Ldk

me too.

Are y’all trolling us countryman ?

Damn I should drop everything run to TJ, land of the girls getting 10 dicks a day, no risk of STDs, and a fun, safe city to walk around after shenanigans are done.

I'm still not sure why everyone can't just have their fun in the club without worrying about what the next man is doing. You like Latinas only and only want TJ goddesses? That's great, go do you. Someone else wants LDKs at their own local clubs? Cool, good for them.

Countryman it seems you've been infected with whatever the fuck disease SJG has, where if someone doesn't have your same preferences and wants your response is to ridicule them. What the fuck for?

I could LDK one time, my first all nude lap dance.

Since then I can't LDK no matter how hot she or what she tries.

@TFP because im not ridiculing pl. Im ridiculing the country i am so ashamed of. I am a veteran and i have that right. Mongers like sirlapdancealot being married i inderstand the lure of ldk and non extras clubs. Because he can have fun and know hes not cheating. All married mongers i get it. Single mongers like me i don't. As far as san jose guy i like him. His posts are entertaining and very informative. If pl like myself would stop messing with him shut thier mouths and open their eyes they would learn alot from sjg.

@tfp i do have fun and really don't give a shit what another pl does. Its just if everyone wouls stop supporting these ridicolous non extras clubs they would have to shut down. I will not support the bullshit. Bitches would either have to get real jobs or start giving that pussy up. But no way to many dumbass mongers supporting this shit. Please explain it to me why anyone would want to spend all that money to be blueballed ldk or go home and jackoff please explain it to me.

@sirlapdancealot i understand you are married. I understand tha appeal to you. I could spend thousand from dances from a 10 and would not ldk. I have tried does not happen. The only thing that happens is i leave blueballed. You can go home to your wife my friend. My pl ass goes back home by myself or to big rig. For years i went to non extras clubs spent tons and always felt unhappy when i left. But they are addicting. Then kept thinking bout the fun i had in the navy and my first p4p experience and how beautiful that chica was. So i got into escorts and mps. When i got cancer and survived it let me realize you are not promised tommorow. That you need to live every day like its your last. So i went back to tj and i am hooked. I am a ridicolous bipolar pl. The only woman i ever loved cheated 2 days before we were supposed to get married. So know i only do p4p. I will never open my heart again. I dont want the fantasy when i monger to much good porn for that. I want the experience of fucking all the pretty woman i can. My first p4p was a chica in the zona so that's why i love mexican chicas. I know i opened up to everybody and i can seem like a trolling asshole sometimes and for that i am sorry. You can all make fun of me now if you want i deserve it. I love this board and you are family to me

@ sirlapdancealot thank you for that you are right everyone mongers in their own way. I am sorry if i pissed anyone off

Remember, TJ or US clubs, front room makeout sessions, not buying dances. Then when it is time for your own pants to come down, you invite her to the back room.

SJG

John Mayer - Ain't No Sunshine - Live at the Crossroads Guitar Festival 2010 youtube.com

Gary Clark Jr. - Bright Lights youtube.com

I will do extras if its available, but not for a high price if that makes any sense. I want OTC that happens for like $300 or so where extras may or may not be available. I don't want to rent out a VIP Room for $300 and then spend another $150-200 to get my "extra" as well adding up to a total of $500 just to have sex for 30 minutes in a cramped VIP booth where a bouncer could walk in on me at any moment.

For this purpose, I really don't give a shit if the club is an extras club or not. Even the Follies situation doesn't sound anywhere near as appealing to me as OTC. I think the guys getting LDKs are approaching the situation in a much smarter way by paying $100 and getting grinded til they cum as opposed to a guy shelling out $450 or $500 just to pull his dick out.

Your first post sounded like heavy sarcasm. But your follow-up posts clarify your stance a bit more.

SLD has the exact same feelings I do about the whole matter.

^^^^my last post was directed at Countryman.

Also, I actually like that strip clubs make the experience a little more wholesome actually.

I'm sorry for feeling this way but the idea of a brothel girl taking five dicks before I walked in is kind of gross. Its one thing if she's fucking other guys but numerous guys in the same day just going in and out of her 30 minutes to an hour at a time is just kind of nasty. It makes me feel a lot better thinking that I can do OTC with a girl and think that I'm one of like two-four guys that she may be doing this with on other days of the week and just giving lap dances to the others.

DC....er....CC you obviously haven't been to TJ. As has been stated, there are times you'll see a girl in the club that doesn't get taken arriba at all. There's so much competition that some of the girls get left high and dry. You could easily find one of those girls if that's what bothers you.

Ahem, who's this DC you speak of?

Yeah I haven't been. Fair enough then.

wish i could have been satisfied with a LDK. my only experience of a LDK was really early on in my life.

I have a girl who can get me to LDK twice within a 15 min VIP session Those are the best. I once paid a girl extra to pop twice through FS/BJ but it was exhausting for the both of us. A girl can bounce on your lap and bob her head for so long.

Another

The level of sexual frustration is high. People go for LDKing in strip clubs, they are just paying their own money to exacerbate their own sexual frustration.

SJG

As long as I've been on this site, it still trips me out that SJG is so worried about how other guys have their fun. I don't bother trying to engage him anymore, as I've seen he's incapable of having a conversation.

SLD you have the most thorough breakdown of his what you suspect his mindset is. Yet I still don't get why he worries so much about other guys, to the point of posting in every. single. thread about the same thing.

@TFP

For me, it's fun occasionally to hear his rants and suggestions to things he's never experienced.

@SirLapdancealot

Great analysis, seems right on.

TFP and Cristobal, you poor suck fucks, not even beginning to comprehend what you are missing, and instead talking about escapism.

SJG

To each their own, your money, your time and your entertainment.

As long as your are not hurting anybody, live and let live.

One of my closer friends believes in monogamous relationships and occasionally berates me for my lifestyle choice, it's my life to live: to reap the consequences and enjoy the benefits.

If you enjoy LDKs good for you and enjoy, if you like just getting a good grindy LD go to a SC and enjoy, if you only enjoy FS go your local extras club and party on.

@sjg cristobal aint missing nothing he gets more ass thN a chair

@sjg and tfb has w4 24 reviews to your 0

A strip club has women.

This does not mean that they have to be for 'entertainment' or for 'fun'.

The strip club is a fine tuned well oiled machine for separating marks from their money.

But the women are women. You don't have to take it as it is offered.

SJG

@san_jose_guy

You can call it escapism, nothing wrong with that.

You enjoy your life as you wish, I enjoy mine everyday as I wish.

Separating me from my money is my whole point of mongering, I enjoy the experience.

You are right you don't have to take it as offered, but I enjoy taking it as offered.

I don't need a GFE to enjoy sex but that's just me, it's not my place to condone or condemn anyone's lifestyle choices or preferences.

Cristobal you a cool dude. Just through the words you type on the forum I can tell you have an easy going attitude. Hard to think anyone can find fault with what you say but somehow SJG still has a problem with it.

@TFP

I don't worry about SJG, he's entitled to his opinion, live and let live.

Does anyone else notice a common denominator with a CC99 and a previous member of TUSCL?

Seems to have a similar agenda to someone recently deleted... Just wondering out load.

Lol he's already admitted that he's the recently deleted member. Founder is probably cool with it, as long as his review section pranks are in the past.

Once in while SJG posts a link thats worthwile so I can deal with his nonsense

Recommendation for one of your next 20 link footers SJG Gary Clark Jr - Come Together (Official Music Video) [From The Justice League Movie Soundtrack] youtube.com

@SirLapdancealot

Wow, that is some serious analysis.

PTSD, monger style.

I'm divorced almost 5 years, spent six months sulking, 2.5 years in Vietnamese Bikini Coffee Shops, 1 year in OC & Topless SC (didn't know extras existed), 6 months recovering from Stomach Surgery, and the rest of time partying my ass off in COI and TJ.

That's how I handled my divorce.

PTSD, Cristobal style.

@SirLapdancealot

I figured as much and your analysis and support seem spot on.

I find it humorous and interesting occasionally to respond to his post, especially when I'm bored.

@SirLapdancealot

Not advising, suggesting, or advocating but I from experience much of that destitute might be cured (or at least helped), ironically by getting an LDK or visiting TJ and banging a bargirl PSE.

Mis dos centavos.

@SirLapdancealot

Thanks for tip.

This should be very interesting.

Honestly, SJG is not that bad, he just has a bit of an aggressive arguing style. Contrary to what some people think, me and SJG actually disagree on a lot of things but I still say that SJG is one of my favorite posters on TUSCL because we understand how the other communicates and its not as big of a deal to disagree with him as you guys make it out to be. In my experience he is stubborn in his point of view but that's about it. We argue all the time over PMs but I never take anything he says personally.

Once you understand SJG better, you realize he is actually quite altruistic. His brain is just programmed so differently from yours that its very difficult for you to understand why he does what he does. One very important thing to understand about SJG is that, even though he believes his viewpoints to be correct, he's not actually that interested in lording it over you. Normal people think that all arguing is essentially a way to prove your superiority to somebody which is why they don't tend to like it. Arguing for most normal people is an emotional experience, perhaps a very emotional experience. For SJG and I, its not an emotional experience at all. Its more like playing a game of chess. You want to win, but when your opponent wins and you realize that your logical argument got checkmated, its kind of exciting actually because you've gotten so good at this game that you didn't even realize anyone could checkmate you. Its also exciting to play against somebody who's also very good at this because its much more rewarding to win against them than it is to win against somebody who's never given his opinions much thought and just went with whatever. The way arguments are done though, its hard for a lot of people to realize who really won and who really lost. In-fact, there may not be winners or losers until every logical argument has been perceived to be exhausted. For me and SJG, we essentially just keep the game going all the time. It looks pointless to other people but to us its exciting. We keep going on and on because we want to see who won the game. Normal people tend to prefer that everybody just respect everyone else's opinions and not try to change it because their opinions are attached to their emotions and being forced to reconsider an opinion is an emotionally difficult experience for them. Me and SJG don't feel this though, so its more like a fun game to us.

SJG just believes himself to be really really good at this game on a subconscious level. Basically, you just haven't figured out how to beat his idea yet.

The game is not determined by whether or not your argument is better or not, it's about whether you can make the other person see that they are wrong and so far nobody has beaten SJG and he hasn't beaten anyone else.

I am definitely open to the possibility that it is because I relate to him on an emotional level.

^ Your version of advanced chess, looks a lot like dodgeball , insult intended ;)

. For SJG and I, its not an emotional experience at all. Its more like playing a game of chess. You want to win, but when your opponent wins and you realize that your logical argument got checkmated, its kind of exciting actually because you've gotten so good at this game that you didn't even realize anyone could checkmate you. Its also exciting to play against somebody who's also very good at this because its much more rewarding to win against them than it is to win against somebody who's never given his opinions much thought and just went with whatever. The way arguments are done though, its ha ——-

Dafuq? Did you take double your retard prescription pill tonight?

"And by your own admission you are having a positive emotional experience as you "argue" with san_jose_creep. You contradict yourself in saying you don't have some emotion in your discourse but yet you might connect with him on an emotional level. To me it clearly biases your opinion of him."

That's interesting, I hadn't thought of it that way. In that case it could be a matter of positive emotions felt vs negative emotions.

There are ways to get somebody to agree they're wrong. It is definitely a lot more difficult in a public forum than it is over PMs though.

"which is a game where the solution is a tie unless you are an idiot that lets the other win."

That's why its more interesting to argue thinking that you are right but understanding that you could not be. Losing can be interesting too. It could just be that I want to test the ideas in my head early on because its much easier to move forward once you've either confirmed that idea to be true or are able to dismiss it as false.

"By the way it's not that "deep" to understand that emotion should never play a role in an argument. I think you assume that."

Its more about the fact that there seems to be a large disconnect between the way that SJG and I communicate vs the rest of the forum. So I'm trying to figure out what exactly that is and why I relate to SJG. I agree with some of his opinions and disagree with others, the same could be said for several other people here. But for some reason I feel I relate to him much more strongly than others and I don't know why. Another weird thing seems to be that I, for whatever reason, don't care if he judges me for buying lap dances or smoking weed. Weirdly enough, I do seem to care though when someone judges me for being a young PL who hires hookers and goes to strip clubs. So why the double standard? What's going that makes me perceive what SJG is saying as not being an attack.

Still dodgeball cc keeps getting head shots concussions are cumulative.

CC I agree with SLD that you of all people should have readily realized that SJG is not just 'a little stubborn'. He could be point blank wrong about something and yet still insist that he's right no matter how many people tell him so. A person that never admits they were incorrect about anything is not 'playing a game of chess'. As a matter of fact SLD picked the perfect game, tic tac toe, as a better example. It always ends in a tie unless you or the other person makes an obviously bad move to let the other win.

I can bet money that even without seeing your PMs with him, SJG has never typed the words "I stand corrected" or "wow, I was seeing that wrong" or "I thought this is how something was but you've shown me otherwise". Probably not a single statement close to those phrases.

CC how can you even honestly have a conversation with him? I've read the 'conversations' that you guys have here in public. It's you responding to him and acknowledging his points, and him not acknowledging a word you say unless it falls in line with his regularly regurgitated crap he spews over and over. In a normal conversation you can go back and forth and ask each other questions. Yet in any exchange with him he either ignores your questions or starts the same ass line about his privacy wall. In that same breath he will ask you question after question though.

SJG said that my opinion doesn’t matter because I’m aiding the trolls.

@ nicespice your opinion matters to me

Country, all power to you man if you enjoy TJ. Some of us just don't need to travel 2,000 miles to find a fun girl to play with. Also, despite your continued insistence on framing this as sex in Mexico vs. messy pants here, some of us also don't seem to have a problem finding p4p right here.

Isn't GMD in your neck of the woods? He seems to be having a fine time close to home. Maybe he'd give you a few lessons on how it's done if you returned the favor by springing for his next VIP room. ;)

@SirLapdancealot

I read a few of the "Chronicles of an AMP chump"

Wow, that was shall I say interesting reading.

The candor of the experience is impressive but to be so oblivious to what was actually happening was amazing.

I don't think SJG has ever said the privacy wall thing with me other than this one time in PMs when I asked him how old he was.

He does sometimes change his opinions. I don't want to share our conversations but he will sometimes shift his opinions on things. Its very subtle though. He doesn't do it overtly in terms of "I stand corrected" and you won't make massive waves with him but he sometimes seems to recognize his viewpoint on something might've been too extreme.

I do agree that he can be pretty stubborn sometimes though.

Yes then he will say something about his privacy wall.

Yeah from what I've seen, very few people will make massive waves in their opinions. Opinion changes tend to be more subtle than that.

@ rick dugan what you don't understand is i get plenty of pussy in many states especially ky. I like tj because i prefer mexican chicas good mexican food and nice weather. What part of that can i not get through your thick skull. I just dont monger much in ky clubs because i like to fuck. Most of the strippers in ky are bj only in club. Do i need to tattoo that on your damn forehead. All you want to do is put down tj l.thats fine. I prefer mexican chicas. There are not many of those in ky. Plus there are way better looking chics in tj than the strippers in the louisville or lexington clubs that give extras.

Funny shit icy the first pic on your rate her thread is the avatar that trap ho uses

Yes it is icy you can deny anything but it’s a fact that is trap his original avatar so suck on a dick or something, no not mine I wouldn’t want you near me you reek.

^ what a faggot Lolz

@Countrygirl, you kicked the thread off with this: "When im in tj i am missing out on opportunities to go to u.s clubs and cum in my pants. How could i be so careless?" So that was what I responded to. Then you gave us a diatribe about non-extras U.S. clubs and blue balls, finishing it with: "Please explain it to me why anyone would want to spend all that money to be blueballed ldk or go home and jackoff please explain it to me."

We're not mind readers here - we can only respond to what's written. If you want to change the story now then go ahead I suppose, but stow the melodramatics. I doubt you're man enough to give my sister a forehead tattoo, nevermind me, not with the way you carried yourself with that last response.

Though I still don't buy your story change. You really ought to consider getting some lessons from GMD, who I suspect has no blue balls dilemma nor is limited to a BJ if he wants more. Shit, I came into your backyard cold on a one night stopover and got everything I wanted form a hot girl - don't know what your problem is.