Why Pay for Sex When You Can Get It for Free?
reverendhornibastard
Depraved Deacon of Degeneracy
I can only speak confidently for myself on the issue of why people pay for sex when they can get it for free, but let me take a crack at this.
1. Some people are penny pincher. They refuse to pay for sex and are satisfied being desplooginated by whatever pro bono desploogination services are available to meet their desploogination needs. This is not me. I’m not a penny pincher.
2. Some people equate sex with love and won’t consider sex with anyone they don’t love. I’m not knocking this viewpoint even though I never really understood it and certainly don’t subscribe to it. Yes, I agree that sex with someone you love CAN be great but it isn’t inherently great. I’ve been in love with a couple of women who were rather boring between sheets. I still loved them despite the lackluster sex but I didn’t kid myself that I was having superlative sex with them.
3. Some people (I’m not one of them despite my wisecracks to the contrary) actually PREFER to pay for sex. A good friend of mine used to ask the question, “Why get it for free when you can pay for it?” I thought it was funny but couldn’t relate to the sentiment.
4. Some people think paying for sex is the kinder, more sensitive thing to do when you’re seeking variety and sexual adventure but are not interested in embarking on another serious relationship. I fall solidly into this category. I think getting sex for free from women I only recently met is a lot more fun. I long ago learned to enjoy the hunt. I find it more emotionally and sexually gratifying to woo a woman, and make her want me before I grab her by the haunches and hump her into submission. But is this really fair? If I woo a woman and induce her to take an emotional interest in me when I have no intention of following through after I have spray painted her cervix with my splooge, this is both deceitful and hurtful. I did this for a while but came to dislike myself when I realized I was making nice, trusting women cry for no good reason. Playing with an honest woman’s emotions just to notch another conquest to gratify my ego was too wretched even for me. So I switched (reluctantly) to desploogination service professionals. No matter how good it is, sex with a desploogination service professional is less satisfying than it is with a woman who enthusiastically coaxes the splooge out of you because she genuinely enjoys being around (or under) you.
5. Some guys just can’t find any women who are willing to desplooginate them unless they are getting paid for the service. (Isn’t that right, Icey?)
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1. Some people are penny pincher. They refuse to pay for sex and are satisfied being desplooginated by whatever pro bono desploogination services are available to meet their desploogination needs. This is not me. I’m not a penny pincher.
2. Some people equate sex with love and won’t consider sex with anyone they don’t love. I’m not knocking this viewpoint even though I never really understood it and certainly don’t subscribe to it. Yes, I agree that sex with someone you love CAN be great but it isn’t inherently great. I’ve been in love with a couple of women who were rather boring between sheets. I still loved them despite the lackluster sex but I didn’t kid myself that I was having superlative sex with them.
3. Some people (I’m not one of them despite my wisecracks to the contrary) actually PREFER to pay for sex. A good friend of mine used to ask the question, “Why get it for free when you can pay for it?” I thought it was funny but couldn’t relate to the sentiment.
4. Some people think paying for sex is the kinder, more sensitive thing to do when you’re seeking variety and sexual adventure but are not interested in embarking on another serious relationship. I fall solidly into this category. I think getting sex for free from women I only recently met is a lot more fun. I long ago learned to enjoy the hunt. I find it more emotionally and sexually gratifying to woo a woman, and make her want me before I grab her by the haunches and hump her into submission. But is this really fair? If I woo a woman and induce her to take an emotional interest in me when I have no intention of following through after I have spray painted her cervix with my splooge, this is both deceitful and hurtful. I did this for a while but came to dislike myself when I realized I was making nice, trusting women cry for no good reason. Playing with an honest woman’s emotions just to notch another conquest to gratify my ego was too wretched even for me. So I switched (reluctantly) to desploogination service professionals. No matter how good it is, sex with a desploogination service professional is less satisfying than it is with a woman who enthusiastically coaxes the splooge out of you because she genuinely enjoys being around (or under) you.
5. Some guys just can’t find any women who are willing to desplooginate them unless they are getting paid for the service. (Isn’t that right, Icey?)
https://www.tuscl.net/photo.php?id=1976
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I don’t want to get emotionally involved with women right now. That might change in the future but the ex-cunt left me wanting to be free of that kind of thing for now.
So I pay them. Since finding out strip clubs are more than show recently, I’ve almost stopped seeing hookers (at least the kind that advertise) and have my fun in clubs. It’s cheaper than keeping a woman happy just to have sex with her.
As a married man, I don't really want an "affair". I just want non-committable sex with a pretty girl. And I'm willing to pay for it. Would I rather get it for free? Sure. But I don't want the headaches of doing the dating scene.
After an exhilarating ride you’re finished you just pay your bill and walk away.
You don’t worry about maintenance costs, mileage creep or “hair pollution” in the back seat ( https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=… ).
1. Youre basically saying that you can't get women you're attracted to, to fuck you for free so you're happy paying women more attractive than you could otherwise get, to fuck you.
2. You're saying you never understood intimacy and the special connection between two people that makes sex so amazing simply because its something you yourself have never experienced.
3. This is nonsense. I guarantee there is no man out there who would pay to fuck the girl they want when they could have her for free. Again, it goes back to your point 1.... some men, like you, would rather pay to fuck than fuck someone in their league...
4. So you'd rather have sex for free, but can't get it from the women you want so you settle for paying hookers and convince yourself its better to cheat on your wife with pros than it is to just fuck someone in your own league...
5. You by your own admissions pay for sex because the type of women you want won't fuck you for free.
I don't see a big deal in paying for something you want. Is it wrong to go out to a nice restaurant when you or your partner aren't very good cooks? Is it wrong to see a professional (Doctor, mechanic, etc.) to do jobs you cannot do yourself.
Sometimes you don't want the hassle of getting all of the raw materials and putting something together yourself.....so you hire a pro to do it for you.
Payment can take many forms - time and effort spent courting, gifts, dates, promises of commitment/fidelity, emotional or financial support, or cold hard cash.
"Free sex" to me is being able to consistently walk up to any girl I want and have no strings attached sex with her that same day.
Almost no guy that isnt a perfect 10 male model celebrity can pull that off with any sort of reliable consistency.
Men who huff and puff about how they are "too good" to pay for sex are either
A. Jealous broke losers who wish they could afford the luxury of no strings attached sex with a beautiful woman instead of jumping through a 100 hoops for their "free" sex from their mediocre girlfriend.
Or
B. Wannabe PUA/cassanova beta male types who live for constant validation from women.
Me personally, Im an attractive guy who had had both "free" sex and paid sex. The "free" sex always costed me more....always.
We arent driven by this all consuming need for female validation and approval like you are.
Some of the freakiest and sexually enthusiastic women ive been with have been girls i paid...conversely ive had some pretty bad "free" sex.
Im way past your high school mentality worrying about whether handing over green slips of paper for sex is "uncool" to people i couldnt give 2 fks about
"I don't mind spending money in the club."
"If I fuck a stripper...... "
"I offer to pay the house fee, tip out and fine for leaving early) and smoke some weed."
"I don't mind doing normal things like giving her weed, alcohol if she can't buy it, or some money to get her eyebrows or nails done... a bill here and there..."
"Yeah, Im fine with the sugar daddy aspect. Im not naive to think she'd be with me if I were broke."
"Don't care where I met her and have no problem spending the money, its not an issue."
"And I agree, its really weird that she would cut off the $$$. You'd think she'd want to push it. And at this stage while I know itll hurt in the long run, Id be down with it. She knows I'll spend it on her.It was pretty much like we were living in a hip hop video...materialistically, it was there for her. Designer shoes, bags, clothes, the best weed, expensive restaurants. She grew up poor and likes fast money..."
"Im hoping if nothing else, she misses the money. She won't find this elsewhere...it was a lot. A few hundred a day, some days over a thousand."
"... I'd even be fine with it just being about money if she just stays and acts normal."
So P4P for me is instant gratification w/ NSA on either side - I get what I want/need and she gets what she want$/need$.
And as the saying goes "there's no such thing as a free lunch".
It's basic supply & demand economics - men provide the demand and there are women willing to provide the supply - like many other business opportunities.
Fact is males and females are wired differently w.r.t. sex and this is evident in pretty-much all species.
Women enjoy sex...but they are no where near as indiscriminate as men are in who they would fk nor are they willing to do all the stupid/dangerous/risky things men would do to get laid.
Women sure as hell dont pay for sex - there are no where near as many male strip clubs or straight male escorts....
If women were truly wired like men were....the world would be one giant gay bath house and we would still be living in mud huts lol
Nothing unnatural here.....
- IceyDodo, June 30, 2018
Justin Bieber, back in his heyday, was caught leaving a well known brothel in brazil. This man had women literally offering themselves on a silver platter. Was he a loser trick?
In my case....if hookers were turned off by the act of me giving them money to fk...why are they seemingly enjoying themselves just as much as i am....i can feel how wet and turned on they are...they are kissing me and giving me sloppy bjs...so what gives here??
SJG
Would you come back to the hooker if she made her disgust clear and apparent? She's giving you what you paid for, doesn't mean she likes it lol
Most folks actually do see things my way. That's why you tricks are semi anonymous on here, discuss how to hide shit from your wives and community and are afraid of LE.... you wouldn't openly brag about the shit you do.
The more Icey posts, the more sense that he/she makes, lol. Some guys do indeed use strippers to fill a void that they can't fill with civilian women. It's also true that humans are as subject to the Law of Natural Selection as any species - not every man is going to reproduce.
But I think it's going a little far to say that p4p is going against nature, lmao. After all, it's not like these girls are any more eager than civilian women to have babies with these types, they just want to get paid for a momentary physical transaction.
Ok, that's as much fun as i want to have with troll posts. Please continue...
As the old expression goes, I don't pay for the sex, I pay her to leave when it's done.
I generally insist on a little more.
I’d like them to do the dishes, take out trash, and go out to fetch me a pizza before they walk home.
- IceyDodo, June 30, 2018
Or an Internet NPC for that matter
And LMFAO she pays stripper whores just like PL "tricks" if not more.
SJG
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SJG