Dont think ill ever marry again

I am not going to marry or ever cohabitate with a woman again!

SJG

Oh Juice some hot divorced soccermom is going to come thru your check out line at the Wiggly and next thing you know you're in the bakery department picking out a nice sheet cake for your wedding.

San Jose Guy, I doubt any women are lining up to take you up on that opportunity if you change your mind... and no I'm not including your mom in that bunch.

Lol

PhatBoy99

Cohabitation is too much like marriage.

And Shailynn, you need to be fucked up the ass by a roll of barbed wire.

SJG

I've had a lot of (failed) relationships in my 64 years on this earth, to include a few (failed) marriages, but I don't think I'll ever marry again, either.

Having too much fun dating (FWB, not P4P) model-quality civie hotties, motherfuckers!

^word, spice!

Yeah I don't like needing to be hiding shit either.

I'm just extremely happy being single

Is it monogamy or pair bonding you don’t really care for?

Living with a woman isn't really all that. Other than the sex and constant ego boost, reality sets in and they're expensive AF and sometimes annoying.

Phatboy69 just revealed that he doesn't have the hand.

yawn.

I like my freedom and money to much to ever get married again. I know very few happily married couples and even fewer second time arounders. Fuck that. I’m 22 months away from never seeing another snowflake. Instead I’m going to hit south beach like a motherfucker and fuck young pu$$y until I die.

SJG barbed wire is what you use to keep your goats in a pen.

SJG said "I am not going to marry or ever cohabitate with a woman again!"

While that's a true statement, I think you overestimate your degree of choice in the matter.

I don't think marriage is in my future, but I'm a never-say-never sort of guy. You don't get to pick who you fall in love with. Not really.

Get the snip. Guarantees no more kids

You say that now, but you know in the back of your mind you are just waiting for your cousin Suzie-Bob to come around.

When you live with the woman, the specialness of being together is gone. It eventually becomes neurotic.

SJG

What’s the cause of PhatBoy’s dislike for eggs, sandwiches and hot dogs?

If you add in pizza - it would cover all the basic food groups!

I don’t consider hot pockets a food group just yet

Hard for most men to be happy with just one woman - as the joke goes:

"A woman looks for the one man to satisfy all her needs - a man looks for all women to satisfy his one need"

LOL

I would never be single if my wife were available. But with her gone, I don't know that I'll ever find another woman I love with that much depth. A good marriage this one where you wake up every morning, look over at your wife and thank God that she still keeps you in her life

^^^^^ It was like that for me, once. But it was an illusion. The woman never was a partner in facing life's challenges. The whole thing, the soul mate,usually it is just neuroticism, in my opinion.

I live today, its more like being a social guerilla.

SJG

SJG 28 years of that neurosis is pretty dam awesome. I go back to it in a moment

I lived it, and the years are comparable. First time I saw married couples walking at dusk, I tore me to pieces.

But I had to face reality, the woman was not a partner. And she was killing me.

SJG

there is simply too many beautiful women out there to enjoy.

Maybe it was an anomaly, but when my wife died it took me 3 years to get back on my feet. I would've eaten half a dozen bullets various times except for the fact that my sons pleaded with me to live.

It took me three years to get over my divorce to my high school sweetheart... The only person i truely see as my soulmate.. I let her go or really she ket me go lol... But know we good friends and family in my eyes.

It was to much to recover from emotional and financial.

Ill never do it again

Hi steeldog65,

I'm sorry that you lost your wife. As evidenced by a lot of guys on this board (including me...), it's incredibly rare and difficult to find someone you can love that much and for so long. I'm glad that you pushed through the grief, both for your sake and your sons'. We should all be so lucky that we find someone like you did.

I hope you're having a lot of fun in the strip clubs. You deserve it. I'd buy you a drink and a couple of lappers if I could.

Cheers.

Steeldog - I’m sorry that your wife passed away. I’m glad you were able to find the strength to continue to live. Your sons need you.

Juice - I know what you mean. My ex was the one. I know that I’ll never find another woman who is my soul mate. It’s been almost 8 years since our divorce, and I think I’m over her, but at times it still hurts. I know she’s better off without me. I also know that I’ll never be even 1% as close to another woman (as I was to her).

Strippers and whores fill a physical desire, but emotionally there’s a definite emptiness.

San Jose Guy said "When you live with the woman, the specialness of being together is gone. It eventually becomes neurotic."

You talking about your mother again?

Thanks Juice.

Cashman well said and i agree

GACA anytime

If I ever got married, she would have to like a lot of things I like to or be ok with it all. I'm not getting married and have a set of rules to follow unless I'm already following them.

Steeldog65, this won’t make it any better for you but you’re way better off having loved her and lost than being like many other members who’ve never had the experience of true love like you had. Looks like you put a lot into the relationship, and maybe you can find someone to share those thoughts again. In time it works out.

Ive searched a lifetime and found a woman who can give just as much as I do, and that is priceless!

Marriage amounts to signing away your Equal Citizenship under the 14th Amendment. It should be ruled as unconstitutional. Once you are married, the spouse can use the married state to expose you to all manner of social pressure and delegitimation.

SJG