Advice to mdb
flagooner
Everything written by this member is a fact.
I've read your recent string of posts. I may be way off base here, but I haven't read any other members provide this feedback.
If you aren't a troll and everything you write is true you seem to be a genuinely nice guy and, like all nice guys, prone to be taken advantage of.
Based on your posts it seems you have taken RIL to a whole new level and you are being played like a fiddle.
I have my doubts about the veracity of your stories, but if they are true I suggest you tread more carefully and look out for yourself.
I'm generally not one to judge others on how they have fun (unless it is with 14 yr old girls), but if this is all true I can picture you getting mega-Daddillaced.
If you aren't a troll and everything you write is true you seem to be a genuinely nice guy and, like all nice guys, prone to be taken advantage of.
Based on your posts it seems you have taken RIL to a whole new level and you are being played like a fiddle.
I have my doubts about the veracity of your stories, but if they are true I suggest you tread more carefully and look out for yourself.
I'm generally not one to judge others on how they have fun (unless it is with 14 yr old girls), but if this is all true I can picture you getting mega-Daddillaced.
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Q. How does a stripper get to a man's heart?
A. She stabs up under the rib cage.
It’s a slippery advice slope...
When will government step in and start creating their own block chain coins with a real base value say like $10 and call it USCoin with full acceptable wherever cash is used and electronic payments accepted but supply is limited to 100 million coins with an annual limit increase per year of one million max, decreased if not expanded in any given year. Bitcoin would be crushed. With USCoin they could add automatic taxes and tax payment tracking so that traders don't have to worry about keeping track of all that. Refunds of over tax payments could be issued back in US coin as an exception to the annual limit. Could USCoin reach $20000 a coin and blow away Bitcoin? Definitely. You would be able to use USCoin securely everywhere. I would not like paying taxes on lap dances though. Dancers might not be happy with Uncle Sam taking taxes out of her pay but wouldn't have to worry about paying them later. She might even get an end of year USCoin refund. See, I just proposed a Bitcoin killer. Someone else can figure out all the details.
My thought is that he doesn’t have contact with folks outside of strip clubs - and hookers - so he has minimal social skills - and that’s why he seems to fall for the attention of dancers and for the scams of others?
He’s definitely an enigma....
The guy is just who he is. Back off!
SJG
SJG
mdb is genuinely a nice guy and respects women and dancers.
I suspect a big silent majority out here in TUSCL-land has a bit of mdb in them.
I do.
I do enjoy it when a beautiful dancer takes me for a ride or yanks my chain. It's sexy and playful. More often than not - it's the dancer that straightens up and floodgates of love open up.
That said, I like sexy dancers that are plain Jane's at heart as well. Rare as they may be.
MDB I believe OP (flagooner) is reaching out as a fellow TUSCLer. No distrust or bash.
We all are here cuz we love women (with an "e").
Didn't mean to distract.
Not saying anyone here is like this but this thread reminds me of certain guys in strip clubs who are like regulars in love with dancers. I've seen such guys bring presents into the club to give to the dancer and the dancer doesn't even care for the guy that much. This thread reminds me of an attempt to say something about it. I myself never said anything to the guy in one case I remember. Dancers always quickly distract me in clubs. It wouldn't surprise me if some people thought I was in RIL at some times always getting dances from certain favorites. There are probably several opinions about what is a RIL as there are for dancer body types that guys prefer.
Let’s be honest, it’s obvious that he’s self absorbed. However the reason for his self absorption is unclear to me. It’s possible that he lives alone - without close contact with friends or family - and he doesn’t have any other outlets (aside from his postings here).
He’s searching for validation, and he’s not getting it here. His continued postings contain numerous attempts for him to receive validation.
He writes lengthy diatribes that don’t have punctuation. One sentence runs into the next, and the sentences run on and on. So he’s concerned about his story - and not the readers ability to understand it.
He says his best friends (or those considered his family) are models and strippers. This claim tells me that he can’t meet women, and he has decided to go to strip clubs where women won’t/can’t turn him away. Dancers aren’t family - unless a dancer is a sister or other blood relative!
I try to follow his posts - but the logic doesn’t hold. Just reading his most recent post doesn’t make sense to me. He claims he was scammed by an online buyer of something - but he claims he works in social media - so wouldn’t a social media savvy person know to not try and cash a check - made out in excess of an agreed price?
When someone joins this forum and starts posting, they do not need, nor are they looking for, anyone's approval.
SJG
How are things going with those bike repairs?
Not many women are willing to take on automobile repairs. But many are willing to learn to repair their own bicycles, they see it as a reachable form of self-reliance.
When jr. High School age, I read a book from the 1880's, about high wheelers. No chains, no ball bearings. Bushing bearings with oiling holes. Need to oil about every 10 miles, they used sperm whale oil. Reading that helps one appreciate how things are designed today.
And my organization only has a handful of people now. But when we try to expand it, the standards will be very high, especially for men. Never advertised, invitation only.
SJG
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The way one gets out of a girl's friend zone is simply to fuck her.
If mdb is in the friend zone of some, it likely is that for now that is the way he wants it.
SJG
When in college, I was a number of times put into this friend zone.
In my view, it is only a problem when you have an inexperienced male who is accepting this out of the view that he is making progress with the girl.
Usually women do not accept men into their personal space unless they see them as intimate partners. Otherwise women will maintain a protective barrier.
So the friend zone is not that bad or harmful. But if a guy is more assertive, it does not happen. The girl will either spread her legs, or maintain a protective limit. Eitherway, the guy is not in the friend zone.
As far as what mdb is doing, that is his business.
SJG
I don’t mean be a bastard I do mean be a man and be normal
I’m sure there are guys who do use it as a crutch - but I have never found it desirable.
:-)
@ Bj he’s just a pussywhipped loser you were actually on the right track with the bitch / slut thing but if a girl is my slut she’s his bitch and that’s the way I want it I don’t share sexual partners, and I’ll be damned if I’m gonna wine and dine a girl then take her home to fuck him. And be a little whiny crybaby or pretend it’s just great she’s happy with him so I’m happy for her, what a crock of shit.
SJG
Was that your best Marine DI speaking tone I’d laugh at you to F2F Gunny.
SJG
Ok got it. What a piece of work.
@ Mdb. You can’t be real!
This continued discussion tells me even more about mdb - and it’s painfully obvious he has minimal interaction with other people in real life. He is unable to understand the basics of conversation.
He’s practically begging for someone to ask him to tell his life story! It’s painfully sad to see his desire for validation.
Cashman, What kind of a guy is being held to your head, forcing you to read mdb's posts?
SJG
I read his old posts - and he is definitely in need of help. He doesn’t have a job. He’s bought a car for a stripper. His posts read like a listing of what to not do.
And if you actually need SJG's "advice", even worse!
What is sadder is the irony of someone passing judgement on the same people he assumes are passing judgement about him just because they think different than he does.
But what is really sad is the guy that keeps taking so much time and effort to tell those same people he "doesn't care" what they think. If he really didn't care he wouldn't put any effort into saying he didn't. Sad!
It happened to SJG when a stripper back in the 90s DFKed him. And it happened to him later when he DFKed with AMP whores back when he posted about it when he joined TUSCL. He is DOSS to the max with his front room DFK obsession.
And you don't have to read anything you don't want to. Don't put the burden on others to determine what constitutes bashing you. Don't be so sensitive to "bashing". You don't have to read those posts if you don't like them.
And really, not really caring is not even bothering to post about it. Otherwise it is irony.
@Cashman1234 To me the guys that are delusional and DOSS are truly the most needy of a woman's attention and affection. Their needs go beyond sexual gratification. They need emotional gratification first and foremost and so are absolutely the most prone to believing SS. It's like a defense mechanism to avoid the reality that they truly can't develop a real civie relationship. So they almost have to believe SS is "real".
In other words, the stripper that thought you had more than a business relationship was the delusional one. Exactly my point.
Meaning... what? You'll post more things, but in ALL CAPS!? #SJGsyndrome
SJG said "The way one gets out of a girl's friend zone is simply to fuck her."
If you're "organization" doesn't work out, then take a whirl at writing greeting cards.
MDB said "What is sad is a bunch of people who think they know everything about a person they've never met and pass judgement on that person because he thinks different than they do."
You just referred to the entire internet. Maybe the internet isn't a great place for you.
And dancers are no different from any other woman. If you are treating them as prostitutes, then they won't be such.
Sure, on the job in a strip club, they hustle for money. But this does not mean that that has to be the full extent of the relationship.
SJG