Keeping your ATF in line
NJBalla
New York
I may have posted this already, but a few of my ATFs are starting to get unruly (e.g. recklessly texting me at 10 pm saying "im working", taking thier time to walk over to me when i step in the club, eyeing other customers when I bought them a drink) As Mr Whitefolks would say this girls need to be put under "pimp arrest".
https://youtu.be/4k8pg4MhY2c?t=157
What are your strategies outside of backhanding these girls? Not showing up to see her for a period of time, showing up during her shift and dancing with a girl she hates? Asking her for advice on what other woman to dance with?
https://youtu.be/4k8pg4MhY2c?t=157
What are your strategies outside of backhanding these girls? Not showing up to see her for a period of time, showing up during her shift and dancing with a girl she hates? Asking her for advice on what other woman to dance with?
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1) here texting at 10PM: block her number if you don't want her texts
2) her taking their time to walk over to you: deal with it, she isn't your servant that is waiting for you at the door with your smoking jacket and slippers for when you arrive
3) her eyeing other customers after you bought her a drink: try engaging her in order to keep her attention
Sounds like the ATF has run it's course and it might be time for you to move on to someone new since it sounds like both of you do not relish the time together anymore.
@flagooner I was like you in my early days then I got spoiled. I hate to be the guy in a mcdonalds bitchin about mortons quality, but it is what it is
I do agree with ya though
That simple
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scary funny
... that a animated drawing can be... attractive like that.
maybe more attractive than i feel comfortable with
Like shadowcat said, an ATF is the All Time Favorite. There can be only one, although multiple posters here want to quibble about it for reasons that I'm sure are important to them. This girl of the moment you're complaining about doesn't sound like an ATF contender, let alone the title holder. The one you're still longing after sounds like a winner.
Example - There were three girls this year who were in the discussion of taking the ATF title that someone's held on my list for 10 years. One of them stole from me while doing something that otherwise strengthened her case, the second is someone who will get too attached and I like too much to shitcan, and the third just freaked out. The third literally was one more meet up from getting the invite for a regular arrangement, but her life is so fucked up she'd rather fight about how badly everyone else treats her than be cool and not complicate my day by acting crazy.
How do I deal with a batshit crazy near-ATF? I'm giving her another day to remember that she created the "problem" and to hold herself accountable for her own behavior. I don't expect this to happen, so what's probably going to happen is we'll stop talking to each other and she'll feel better about herself for setting someone straight. "Keeping her in line" for my convenience would mean further damaging someone who doesn't need any more problems.
Also - you may not be spending enough on them for them to wanna give you exclusive treatment - but not uncommon for dancers to become complacent with regs and/or get tired of them
Show up to the club with no money. Waste everyone's time. They can't play you if you have nothing to give xD
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJW-aW_o…
DC... yes. that first girl in #2. pretty hot!