Can't get emotional when they choose others, but can you feel good when they cho
goosman
On A Booty Hunt
On the other side of the coin, you shouldn't take it as an ego boost when you know you've pulled a dancer away from other PLs right?
Got something to say?
Start your own discussion
35 comments
Have never *consciously* thought about it like that, probably b/c I'm not one to lock down a dancer all for myself (like some guy I know in San Francisco but I won't name names :)) - but I guess there's a bit of a PL-boost when a dancer seems to prefer to dance for you over other PLs, but it's not something that really crosses my PL-mind
1. Old white guys
2. Middle age white guys
3. Groups
4. Everyone else
I dont get any kicks out strippers picking me over other pl's. I couldnt care less, as i usually try to draw in multiple strippers, expecting half or more to not be bothered with me. You really should only get an ego boost if a stripper picks you over someone "above" you in the pecking order.
FTFY
Generalized: You seeking her approval is undesirable. Her seeking your approval is desirable.
For me, if any good feelings arise from the simple fact that a girl comes over, it is because she is a girl that I know and her arrival is a sign that my night may be about to get better in some way. But if it a girl I don't know, then it's just the opening gambit in what could go in any number of directions.
Agree with taxi_driver... if you just dig it a bit that she's coming over to you, there' no harm, and no reason for anyone to go into conniptions over it. Nearly anyone here who is CF/ATFing instead of a pure variety guy gets some enjoyment out of that type of behavior, that's often part of why they CF/ATF. That said, it's always good to do an honest gut check here... harmless little bit of enjoyment, or do you feel like you're the prince who just scored the belle of the ball?
I like to pick them myself. And if a girl picks me, I'll still find a way to turn it around and make her feel like I am screening her before I pick her. But yes, if she picks you, you should feel good.
SJG
The World Is A Ghetto
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ptIcert_…
Malo-Suavecito
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Y7zrudD…
Carlos Santana - Samba Pa Ti
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j5AUm_xa…
Say a guy last night had this Rolls-Royce in a parking lot. Not sure the model. May have been a phantom.
Like this, but not the extended wheelbase:
http://www.zercustoms.com/news/images/Ro…
Do these cars really have wheel covers over steel rims?
They have retractable hood ornaments. Not sure if it works by and electric motor or by vacuum. This one was parked, but still retracted. Not sure the guy turned a switch for that, or if something was broken.
https://www.rolls-roycemotorcars.com/en-…
SJG
That's it.
On the other hand, we can also take this at face value: there really were 3 guys waiting, but you're a regular of hers so she doesn't want to burn you, plus, she knows those guys will wait anyway. The lesson I personally take away from this: validation that I am not the sort of PL who waits, since being easy this way just encourages the stripper to take her time to get to me. Exactly the lesson that Papi hoped I wouldn't learn :)
SJG
One day, it might bite them in the ass if I decide to test drive someone else while they are taking their time, but I am not at that point yet. I go to the club to relax and see boobies, so when they get to me, they get to me.
:)
If you were my SC wingman, I'd be congratulating you on not getting histrionic or butthurt, but I'd also be asking you if instead of getting recognized for the value you bring as a regular, you're making it easy to step all over you, and trying to justify that with all kinds of questionable explanations...
Conversely, on past visits I've my 3 favorites all descend on me back to back to back and have had to tell them to come back in 1 or 1.5 hours so I can recuperate.
Today, I did 15 dances @ 4 minutes each via 3 girls. I have no issue with that hour's worth of time being spread over 2.5 total hours.
I’m not clubbing to compete with other pl’s. I’m clubbing to enjoy myself.
My current situation might be very different from pl’s with cf’s - as they are more tied to a certain dancer. I’m going to see what’s available - and who can fill my desires. If a dancer isn’t interested - I can usually determine that quickly - which saves me time and money.