Advice needed for a dancer that has rejected me twice (She initiated)

Don't waste your time would be my advice. Just let it go to quote a movie

Just looking to have some fun here! I'm pretty new to dancing so far but am loving the discussions. At least, when the trolls aren't trying to ride me off the board ;)

Lewit, you would not have that problem with me. I will give you ALL my attention and possibly a front room make out session

It is childish. If you're not interested in her for whatever reason, then when she sits on your lap let her know you're not interested. If there is a girl you're interested in, ask her to send that girl over. She'll get the point. And if she doesn't remember you the you can use her for this again in the future.

Why be vindictive when there is another girl around the corner...it seems like a very small person move

Maybe just keep telling her what you want and how much you want to pay. Keep track of how many times it takes until she remembers you.

You're in Vegas, right? Is there anything else she wants or is it just more money for her time than you're willing to pay?

$100 for VIP is very-low, probably only doable mostly at a hole-in-the-wall dive - doesn't seem it would fly in Vegas - she was likely offended at the offer - I'm not one to waste a dancer's time if either me or her is not interested - IMO you don't have cause "to get back at her" bc it seems you were wasting her time with a lowball offer

"$100 for VIP is very-low...doesn't seem it would fly in Vegas"

I don't do VIP. In my experience, $100 continuously is not low, and the girls that would accept it are the ones worth pursuing.

"Maybe just keep telling her what you want and how much you want to pay"

Maybe, but it's a chore.

Dancers get rejected all the time, I doubt she will remember your rejection any more than the next "no thank you".

If it makes you feel better, waste your time.

However, you could use that time, energy, and money to pursue someone who will accept your offer and show you a good time.

I would move on and find another dancer to spend my money on.

For VIP's at my old club, the minimum cost was $200 for 15 minutes and I had to pay half of that to the club so if someone would have offered me $100 I would have laughed in their face. lol. Maybe that was the case with her? My advice would be to find a different girl, seems this one has made up her mind twice now.

At my home club $100 definitely is not low but the club there takes zero cut of what a dancer makes and girls pay $20-60 total in fees to work.

Also I think you guys are missing that Liwet wasn't trying to get VIP he was just wanting floor dances.

However if I remember correctly Liwet is really picky/demanding about how he wanted his dances done, pre-negotiating level of touch and telling them in advance to stay in a certain position. So I would bet the issue is a combination of the offer not being ultra generous and the terms being a bit demanding. And I would agree with everyone else that intentionally pissing off a dancer is a bad idea.

I am the kind of person I would do the opposite. I would bring up the fact that I pissed her off before and then apologize and ask specifically what I did that made her mad.

Your asking for a discount thus she thinks your broke so she is saving time and skipping over you so she can find men like John $mith and myself that look forward to overpaying

For those talking about prices:

$100/3 songs $150/15 minutes $275/30 minutes $400/60 minutes

There's usually additional fees on top of this (between 20 and 50 percent) and if you want special rooms at that rate you have to pay $150 to $300 for bottle service. My city is not known for extras.

At my highest spending levels, I really can't afford more than $100 per girl per month.

@OP I think you are missing the point of going to strip clubs.

DC9428- No, I was dancing at a small club in Iowa. Rates run about the same at the other local clubs that offer VIP/Champagne rooms. I personally didn't care for VIP's since half my money went to the club so I didn't advertise them, I made more money off of privates since I could charge what I pleased and only owed $10 to the house. PaulDrake- You're right, I did misinterpret that he offered $100 for floor. Maybe her club set a rule on needing a certain number of VIP's sold each night by each girl? Who knows.

Why strip club underfunded? Makes no sense.

She dont like $100/15 min offer. She expected you to spend 30 mins with her. Everytime you mention $100 she gets offended and leaves. If you want that girl spend more time in VIP and pay more.if you don't like her ,when she comes to you next time just say you are waiting for another girl.

I would suck on your finger and show you what you were missing. You would come up with more money ; )

As I see it - she’s either playing games - or she’s insulted by your monetary offer.

The next time she comes over - you could ask her for her rates. If her rates are exorbitant - she’s possibly got a case of GPS.

If she comes over and acts aloof or doesn’t reply to your comments - she’s playing games. I don’t go to strip clubs to play head games - so I’d say bye bye to her.

There are to many good options out there. If she sits in your lap again, ask her her rates but decline pretty quickly if things aren’t going to work acceptably.

Time and energy are best used finding what you’re looking for rather than concerning yourself with someone who doesn’t seem to be a good option.

You're just not worth her time and effort, which made you very forgettable to her. Don't take it personally - it just is what it is.

Honestly though, if your budget is that tight, you might want to consider a different hobby.

I read some of your reviews and you seem pretty direct and aggressive. However in strip clubs 100 is not that much money. You want to be in the 200 dollar range with your anticts. i personally would stop spreading money around and work on 1 girl if your funds are limited.

The ones that are down will keep selling you dances after you try your stunts. the clean ones will stop. At 100 you cant screen like this because the majority of PL go in to spend 100 on a stripper.

It wasn't too-clear from the OP that he had countered w/ $100 for floor-dances vs $100 for VIP - perhaps the dancer misunderstood also?

$100 for floor-dances is fair - there are some dancers that don't wanna do regular dances and just wanna do VIP - it's her right but I tend to blackball dancers like-that where they make it seem as if regular-dances are beneath them, they come across as supa-greedy bitches.

Anyway - hard to know if it was a misunderstanding or her thinking $100 for dances was beneath her - if it's the latter then best to just move-on.

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Strippers expect money. You can hand her front room money. But best if you select the girl and approach her yourself. Shouldn't send her away with nothing. If you want her, steer her to your own bed ASAP. If she is unaffordable, well maybe have to pass. But if you are open and generous that should help.

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I agree with ricky boy

Or get a second job so you can afford the hobby

Dude, just go to Washington Park IL. $100 gets you 30 minutes of FS.

TJ is closer to me than IL.

"if your budget is that tight, you might want to consider a different hobby."

I don't really understand this? What's wrong with spending frugally at a strip club?

There are plenty of girls are in the Vegas clubs that refuse dances, they only do VIP.

Find another girl who will happy to take your $100.

"I don't really understand this? What's wrong with spending frugally at a strip club?"

Well it leads to post like this where you sound frustrated and "I'm going to talk to her for a long time and caress her fantasy of getting me into an expensive VIP room."

why dude? dont force it. she is supposed to sell you VIPs and you have to weed through the squares.

You will have a much better experience with girls that are more open about what they are doing, then with girls like this that you have to try and convince to do x for $100. When i club i have to remind myself that im looking for a sloppy nasty slut and not a GF. im not vetting them for a long term relationship.

When you club theres a difference between having a budget and frugality at a club. Have a budget but dont be frugal, frugal = cheap.

IMO it's ok to be "frugal" in strip clubs as long as one does not milk a dancer's time (want a dancer's time w/o intending to spend on them, or lead them on)