Married Strippers

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• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  None to my knowledge - I think I would feel kinda weird groping a knowingly married dancer
• JohnTitor

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  7 years ago

  Nah I prefer younger ones who have been damaged in other ways before making a mistake getting hitched.
• Liwet

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  7 years ago

  The only stripper I know of who is openly married requires more money for extras. She won't do kitty play in the front room and only allows it in the VIP if she's allowed to keep her panties on.
• shadowcat

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  7 years ago

  If they're attractive and high mileage, I have no qualms about getting dances or more with them. It's business. I knew one very cute early 20's dancer at Follies that is married and everything is on the menu except kissing. She said that she and her husband had an open relationship. She was very popular. She once even tried to get me into VIP for a 3 some with another TUSCLer buddy of mine. I only stopped doing VIPs with her because I want GFE and the no kissing kinda leaves that out. Clubs should strive to keep husbands and boy friends out of the club to lessen the chances for any drama.
• MrDeuce

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  7 years ago

  I avoid seeing married strippers, or strippers living with boyfriends, outside the club. Inside the club I don't care about their relationship status and will go as far with them as their rules allow. Of the 5 dancers that I've seen OTC over the past two years, four were either divorced or never married. The exception was my "virtual shit storm of chaos" girl last year (about whom I wrote an article). The "brother" who dropped her off at my hotel at 1:30am (and picked her up again at 3:30am)a turned out to be her husband! I did actually see her one more time after that for a sleepover but the situation was just too fucking weird for my taste.
• rl27

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  7 years ago

  Never asked if a dancer is married. Only a few have mentioned being married. Several have mentioned ex-boyfriends. I only recall one dancer who was married at the time I was having a lot of good extras with. And that was only because her arrest photo showed up in the newspaper for assaulting her husband.
• DandyDan

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  7 years ago

  I've known a fair number of strippers who were married. My old favorite Angel was married and just about everything was on the menu with her. There was another girl at the same club who was married and FS was available. However, most of the married strippers I have met worked in a no-extras club.
• londonguy

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  7 years ago

  I don't care what kind of relationship they are in. I am buying an experience and their status is of no relevance to me as mine is to theirs.
• bang69

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  7 years ago

  I've gotten extras from a married stripper before. it was worth the money
• joc13

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  7 years ago

  It would seem hypocritical to me to be a married monger and refuse to pay for sex from a married sex worker. When I was heavily involved in the escort scene, 3 of my favorites were married. There were several advantages: 1) they tended to be low volume, which improved safety 2) they were escorting to fulfill sexual desires they weren't getting from husband, either in terms of amount of sex or types of sex acts (this does not contradict #1 as they wanted lots of sex from a few trusted clients) 3) they weren't relying on their escorting income for day-to-day survival so their rates were very reasonable. Advantage #2 often led to some significant bargains.
• joc13

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  7 years ago

  I bet #3 does not apply to married strippers.
• rickdugan

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  7 years ago

  My CF is married and it hasn't stopped me from taking her OTC a number of times. Truth be told, this thread should really be titled "Openly Married Strippers" because a lot of strippers lie about their relationship status. Seriously now, how many hot young women with co-dependency and other emotional issues are really capable of being alone for any length of time? ;) But I tend to stay away from the ones who advertise it because, in my experience, those girls are doing so either to keep guys from trying to get too much from them or because they are torn about doing the job given their relationship status. Either way, they are a buzz kill to me.
• theDirkDiggler

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  7 years ago

  I knew one dancer that was engaged to be married or maybe already married now. She also had a child, but i don't know if it was from that guy. So she had some reservations, saying that she was unwilling to do certain things, often saying what she did was just sexy flirting, and was going to quit after she got married. She never did quit though, but her dances did become a bit more shady/ROBish, less interactive and overcounting. She was a strange cookie that i could never quite figure out. Very beautiful MILF, probably SirLapdancealot's type (natural hour glass figure, large beautiful tits with long nipples, shapely full ass and beautiful face), didn't do a lot of grinding, but loved when i got her off manually and "needed" pretty rough (liked the teeth and pretty forceful biting) nipple sucking and breast play often concurrently. She complained that she didn't get a lot of sex (like weeks or more in between) from her husband and that he never went down on her. She was too nervous and not quite flexible/limber enough to let me do it in the chump booths and the one time i took her to a room, she was still nervous that it wasn't private enough (the rooms are only 3 walled cells, so the host and possibly customers and dancers can walk by and see. And yet supposedly she was comfortable enough with me that while dancing with me in a regular dance she said that if she had a cover she would have just ridden me right there, which is not hard as it sounds at that club. Maybe just SS. I don't dance with her anymore, but i do miss the unique and often wonderful dances that we once had.
• theDirkDiggler

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  7 years ago

  ^ That was probably the only dancer i've encountered that actually talked about her "husband" and that did make me hesitate a little, but in general, i just can't care if she doesn't care. There is nothing sacred in itself about marriage if they don't think it's sacred. Basically, it is what you make of it. Otherwise, it's just a piece of paper and a state of mind to me. What bothers me more is all the girlfriends with BFs or at least baby daddies that talk about them with is much more often. That's the real buzz kill and they almost always give subpar dances, leaving the good stuff for that likely loser at home. Yeah, he might not be a loser, but what kind of guy let's his girl dance instead of supporting her with a real job and getting her out of the business and often toxic and risky environment, let alone being fine with all the stuff a dancer does in the club? Last are the MILFs. The ones that don't talk about the BF, but often do talk about the kid(s). When i first danced with mothers (when i was much younger), i did feel weird about it. It just didn't vibe with my fantasy of a stripper. Now i realize they often give excellent dances, among the best as they often have the most motivation and i don't really think much of it at all anymore, although as cruel as it sounds, the often common baby damage is a bit of a turn off or lamentation, especially if she was so hot before, not that different from a beautiful natural girl getting cosmetic surgery on certain body parts that were already beautiful, but now "ruined".
• Clubber

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  7 years ago

  A former co-worker's wife became a stripper. He always said she wouldn't do "extras". That lasted at least until she moved in with a customer! :)
• lotsoffun201

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  7 years ago

  A lot of strippers are bicomfortable and many are in lifestyle relationships so it’s very common in my experience to have a married stripper engage in “extras” in one way or another.
• emptystacks

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  7 years ago

  out of sight, out of mind. I don't want to know about her husband or boyfriend. I know it happens but not a turn-on. Once a girl had her hand down my pants asking if I could help her husband's business, had to ask her to stop. I don't want to hear about a stripper's kid but sometimes I do just to keep the conversation going.