Whats up with all the misogyny????

Lmao all my hoes love me

Yup this joint has been morphing into Stripperweb. Any gal posts on here and it's fanboi central.

Pistola most these guys have never talked to a woman before outside a strip club and a Walmart check out line, so they get a little caught up.

This place has changed a bit. Maybe not for the better. Sadly, folks like Nicole1994 bring it down.

^lol seems that way

Shailynn still has nightmares about when his mom kept him locked in the attic.

But I think the new posting from our women members makes for a big improvement.

SJG

SJG is still a fag, so some things never change.

See perfect example. Thanks to all the ladies on here posting stuff, if not for you, SJG would never have talked to any woman other than his mom.

You hear Shailynn, sounds like his is yelling at himself, but he actually is yelling at his mom.

SJG

you old school enough to know about ASPD?

I think we should take control of all of stripperweb and turn them into our hoes

Yeah, but you have to have some kind of diplomacy. I’ve had situations where I wasn’t doing anything other than minding my own business and a dancer would come under to me, bad attitude in hand, and just took all her frustration out on me. I just ignore as best I can until she leaves me alone. I’ll try to say something pleasant, but it still won’t make me waste my time with her if I’m not interested. It’s not worth getting thrown out arguing with them or treating them like anyone.

I don't think you know what 'misogyny' means...

Misogynists are all stupid, ignorant cunts.

Sure thing @DTs you go right ahead and take over the pink site we’ll see how firm your hand is fo sho buttercup!

@PhatBoy99,
I don't think it's all that bad here, considering. It's been worse at times. So i'm not defending it. But being a lockerroom jock mentality, there's always going to be a small veneer of misogyny here. Just the way it is.

I write that as someone who was 100% disgusted with this place when I first found it. And it took months for me to come around before I first posted.

Our other options are strippers (individual) blogs, StripperWeb, or ?? Having tried those options myself, they're no solution or substitute. I'll stay here. The best trade-off is to not add to it yourself and make positive, informative, or funny posts when you can do 1 or 2.

Be informative or be funny. :)

The problem I'm seeing is there are men on here who obviously have negative views of strippers. They talk shit about them, act like they're thieves and degenerates like theyre criminals and not normal people. they act like theyre out to take advantage of them. yet these guys have no problem paying them for sex and being tricks in and out of the club.

how the fuck can you be a hoes trick and keep coming back for more yet act like youre so much better than them and like youre afraid of them?

WARNING - The following accounts are considered to be forum trolls and may not be trustworthy:

san_jose_guy - commonly referred to as SJG this forum member is usually mocked or ignored, his comments should NOT be taken in any way as legitimate

Daddy_Tricks - comedic troll account

PhatBoy99 - definite troll account

STFU calling anyone who doesnt hate on hoes a troll. I have more respect for strippers than tricks any day!

I respect the woman with bruised legs and sore feet who goes to work every day to provide for herself and maybe her family. Putting up with shit club management and even shittier tricks.

Ah, @Phatboy99. I see that you're saying two posts up and your OP now. I agree. I see it, too. It's like they hate women or have great disdain for them -- some Tuscl posters and some SC customers.

I don't get it. Women are awesome. Meeting new women is so fun because you never know where it's going to go. So I don't get the hate. They must be the nerds who are still bitter that they didn't get anyone to sleep with them in high school.

Playboy my man...weren’t you the one talking about taking strippers money and managing it for them to save them from their own bad decisions (good thing to do, LOL)

And that while your main bitch was a good one, your side bitch deserved to be treated bad??

Don’t be getting soft now. As long as you stay out of my territory keep up the pimp life man.

**phatboy99 I mean

DC9428 said "Back on TER, I didn't see nearly the distrust of the providers as I see on here of dancers."

That's because, as a group, escorts are better about scheduling, pricing, and communication as compared to dancers. Also, TER made it pretty easy to see which escorts were dependable.

In terms of moral high ground, there's little difference if any between dancers and customers.

Daddy Tricks, that doesn't make me a misogynist. No way I'd be able to do it without basic trust

I don't get the point of having sex with someone, let alone paying to have sex with someone who I have no trust in and think of as completely inferior.

Phatboy, you have an interesting perspective. But wouldn’t it make more sense for you to have a similar perspective as some of the others?

Just basing it on this:
https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=…

@phatboy99, @DC9428, and @nicespice: good points

phatboy99 posted: "I don't get the point of having sex with someone, let alone paying to have sex with someone who I have no trust in and think of as completely inferior."

DC9428 posted: "How the hell is the P4P community going to fend off the politicians and SJWs looking to throw us all in jail if we don't even trust and respect each other?"

^^^Agreed. I would love to see if we can make it a First Amendment protection again. As is stands, sex work is being assaulted from multiple and loosely-coordinated groups.

NiceSpice, There is a difference between maintaining power over them and treating them like shit. If you want them dependent on you, like the old saying goes, you get more flies with honey. If you really want to be an asshole be passive about it, like a wolf in sheeps clothing, it fucks with them more. But ultimately any arrangement that lasts is about some level of trust and that's earned. Show them you're a King and all they'll know to say is yes daddy

even discliplining them doesnt mean you hate on them

PhatBoy, you have a unique perspective on things. I have no idea whether or not you’re a troll account, but either way you are thought provoking and I like you.

I personally prefer “equal” relationships. And I don’t understand the ones where one person seems to enjoy being parent-like towards the other. But I have to remember that what I want doesn’t have to be for anyone else.

I guess I always viewed a relationship where one party is dominant (whether male or female) implies one looks down on another as inferior. But now I’m second guessing myself on that.

NiceSpice, Im not a troll, but thanks...

I think a relationship where you're equals is the ideal. I would love that. But the reality is there are a lot of components to it. Some cultural, some economic I guess. Ive never been around women like that. Im used to women who either have to act like men and hold things down, or ones who just don't know how to function on their own.

Its not that I like those kinds of relationships but its what Im used to. The one positive I've really learned is how to be nurturing, very patient, encouraging. Some of them need you to literally take them by the hand and guide them through everything they do. You have to remain strong and in charge and make them feel confident about how they do it. I know a girl, 18, beautiful, but overly sensitive, abusive past and dropped out in 10th grade. I'm her everything, literally. Its not easy.

On the flip side I know there are men who act like they own women and use their resources to keep them down. That never ends well for anyone.

I apologize. There’s a lot of trolls on this board. There’s been a war between pseudo pimps, lol. But you have a way of seeming genuine. And I hope you post on here more often.

And that’s a good point on what you said. Sometimes it’s best to be practical with what you have.

Damn I miss TER.

What is TER?

TER=The Erotic Review. It was a platform for escorts+clients. Escorts could advertise. Clients could write reviews. There was also a general discussion board for stuff, and it was taken down because of FOSTA.

It's not taken down (at least as far as I know). The site has blocked access from the US. If you have a VPN, then you can switch to a foreign IP address and access TER.

I was under the impression that the US-based agencies and independents were accessing TER discussion boards the same way as customers: VPN.

I could be wrong. I haven't used the site in a while.

NiceSpice, Thank you... But I think with anything, you have to be practical and pragmatic and make due with what you have. Its like pimping is becoming a trend but there are a lot of fakes out there. Some think living off of their girlfriend makes them a pimp, others think finding a dancer customers or a hoe some tricks makes them a pimp.

Is pimping a trend? I heard it was making something of a resurgence because of SESTA/FOSTA.

And I agree with making due with what you have. Though occasionally try out for something others think isn’t possible ;)

DC9428, I think thats the ideal relationship. I think a lover should be a best friend and an equal. It sure as hell would be less stressful.

I think the worst part is when women just use you, and you have to play the game in a way til they catch feelings and stop.

Its not really a game, I love my main bitch more than anything. The side bitches are just there for money and stuff.

I don't think you need much practice with dating. When you click with someone, you click. Whether or not you have a power dynamic will depend on the girl you're with.

But dating is easy. Just be assertive and genuine. Make it clear to her you want to see her again and make plans.

You won't find the ideal, but if something is good, go for it.

I met my girl at a strip club. I just walked up to her, told her she was the most beautiful girl I've ever seen and told her to ditch the club and go with me. We talked a little, left the club to smoke some weed and were inseparable since then.

No, you have to be direct with women. Especially dancers. They crave that. When they act in charge at work and tell guys stuff its just an act. They crave being treated like women.

I don't know, never thought of it. Neither of us is crazy about marriage although weve talked about having kids a lot

The hotting thing about misogyny is that it's a veiled way of referring to that sweet, sweet pink.

> hotting

*hottest

its sick to belittle women you sleep with especially considering you pay them. maybe its self anger thats misdirected. anger at oneself for having to pay

> its sick to belittle women you sleep with especially considering you pay them. maybe its self anger thats misdirected. anger at oneself for having to pay

It's a good thing I'm only kidding when I pay them

DC9428 posted: "lots of people go into relationships that aren't ideal"
Phatboy99 posted: "You won't find the ideal, but if something is good, go for it."

^Agree that you won't find ideal but the trick is to find something good but also to recognize how *good* good is.

My take in commitment and marriage was to date lots of women, then when I (or she) realized I wasn't going to put a ring on it -- whether that was 1-2 dates, 1 month, or 6 months max -- I let her go. I realize this approach isn't for everyone, but my take is if I'm not going to put a ring on it, she deserves to be cut loose so she can find the one or find someone who will. So neither of us waste time. That's how I found Mrs. 77.

Plus it gives you more practice dating women.

Yeah thats how it used to be. Or people would just marry whoever they were with for a long time

It is also undeniably misogynistic to refer to women as bitches regardless of how innocuous your intent was, as the misogyny is inherent in the term "bitch" itself when used to refer to a woman by her gender as opposed to her (blotchy( attirfue )

As opposed to.when it is used to refer to a woman's (bitchy) attitude **********

I always did find it amusing that a bitch is either a dominant female, or a submissive male.

Interesting. It's like it's assigned to the socially undesirable gender trait for either sex.

Ever hear the term: bitch on wheels? Used in a sentence, "she's real a bitch on wheels." I always found that made me chuckle.

I just stick to reading reviews now. Will probably get back to reviewing them eventually

I agree, just treat them like you would any other bitch. Ignore the fact that she's a dancer.

unless its in your favor

there is no egalitarianism, thats why all the problems in our society