My ultimate realization was that strip clubs are fine tuned well oiled machines designed to separate marks from their money. But that the women who dance in them are exactly what they appear to be. No decpetions are being employed. Most of them love sex and need little inducement to do such. A large number of them are actually quite available and quite lonely. If you want to be in bed with them all you have to do is treat them like you would any other women.
Easy. When I first stepped foot into one, many years ago when I was 17 and in high school. It was a seedy Detroit club that didn't check ID as long as you looked like you were close enough to drinking age. First time I ever saw breasts. I thought, "This could be good."
I grew up in a small town in west Texas. I had no idea such things existed. Yes, I was that sheltered. Discovered them my freshman year in college. I was hooked the first time I went in.
I wasn't into strip clubs in my 20s -went a handful of times in my 20s and didn't appeal enough to me to wanna go regularly - at 30 I moved to a new city (Miami to Dallas) and ran into the famous Baby Dolls by accident (w/o looking for it) - decided to check it out bc I was in a new city with not much to do - Baby Dolls was much better/funner than any other club I'd been to - I got the SC bug at that time and decided it was a fun way to spend my weekends since I wasn't too-much into bars or nightclubs
Strip clubs in my area were fun until LE closed down the biggest one then other clubs imposed several rules making them not so fun. I haven't been visiting too much since then.
Not until this year, every past experience was a stretch to understand where to go or what to do.
My wallet didn't like the realization, though. I am on a path now to find extra decent income or else I will be burning too much of my extra cash that should be going into savings and investments.
My ultimate realization was after my first FS experience. After that I was sold and now I either go to recon and gather intel on who does what for how much or I'm there for FS.
I used to club poor, and then I got into the escort scene and then came back to clubbing. My first club back was in a new city; I took a large wad of cash to a strip club and barely spent any of it but had a fucking amazing time. I tried again the next month and the next and never ran out of money. I'm still working that same wad of cash though I add to it from time to time and actively manage it for the purpose of clubbing indefinitely.
Went to a few strip clubs when I was 18 - 30, but never got into it and had no idea what you could get. After that I stopped in at the club that happened to be closest to me and got offered fs for the cost of the vip. Chick was pretty damn hot too, I wish I could see her again. I still go to that club every now and then for a sure thing, long live Trop Lei
My ultimate realization was this year. During business trips I get bored. Would go to bars and sit around watching people. I drink very little, but tip all the bartenders and waitresses good money ($100 a trip) just because they smile at me. Very few conversations. Not much excitement really. So, I decided to go to the SC and see if it was any more exciting. Well, the girls were definitely beautiful and better yet, the girls seemed to actually enjoy talking to me without me having to start a conversation. Well, I decided I would do a $150 dollar dance with a couple cute AA Gals. The first was really fun, but a basic dance. The second gal was ALOT of fun, sexy as all get out, but did not get completely naked. When the dance was over, she said that I should have got the $300 dance and she could be allowed to get naked. I informed her that the sign stated that full nude was $100, but I loved her energy anyway. She then sat with me at the bar. She had water, Inhad wine. She then gave me her phone number to call her when I was back in town. Well 2 weeks later, I was back in town. I went to the SC, decided on the $250 dance. Got 30 minutes with 15 min of excellent grinding, then she grabbed junior through my slacks and said “you have a big dick...a really fat dick”. She then pulled him out and said, “you want this right pussy?!! Don’t you!!?” Ummmmm, hell yes! She then gave me BJ followed by FS. HOLLY MOLY! I honestly though this stuff never really occurred! Went back for seconds a month later. Same service, but more intense. Then, started reading this site to see what others said. Followed the leads given and within 30 days I got FS 5 more times AT 3 different SC and 3 more phone numbers ... no game needed other than a couple BENJAMINs here and there. I’m HOOKED.
My ultimate realization was this year. During business trips I get bored. Would go to bars and sit around watching people. I drink very little, but tip all the bartenders and waitresses good money ($100 a trip) just because they smile at me. Very few conversations. Not much excitement really. So, I decided to go to the SC and see if it was any more exciting. Well, the girls were definitely beautiful and better yet, the girls seemed to actually enjoy talking to me without me having to start a conversation. Well, I decided I would do a $150 dollar dance with a couple cute AA Gals. The first was really fun, but a basic dance. The second gal was ALOT of fun, sexy as all get out, but did not get completely naked. When the dance was over, she said that I should have got the $300 dance and she could be allowed to get naked. I informed her that the sign stated that full nude was $100, but I loved her energy anyway. She then sat with me at the bar. She had water, Inhad wine. She then gave me her phone number to call her when I was back in town. Well 2 weeks later, I was back in town. I went to the SC, decided on the $250 dance. Got 30 minutes with 15 min of excellent grinding, then she grabbed junior through my slacks and said “you have a big dick...a really fat dick”. She then pulled him out and said, “you want this right pussy?!! Don’t you!!?” Ummmmm, hell yes! She then gave me BJ followed by FS. HOLLY MOLY! I honestly though this stuff never really occurred! Went back for seconds a month later. Same service, but more intense. Then, started reading this site to see what others said. Followed the leads given and within 30 days I got FS 5 more times AT 3 different SC and 3 more phone numbers ... no game needed other than a couple BENJAMINs here and there. I’m HOOKED.
^ you shouldn't have to pay $150 just to get a decent dance - the going rate for a dance is $20 to $30 per song (and even $30 is too much IMO) - $100+ dances are usually VIP/block-time dances which can be worth it if you really like the dancer but it's a lot of $$$ to drop just to see if she's any good
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My wallet didn't like the realization, though. I am on a path now to find extra decent income or else I will be burning too much of my extra cash that should be going into savings and investments.