Looking for Advice
Saturday, November 25, 2017 7:34 AM
Ok, something strange happened to me. And, I honestly don't know what to make of it.
About a month ago, I went to a strip club. I have not been in 3-4 years, as my business went belly up and I have had no money for fun. But, I got a new job and recently returned from a business trip and went to a strip club, near the airport in Detroit. I was there for 2 hours. I had one drink. By nearly the end of my evening, the only thing I had heard was "wanna dance?" from the strippers. I had hardly tipped anyone.
I was going to leave. A young (maybe 21), thin, athletic, black, and super hot girl sat down and started talking. She had an amazing outfit. I complimented her. And we talked for like 30 minutes. She unbuttoned my shirt. Showed my chest to some other random stripper. Grabbed my crotch. Now, I am 48, and, in reasonable shape, but, my body fat is still like 20%. Our conversation was interesting and natural, which really surprised me. I've never had a real conversation at a strip club.
She gave me her digits. I asked her if she would give me a dance. She said yes. I ask her if $200 would be enough and she says yes. No mention of how many songs or what would happen. At this point, I discovered I lost my ATM card. Evening over.
She texts me the next 2-3 days. Wants me to come back to the club. I'm busy. Two weeks later, I text her, she sends me to a different club, in Detroit. This is a place I would never go.
She gets there late. Sits down next to me. She is in street clothes, she has been painting a friend's house. We talk a little. She asks if I want to stay in the club or head out for drinks at a bar. I want to stay in the club. She goes and gets dressed.
She comes back. SHE BUYS ME A DRINK. Ok. I've never had that happen. She gets up, and starts dancing. No mention of price. I'm counting songs. 3, 5, 15 songs go by... She says, "I'm going to change outfits, I'll be back". She comes back. She looks amazing in both outfits, but, honestly, I'm not remembering the outfits. She dances again. She has danced, sat in my lap, chatted with me for 2 hours. No mention of money. She is getting tired. It sure seems like, I could have walked out at any time and never given her anything.
Instead, we go back to the private area. I take her clothes off and we boink for 30 minutes or so. She asks for $300, I gave her $220 or so -- the only money I have given her.
Now, she still texts me, and sends me snapchats. She asked me to buy her an outfit for $150 - something she would wear on a date with me -- it has sequins and boots -- it would make her feel like it was her birthday. I don't think it is a low key outfit. She wants me to come to her house for the evening.
What am I getting into? What should I turn this into?
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