Have you researched these attachment styles? What is your approach with dancers or even with civilians… do you try to figure out their attachment style and then adjust your approach based on that?
For instance people with anxious attachment styles like being chased and lots of attention whereas avoidant styles want the exact opposite of that.
If youre not able to get otc or the extras you want, or even not getting the dates you want, i think a big part of it could be your approach is improperly suited for the ladies attachment style
Some people assume if youre not getting text responses or not getting what you want that the girls not physically attracted or is playing games but it could simply be due to her attachment style
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🤓__~ you should always look & judge $ girls of her first impression, if she doesn't like what she sees of you, she might "out you" that she isn't really interested on the degree with the initial encounter, so you don't wanna waste time attempting to attach you or her. If the road isn't bumpy as you go along, the attachment is working, just don't open a can of worms with talking about things especially if you wanting to push it for extras or her #phone#. If your in the strip club, do a lil' observation of her with the club, her body, actions, attitude style with others & the environment, so you can weed out unnecessary time with certain girls. Girl Appeal itself of a girl goes a long way before anything even gets started, People is so often hung up on just quickly going after a hot body girl, & that is really deceiving sometimes when she doesn't have the other pieces of the puzzle for you. Assess the situation & what you think her style best fits of what your gonna score her with. | 👍' Rock It ~ On The Safe Side ~~~~~
I had to find by experimenting in strip clubs what worked as far as getting attention from the girls. I found you can be overly aggressive and some strippers react negatively because they feel they are being pressured into doing something they do not want to do. You also do not want be to overly passive either. I try to be friendly to a girl and if she seems uninterested in sitting with me or doing lap dances with me I move on to another stripper or just go home. I never get angry in a strip club at lack of attention. If they don't want my money, I just leave. I have other hobbies I enjoy and go do that instead.
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