Help Me ! I think I am addicted to Sugar !
Warrior15
Anywhere there are Titties.
A few months ago, we had several discussions about sugar babes and Seeking Arrangements. The idea was extremely interesting to me but I just didn't have the guts to try it. Well, 3 weeks ago I took the plunge. Bot a 3 month membership for $239. Oh My !
I put up a profile but wanted to protect my privacy. For my photo, I walked into the bathroom, put my phone in front of my face and took a picture of the mirror. They can see my polo shirt and my bald head. I didn't even bother putting in private photos. I have done virtually no "hunting" on my own. I have searched thru the many profiles and looked at some girls. But almost all of the interaction with different girls, they initiated it. Seeking says there are 4 girls for every guy. I would believe it base on what I have seen so far.
I get "Favorited" about a dozen times a day. This is equivalent to a Wink on Match.com. The girl hits your profile as a Favorite meaning she is telling you she is interested. Then the conversation starts. Of the 12 girls that Favorite me each day, 5 are from other countries ( probably a scam), and another 5 are big fatties/uglies/oldies that I have no interest in. But I get one or two hits each day from some little hottie that looks very interesting.
Right after I joined, I knew that I was going to take a 3 day trip to Ft Lauderdale, so I put that on my profile as a Secondary Location. I ended up with dates for each night I was there. I normally go to the local strip clubs when I'm in South Florida. No need to go into a strip club on this visit.
In the 3 weeks I have been a member, I have now fucked 5 different girls ranging in ages 19-27. My tact on each date is to take them to a nice restaurant, get some wine in them, then start the negotiation. The meals have cost me almost as much as what I"m paying the girls. The $$ range on the 5 girls I have had is $200 to $400. I did have a commitment for a date from one girl though that wanted to negotiate before we met. I"m glad she did that as she wanted $1500. On to the next one.
If this discussion topic is coming across as a bit of a brag ???? Maybe it is.
I put up a profile but wanted to protect my privacy. For my photo, I walked into the bathroom, put my phone in front of my face and took a picture of the mirror. They can see my polo shirt and my bald head. I didn't even bother putting in private photos. I have done virtually no "hunting" on my own. I have searched thru the many profiles and looked at some girls. But almost all of the interaction with different girls, they initiated it. Seeking says there are 4 girls for every guy. I would believe it base on what I have seen so far.
I get "Favorited" about a dozen times a day. This is equivalent to a Wink on Match.com. The girl hits your profile as a Favorite meaning she is telling you she is interested. Then the conversation starts. Of the 12 girls that Favorite me each day, 5 are from other countries ( probably a scam), and another 5 are big fatties/uglies/oldies that I have no interest in. But I get one or two hits each day from some little hottie that looks very interesting.
Right after I joined, I knew that I was going to take a 3 day trip to Ft Lauderdale, so I put that on my profile as a Secondary Location. I ended up with dates for each night I was there. I normally go to the local strip clubs when I'm in South Florida. No need to go into a strip club on this visit.
In the 3 weeks I have been a member, I have now fucked 5 different girls ranging in ages 19-27. My tact on each date is to take them to a nice restaurant, get some wine in them, then start the negotiation. The meals have cost me almost as much as what I"m paying the girls. The $$ range on the 5 girls I have had is $200 to $400. I did have a commitment for a date from one girl though that wanted to negotiate before we met. I"m glad she did that as she wanted $1500. On to the next one.
If this discussion topic is coming across as a bit of a brag ???? Maybe it is.
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You can kind of tell from the interaction after you start the messaging. In most of my cases, the girl told me what they were looking for.
I have also heard that any "transactional" or pay-per-visit talk using SA communication channels is a great way to get banned quickly.
You can get away with PPM talk as long you don't mention sex in any way.
But perhaps I missed something via founder.
Also, most of the better quality SB's want something more than a one night stand. If they know you are going to be in their city for only a couple days, banging them once for a couple hundred bucks and taking off, they will not bother with you. Many want a steady flow of income for college, rent, etc. The "SB's" who are okay with being fucked once and ditched are usually the girls who are closer to full time prostitutes than college student.
Vegas and Miami are places where young hot chicks like to visit, or relocate, to party.
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Yes, of course. And insisting on at least one unpaid, platonic, date weeds out 99% of the transplants from Backpage. If you're sleeping with five girls per week on the first date, you're far more likely to be sampling from the Backpage population. Not being judgmental; if that's what you want, then fine.
I "may" be insinuating that I want a first date to see if I want a long term arrangement. That probably has something to do with my success. And these have all been either college girls or girls that have a jobs that don't quite give them the lifestyle they want. And I probably will keep seeing a couple of them.
To Sinclair's point above, I have not figured out that you don't have to take them to a really nice place on that first date. I like to go to nice places with some arm candy, so those places are for me as much as them. But one of the girls even suggested we just get room service at the hotel. She was the 19 year old college girl. She also told me what wine to have in the room. She didn't have a fake ID.
(I’m sorry, I couldn’t resist)
Oddly enough, upon first meeting Muddy my first thought was “I wonder if this guy is related to Warrior”
I"m having fun now. But in all honesty, if I can find 4-5 college girls to have fun with from time to time, then I probably will stop. I bot 3-months with a paid up credit card. I probably will not renew if that works out.
Good Times, Good Times.
You Wrote:
“In the 3 weeks I have been a member, I have now fucked 5 different girls ranging in ages 19-27
Pics or it didn’t happen!! 😊
You also wrote:
“In the photos, each one looks like a 8 or 9. In reality, they were 7-8's.”
Where would they “look” like that?
It is is important to know what part of the country; (THE WEST COAST, EAST COAST, MIDWEST, AND SOUTH)
Keep in mind that within those regions, each state also has it’s own hotness scale.
However beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Keep having fun, and let us know more details and post some pics...
The photos the girls have in the profiles make them look awesome. All the girls I have ended up with so far have been very cute, but a few of them weren't quite as gorgeous as their profile photos looked.
All this activity has been in Florida, either Tampa or Ft Lauderdale. Two Latinas, three white girls.
I think Papi is probably right above though. I think the inventory of SA girls differs greatly with what city you are in.
(A)Is the $200 - $400 for her to spend the whole night with your OR Just for her to spend an hour with you?
(B)So assuming you spend let say $200 for dinner which sounds about right for a dinner for two with a glass of wine right here in Florida
At the lowest spectrum you’re spending at least a minimum of $400 for the whole date OR a maximum of $600 on the highest spectrum...
To me that sounds like a lot of money to spend on a date:
Putting everything in comparison you can probably get a lot more for your money at a latina Massage Parlours littered all over Florida OR better still at a Strip club were extras are a given
i.e. At a Latina Massage Parlour an hour = $60 paid to the establishment & then you’re allowed to choose whichever girl you want & negotiate both the price & activity you want...
I usually offer them anywhere from $100 - $140 for an hour of fun...
My aim is always never to go above $200/visit...
And nothing like massages actually goes on in these Latina Massage Parlours, only extras more like a whore house...
And the girls are hot just like the Cuban Hotties you normally run into at Diamond Dolls Pompano Beach...
If the $200 -$400 is for the Sugar Baby to spend the whole night with you then it’s a great deal...
If the $200 - $400 is just for the Sugar Baby to spend an hour with you then that sure more like a bad deal to me...
I don't call telling people that prostitutes will have sex with you if you pay them pay bragging.
Have typically met the sugar babes for cocktails or a casual bite at a decent restaurant to guage compatibility.
Over the past few months I Have connected with 6 hot coeds ranging from 19 - -25 yrs old. Also one 29 year old traveling nurse who was crazy AF and a hell of a good time. $300 each event. Two spent the nite and we had another run at it
Have also had multiple visits with two of them and also a couple threesomes
I’m not super handsome super hung or super rich. Just a guy with a good paying job with disposable income and a little bit of texting game.
Apparently many of the guys on the site are total douche bags and start asking for nudes or sex right out of the gate. Glad they are on the site. Makes me look like a prize.
I’ve enjoyed sugaring / OTC for about a year now and lately only go into the club if I want a cheap random blow job / fuck from some strange babe.
Life is good for this 50 somethingI old fart
I sometimes think about taking the plunge, especially when so many make it sound so easy for a 50-something year-old to be banging college-aged babes.
But the whole process just sounds too complicated to me, signing up for $$$ with no guarantee of success and then having to sort out the BS of scammers just wanting money for nothing or the deceptive ones who don't look nearly as good as their pics or the bitches with golden pussy syndrome asking for outrageous donations.
I applaud you and others who've had success, and hope it continues for you.
Maybe I'll eventually take the dip (I feel like my clock is ticking), but for now, I prefer the anonymous, NSA encounters in TJ bars and erotic massage establishments in GTA.
I had lots of women contact me even though I used the same ridiculous name on that site as I do on this one.
I never met any of the women who contacted me via that site. From their profiles alone, it seemed to me that all the women on that site stank to high heaven.
I deleted my profile within 2-3 weeks of creating it.
Agree with @Flag that bragging about paying for sex is idiotic in this context or with stripper OTC for that matter. I'm sometimes guilty of bragging, myself. However, the top SBs get hundreds of responses and they pick and choose who they want to see. So while the sugaring scene qualifies as a benign form of prostitution, it's far different than calling an escort. Also I've read enough posts over the years on the sugaring forum to know that many sugar relationships transition to unpaid and the real thing over time. In that case, the age difference usually isn't that large.
@Burlington made a similar post right after SESTA/FOSTA and bragged about sleeping with eight SA girls in a month. He was perplexed about why these girls were calling back to see him again. @Burlingon's a bright guy and he was obviously leading these girls on with idea that he was looking for an arrangement and not pump-and-dump sex. If that's what you want and you can get away with it, then fine. I can assure you that that most of the girls are not looking for pump-and-dump sex and they complain bitterly about the guys who do that. I find it hard to believe that attractive college girls with agree to sleep with some middle-aged guy who's traveling into town for a quick romp and for a few hundred dollars. Unless they're led to believe it's going to something more. Or unless they're really escorts.
Can you use an alias when meeting these gals (even if they have your cell number) and go through the process without them knowing your real identity?
I ask because I’d worry about a vindictive woman trying to blackmail me or out me on social media as a monger or informing my company or showing up at my house if I were married.
Sounds extreme but there’s a lot of weirdos out there these days, as TUSCL goes to prove.
Blackmail happens but I think it is very rare.
And..........sugaring sites are just full of hookers. They just give guys the hustle that works on sites like that.