Stripper Shakedown
sinclair
Strip Club Nation
I got a message from a clubber recounting a recent strip club visit. He said a black dancer came to his table and sat down on his lap. He declined getting dances or a champagne room from her. Instead of leaving to go work other patrons, she said that she was going to continue sitting on him until he gave her $20. She said if he tried to get up, she'd make a scene of getting knocked to the floor and have the bouncers kick him out. He waited five minutes and her weight was cutting the circulation in his leg. He then paid the dancer $20 and she went away.
He asked me what I would have done in the same situation.
I told him this is why you do squats at the gym. I would've asked her politely to get off my lap several times and when she refused, I would have stood up and knocked her onto the floor. I personally wouldn't care if management had sided with the dancer and kicked me out or dropped the ban hammer. I have been kicked out of many clubs for bullshit reasons.
Although I don't agree with his decision to allow himself to be shaked down for money, I understand most guys regularly visit just a handful of local clubs and are scared of getting banned from somewhere they are a regular. Rewarding dancers for this kind of scamming just reinforces their decision to do it on future customers.
He asked me what I would have done in the same situation.
I told him this is why you do squats at the gym. I would've asked her politely to get off my lap several times and when she refused, I would have stood up and knocked her onto the floor. I personally wouldn't care if management had sided with the dancer and kicked me out or dropped the ban hammer. I have been kicked out of many clubs for bullshit reasons.
Although I don't agree with his decision to allow himself to be shaked down for money, I understand most guys regularly visit just a handful of local clubs and are scared of getting banned from somewhere they are a regular. Rewarding dancers for this kind of scamming just reinforces their decision to do it on future customers.
37 comments
Nothing scares a cockroach like a bright light.
there's gotta be a decent lie he could've made up to get her off of him, without him paying
If that's not possible, I'd push her off and deal with the consequences.
If he from the beginning politely asked her to leave and she did not, then I would try to get the attention of a bouncer or manager and calmly ask for assistance.
I read the situation as her inviting herself to his lap and he just being polite instead of shooing her away even though he was not interested - strip clubs are the dancers' turf in large-part bc they know the scene much better than the avg inexperienced custy - the avg inexperienced custy is often easily intimidated thinking the stripper just has to snap her fingers and the bouncers will pounce on him which is not the case except in some rare occasions - I've had more bouncers/staff take my side than the other way around (in the few instances staff has gotten involved and I was in the right to begin with).
If he wanted to get nasty with it start shouting exactly what was happening. Make a huge scene.
If I enjoyed her company and took up her time, and especially if I was feeling her up, I feel obligated to tip her if not getting dances from her for w/e reason (I'm cognizant time is $$$ for dancers).
But I read this particular situation as him just being a custy that has a hard time saying "no" which is not uncommon for.l many PLs especially the inexperienced ones.
The bottom line is dancers know many guys that go to strip clubs are beta males that can be easily manipulated. Don't be a bitch boy that gets cucked by sex workers.
He could’ve also called me over I’m sort of an expert in having girls run away from me. It’s sort of knack I’ve had all my life.
I may have flagged a waitress over and asked her to send a bouncer or manager over.
I think Clubber had the best suggestion though.
I'll never understand why clubs let dancers using an intimadation hustle to work in their club.
Clubber’s solution is probably a good one if you don’t want confrontation. Dumping her on the floor would more satisfying. Even if I did get kicked out it would probably be worth it.
Then take her home with you and continue to see her regularly.
SJG
san_jose_guy - commonly referred to as SJG this forum member is usually mocked or ignored, his comments should NOT be taken in any way as legitimate
But I still suspect that if it had been me, my wallet would have been lightened, but I'd of had a steamy front room makeout session with her, back room load or two into her, and then continuing in my own bed or motel with her, and then continuing to see her regularly.
SJG
You should PM this thread to the guy that sent you his PM
:) :) :)
SJG
san_jose_guy - commonly referred to as SJG this forum member is usually mocked or ignored, his comments should NOT be taken in any way as legitimate
https://youtu.be/MveqDZviuig
Was this someone on this site?
Otherwise, I'd just call her bluff and get up and leave to another seat. I definitely wouldn't pay her. Nor even humor her attempts.
Odds are the bouncer would take your side if you were spending money or are known at the club. If not, leaving wouldn't have been a problem.