stripper is a single mom. I have no idea what her specific situation is and it's none of my business.
poledancer83 said "at no point in time is trading sex for cash a convient thing to do"
I agree with both of you...
This is funny how dugan portrays himself as the greatest human being, a righteous christian, highly successful chemical engineer, family man, and passes judgement on others. Yet he participates in what he seems to condemn by paying for sex, then says there is no reason for women to provide sex for money. I find this hypocrisy amazing. Keep preaching rick!
Clearly that's not the case for some or else they would avail themselves of the numerous other options discussed above instead of selling sex for money. Duh. 😉
No wonder illegal immigrants so often feel contempt for American born poor people. Seriously, they come to a place where food is so abundant that it's being given away for free, where jobs are plentiful for those who have papers, where charitable organizations offer so much to anyone who asks and where opportunities for advancement exist for anyone willing to work hard. Then they see this perpetual victim mentality of our poorest folks and they just scratch their heads, a mentality perpetual sadly perpetuated by a certain political class.
Oh, and I speak of all of this from personal experience. I dragged myself out of poverty at a young age. Now I have routine exposure to an immigrant community and am involved in giving back to may charitable organizations. In this country, there is always a way to improve your lot. If you are selling sex for cash, it is sure as fuck because it's the most convenient option to you.
In this country the more tolerance you have for suffering the better off you will be in the long run.
My parents were hardcore, if we were hungry they'd tell us to sleep it away.
Nobody sold drugs or ass to get us through it. Only told us to build our tolerance for suffering.
A lot of strippers (sex workers) actually have a very low tolerance for suffering so they seek the quick comfort even though in the long run, it doesn't get them to a better place.
When Kids cry, teach them to do something different than you did so they won't have the same future.
https://www.foodpantries.org/ci/mn-minne…
https://www.homelessshelterdirectory.org…
So Good Lord go eat and feed your kid if you are hungry. Some are both soup kitchen and food pantry.
I can also provide you with links to assistance with housing, electricity bills and job placement if you would like. We live in a country full of on-the-ground charitable organizations willing to help with a variety of things as long as the recipient is willing to take the first step.
There, I have done my educational good deed for the day and dispelled some goofy myths in the process. 😉
Knowing that a woman dancing on my lap may or not be doing so to cope with a difficult life situation - while making it seem that she likes doing so, for my entertainment - is exactly the reason I don't push limits, and try to act 'respectful' within the 'bizarro world' of strip clubs.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OKjgf5mB…
How did you know I am a girl? Or is it that you are insecure in your manhood and need to call me a girl 😂
I will only comment on the the original post. Seems a single mother (where's the deadbeat father?), no education (where were her folks?), and no personal responsibility!
Not my problem. The bleeding heart libs that created that part of society can feel the guilt and deal with it, not me!
I guess I could walk up to a girl and rub my balls on her - and ask her to pay me to go away?
There's a silver lining everywhere - even if its a sticky silver lining....
Correct, as I stated.
BTW, just how much extra money do you send the IRS? There is no limit! You libs can send all your money and be happy. And I'll happily give you credit for helping keep those the don't care about themselves moving on!
My friend, life choices have consequences. Live with it!
In places where jobs are scarce many men leave their families behind and go to foreign countries in search of work. They send much of what they earn back home to feed and care for a family they never get to see anymore.
When all else fails, some men will resort to crime in a desperate attempt to care for their families.