Strippers?Lesbianism

16 comments

• JamesSD

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  5 years ago

  Ehhh... There's a lot more bisexuality and hetero flexibility among strippers than civvys. I've had some interesting discussions that amounted to it's easier for bisexual (or lesbian) strippers to date each other than deal with make ego and jealousy. But there is a reason there is the stereotype of the stripper supporting her dead beat boyfriend. Lesbians don't support dudes for fun.
• lopaw

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  5 years ago

  Burst my bubble? Lololololol!
• Clubber

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  5 years ago

  I knew my ATF was bi, never bothered me. I used to give her money to tip other dancers if I was going to them them anyway. never met a dancer that admitted she was a lesbian. Would be a rather dumb move in my book. All guys have dancers dance for them as a fantasy of being with them or hoping to do so sometime in the future. Why would a dancer tell them no chance of that happening?
• lopaw

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  5 years ago

  @Clubber- You're right, they wouldn't admit it to a guy. They wouldn't risk hurting their money. But plenty have told me. At the end of the day it's all business.
• herbtcat

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  5 years ago

  Have to call BS on such a broad classification. I have met many strippers who are straight, as well as many who are bi and lesbian. Don't confuse who a stripper WILL fuck with who a stripper PREFERS to fuck. If they are good at what they do (i.e.: make your fantasy seem like it could happen) she will convince you she is whatever you think is hottest. Having said that, my experience is that sex workers are generally much more open to alternate (read: not just straight) lifestyles than those who stay away from the industry. The term "pay for play" is not limited to male porn stars who are straight.
• DandyDan

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  5 years ago

  For one of my old favorites, it was an open secret she was a lesbian. You could tell just by her conversations she was one. I think it was also true she struggled with the idea, probably because she was a small town girl. OTOH, she was also a college volleyball player, albeit a failed one, and acknowledged once the pleasure of seeing her teammates in the shower naked. All this before her stripper career.
• Warrior15

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  5 years ago

  "Burst my bubble"  ???    Heck.  If I know the girl is into other girls, then that turns me on even more.   Let's go find another girl to play with.
• ATACdawg

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  5 years ago

  One of my favs was bisexual by her own admission, and was probably much more towards the lesbian side of the spectrum. Despite that, she was unfailingly hot and I often bought dances from her.
• jackslash

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  5 years ago

  "Your favorite stripper, the one that you spend all your money on, Is actually a lesbian........" How could you possibly know such a thing? You don't know my favs but I do. Outside of work, they have had husbands and boyfriends and children. I know most of them prefer men to women, although most of them are willing to experiment. I'm not offended by any lesbianism. I've enjoyed participating in 3-ways with strippers. I find it exciting to see lesbian play. If a stripper is primarily a lesbian, that is OK with me. It does not hurt me in any way. But don't tell me you know the "real" sexuality of people you have never met.
• northwest101215

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  5 years ago

  I've had several strippers tell me they're bi but I wondered if it was just talk because many guys find it hot.
• Subraman

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  5 years ago

  -->"One of my favs was bisexual by her own admission, and was probably much more towards the lesbian side of the spectrum. Despite that, she was unfailingly hot and I often bought dances from her." Of course, I'd guess for most of us, if she's providing us with an amazing time, who cares if she also likes girls? This is not the hot news OP naively thinks it is. That said, though, I've found they are often bi-curious during their stripping period, and extra bi-for-guys (they know being bi in the club gets them $$$). But, I have literally dozens of strippers on my social media, some from girls as far back as the turn of the century. All the older ones have husbands and/or have gone through a string of boyfriends; the younger ones, still going through a stream of boyfriends. There's sometimes sexy pics of a little playful bi on girls night out. 0 out of dozens is in a lesbian relationship or lesbian marriage, at least not publicly on their social media, not that I've been keeping close tabs on them all. It's "they're all pure lesbians" that's painfully naive and something guys who don't really know any of the girls over the long term, conspiracy-theory-ize in their heads, then regurgitate like it's some controversial secret only they have access to
• SirLapdancealot

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  5 years ago

  Portland has a high percentage of lesbians and yes there are many lesbian strippers. You can't swing a dead cat ITC without hitting one. LOL and I avoid the true ones like the plague. I have always had a good "gay-dar", having gay friends and family and also just good perception. This is a generality only but there's a high chance that most air dancing / dick dodging strippers are true lesbian. Also the ones that give the best attention to women customers. My faves have been mostly straight. My ATF DS is "gay for pay". She gets hit on by women A LOT and always declines, but she will tease and dance for women no different than guy customers. I think it goes both ways, a stripper will always try to appeal to a customer's gender preferences. All that said I don't get true lesbian strippers. Is the money THAT good to put up with a dick in their crotch? I don't know if I could give another dude a lapdance for any amount of money so I can't relate to why a lesbian, a true one, would ever want to be a stripper where 99% of the customers are going to be horny men. Does not compute.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  ugh..... a lot of dancers don't like female customers, a lot don't like dancing for couples and many will refuse. When girls react more enthusiastically to other girls its usually out of comfort, not coz they're lesbians or bi. Usually when they say they're bi its coz they think it turns you on.
• twentyfive

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  5 years ago

  My guess is that true lesbian strippers are a small subset, not very many folks will do gay for pay, and I doubt seriously that strippers are very different than the population in general.
• JamesSD

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  5 years ago

  Subraman, the thing is most bisexual women, even those who can truly date and love both genders, usually end up with men. It could be societal expectations, it could be the desire for biological children or could just be a numbers game (bi and lesbian women are much more rare than straight guys). Also a lot of women will fuck a girl but don't want to date one.
• Subraman

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  5 years ago

  -->"Subraman, the thing is most bisexual women, even those who can truly date and love both genders, usually end up with men." James, I find that believable. But OP didn't say the strippers are all bi, she said they're lesbians. Totally believable that many strippers are bi, or go through a bi phase at the club, or are the stereotypical "bi for the guys", but that as long as she's playing for both teams, there are societal or other reasons they all end up with guys. I'm saying, though: they DO all end up with guys, and that the majority are not lesbians even during the time at their club, they're bi at most Still, have to root for a few, for lopaw :)