What happened to all the young strippers?
MajorBoobage
Chicago
Nowadays, it seems like every club I go into is mostly populated by girls in their late 20s and early 30s, or older. It's like the strippers of yesterday all got older, and never left the profession, and no new blood came in to replace them. A few months ago I even ran into a stripper at a club whom I used to get dances from almost 10 years ago at a different club when she was 19!
So what's the story? Are there no new strippers? Are today's high school graduates going straight to Tinder to find a sugar daddy? Did the Me Too movement drive them all away from a thrilling, profitable career in the sex industry? Or have I finally gotten old enough that the really young ones keep walking right by me?
FWIW, I'm looking mostly at Chicago clubs. I lived in Chicago until 2013, then in Las Vegas until 2016, then came back home. It was shortly after my return that I started noticing I never see college-age strippers anymore.
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But anyway, I'm not seeing it the way you are.
Try finding the non-alcoholic (or fully nude) club(s) in your area (typical training ground for new strippers) and see what's going on there.
normally, i have no clue the age of the stripper i'm talking to unless THEY bring it up. in other words, i never ask their age because i don't care
and nowadays its not easy to tell their age by just looking
Interesting point about non-alcoholic clubs. Back when Industrial Strip was NA (and fully nude), I used to go there a lot, and I would see a lot of younger strippers there. Now it's no longer NA, and I don't go there because it's topless only and there are full nude clubs on the Illinois side of the border. And I'm not sure there are any other non-alcoholic clubs in the Chicago area. (Maybe Admiral Theater, which is no-touch and therefore no-go.)
Forgive my ignorance, but what the heck is SA?
You nearly read my mind. Except I was thinking where are all the naturally beautiful, athletic and very fit young dancers. I still see a decent amount of younger girls. I feel it's way more common to see tasteless tats, heavy makeup, bad hairdos/nails, bolt-ons top, and bottom. Occasionally, I still meet some truly beautiful women, just seems less frequent.
Maybe @NJBalla hit it on the head? Maybe I just notice these things more? Maybe I'm just getting a lot pickier? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I too prefer a more experienced woman with a great personality nowadays :)
SA => Seeking Arrangements website(s) => Sugar Babies
Agree about SF degradation in quality and shift sizes. GC was a poor experience, like a desert, my last visit even with a huge convention in town. A lot of experienced women left complaining about new laws and huge club cuts of 60%. Met a couple of young ones who claimed to have driven over an hour to work there though.
It's like they have no idea how to ask for a dance. They know they have to walk the room to get dances, but cannot connect the dots.
No doubt. GC is actually an up to date club, with a great layout, buffet, and events in a nice area with convenient access. Even has clean, well lit and furnished bathrooms where I don't feel I need to wear rubber globes and stilts to use the loo like some nasty porta potty, that's never been cleaned at a trucker stop in the middle of nowhere that some lesser clubs have. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
The effect of the employee status has been uniformly disastrous, tons of girls leaving the clubs (or at least the CA clubs) although I would have thought that if any SF club was immune to it, it would be GC. I actually haven't been there in months so haven't seen it first hand
I will tell you many of my better dances come from early 30-something dancers who know what they’re doing and still have social skills.
But SA is a thing. One of my ATFs was always looking for sugar daddies to support camgirl equipment, massage chairs so she could open a legit business, etc. Now she drives for one of those Uberlyft companies and dog-walks through one of those nationally franchised Rover/Spot apps as well. The gig economy does help pay a few bills and doesn’t require costumes, platform stiletto heels, or bearing boobiage to people you end up knowing around town.
@NJBalla: Retail stores are not competing with strip clubs for workers. If a girl is inclined to take her clothes off for $300-500+ per night, something paying $12 per hour is not going to change her mind and these jobs have always existed. The problem for some time was that the earning potential in some clubs was just not making it worth it for young girls to strip and give lapdances, so alluding back to the OP's point, we did see a little aging. But in my area, with new clubs opening, the population booming and lots of money coming back to the clubs, the young girls are starting to outnumber the older ones. Shit, some are even advertising on Facebook.
And in many instances, they might be correct.
The 20 year old dancers aren’t always better looking than the 30 year old veteran, but the the 30-something dancer is usually easier to talk to and much less likely to suffer from GPS.
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Don't worry younger dancers are still aplenty at my club lol! I can confirm this thread to be false.
I have noticed a lot of the early 30's stripper are in better shape than the early 20's strippers at a lot of clubs.
Yeah Idk about that.
Some part of me does wonder though if it’s makeup that’s has changed the appearance of dancers too? Sometime circa 2012 contouring became a thing, or just a general makeup look that’s more “sharp” rather than “soft”
I do question customers ability to be an accurate judge of age when under club lights and the like though. I constantly BS that I’m 21 to customers and I don’t get called out on it.
Just because they don't call you out doesn't mean that they believe you. What is to be gained by calling BS on it?
And to answer the question...
Those 18-22 y.o. strippers are now late 20s and 30s.
There is a lot more sugaring going on with college girls than there used to be.
I don't know if that had been mentioned already, didn't read a lot of the above.
The same gratification,I’m sure, when a good chunk of them them like to knowingly tell me they know my stage name isn’t my real name.
Because it takes a humongous intellect to be able to suss that one out! :D
No shortage of 20ish ones around here. At least not based on their Facebook ages.
------>@IceyLoco: "Subraman, That's bs. You're greatly exaggerating coz of your own political inclinations."
Subraman states fact and I corroborate it. I frequent GC and SF's other TL clubs, not the FN clubs so much and can't comment on those. And politics has nothing to do with my observations or probably his. It's true there was an exodus of good and experienced dancers from the SF TL clubs when the change from independent contractor to employee status occurred which started in Oct 2018. I saw it with my own eyes and my faves who stayed despite the employee classification change confirmed to me it was happening before I saw it for myself. Penthouse SF has still not recovered from the exodus. GC has mostly survived due to partly to influx of new dancers, partly to dancers switching clubs within SF over to GC because GC is the busiest club and the transferees are making best of a bad situation, and partly because the girls who stayed had few alternatives they were willing to pursue (retail jobs, housecleaning, whatever)for reduced income that would've been even worse than the income reduction that accompanied the classification change to employee. Lots of girls that left were ones doing it to supplement income and not as main job and I know because that included a few faves. And Nevada girls who dance in Reno clubs confirm the influx of former California dancers on the weekends where those Cali girls get compensated as ICs by the Reno clubs.
Even the notion that my political beliefs lead to this interpretation is a made up fantasy lol
Even the notion that my political beliefs lead to this interpretation is a made up fantasy lol
Can we just not pay this dumbass any more attention? It's not like she's gonna reason back and forth like a person that's able to have an actual debate.
Ya, shame on me for feeding the obvious troll. Back to ignore for that ignorant troll.
That said, a couple thoughts:
* I think you can tell a true 18- or 19-year-old girl. She can make up her face to look older, and the older ones can make up to look younger. But you can't change your body. Even the hottest, most fit, thinnest 30-year-old is not as thin as a thin 19-year-old, because she hasn't started growing out yet. Those girls who look like you could fit one hand around their waist -- a 30-year-old just can't copy that. (Although I have gotten many, many very good dances from 30-something dancers.)
* These days I'm mostly going to Club 390 and Atlantis. These are upscale for the Chicago area, so they might be cost-prohibitive for younger dancers. If anyone knows what club all the 19-year-olds are at in Chicago, let me know! :)
Atlantis and Club 390 have plenty of under 21 girls, at least for the short time that they work there. There's a paper with a list of names on the wall at both ends of the bar at Atlantis that shows the girls that are on the drink restricted list (probably for the bartender, but also the servers to read as well) with their birth month and year next to their names. There was something like 20+ names on the list with some handwritten additions lately (also a few girls are not allowed to drink because of issues with alcohol). I don't know how many of them still work there, but i would say at least half. 390 has started having the under 21 girls wear a wristband. I don't really see any during the day shift, but on nights and especially weekend nights, they are out there. Unfortunately, 390 has some quick turnover, even quicker than average and even more so with the younger girls that might have issue with fees, management and the heavy mileage expected from PLs.
Your best bet is probably PoleKatz, just from the sheer volume of girls that work there. Over there, they also wear a wristband, the cheap fat plastic tape style used in hospitals and some night clubs. But just like with Atlantis and 390, not every girl that wears them is necessarily underage, just restricted. Mileage is less there and the fees aren't as strict or as high (at least for paying out on dances/rooms) so the girls might stick it out there longer. Also there's the Admiral, but i think you stated you have no interest in that place. If you're willing to drive all the way to Davenport, Iowa (quad cities), there's a club called Daisy Dooks that used to have mostly college aged girls (haven't been there in years though); the other club nearby (Southern Comfort) was more older women though. Also if you go north near Madison, WI, there should be some young girls. Probably not that many near the closer Milwaukee and more black if that's your thing. Those clubs in WI and even IA tend to have even less mileage than the clubs you frequent, even less than PoleKatz. There's also quite a few young prospective strippers in NW Indiana, but they tend to commute to Illinois (390, Atlantis, PoleKatz) rather than work at the dives near them. You might find some at the combo club, Dreamgirls/Deja Vu in Lake Station where one side/floor is the no alcohol Dreamgirls and the other level is Deja Vu, but the customers and girls move back and forth between both clubs. Never been there, but haven't really heard anything good or much at all about that place.
For me, i can take or leave the 18-19 demo. I know the JohnSmith crowd loves to work on them, but the only thing i like about them, besides their slightly more youthful looks, is that they're less "jaded" than the veteran strippers. Which is why i actually prefer baby strippers that start in their 20s, so you get the better of all worlds. They're still young and "fresh", but not as inept in all ways as girls right out of high school. Those few years of life experience really do make a difference...