Girls Getting off on you

I had an ongoing "relationship" (only in the strip club) with a dancer like this for several months, maybe years, a while back. She and I got along well on the main floor, and she knew me as one of her regulars. She'd just "get into it" when she was with me. Nothing faking about it, she was getting off. Probably just felt COMFORTABLE around me, relative to other customers, and you gotta admit, she's semi-naked and thinking about sexuality for hours at a time in her job, it must have SOME degree of impact on her consciousness, no? And just like you, it wasn't as much of a turn-on for me as would have been a dance in which she was ignoring her own interests and paying more attention to mine. :)

One of my favs enjoys humping my leg and working up a sweat. I don't mind being the one who pays for this... It makes her horny and more willing to kiss and be kissed as we rest through a subsequent song.

I recently just experience this but to my good fortune I get off on the kind of grinding girl's need...I I enjoy it more for whatever reason

I'm with you with my doubts but it feels like she was truly getting off..so much so I blew a thick wade into my shorts

*Frankly, I just kind of felt like a prop, that she was using to masturbate.*

Ha, I bet that's what the dancers usually feel like. Especially dancers for myself or someone like LDK82. So she turned the tables, can't fault her for that.

I've had similar experiences in the past. I enjoy it though, part of the fun for me is her enjoyment. Sometimes it's fake enjoyment on her part, sometimes not, I just pretend it's real, it helps me get there.

I had one girl just go ahead and stop, reach down and masturbate for a whole song until she came. That was different. I was kinda upset that she paused like that, but she did her best before and after to get me off, so I didn't say anything. I kinda liked it anyway.

Rare but it happens. The first night I met my ATF I bought over $500 in lapdances and she came while grinding me. I of course never ever would have dreamt that a stripper could lie to me. I felt like such a stud until a month later when our relationship started and I realized she was the type of girl that had the type of libido that if her panties rubber her a certain way while she was walking in the airport she could have an orgasm. Okay maybe not that bad but it sure didn’t take much for her to have an orgasm.

type of libido that if her panties rubber her a certain way while she was walking in the airport she could have an orgasm. Okay maybe not that bad but it sure didn’t take much for her to have an orgasm.

That's my issue

Juice makes a good point. Girls like grinding, and guys usually like stroking. Guys will tell me they want me to enjoy myself, but they don't seem to get that what I enjoy best is light to med pressure steady grinding. At least to get started. Most guys get impatient and want harder long strokes.

I've had dancers that appeared to have orgasms during VIP sessions with me. Some were much more believable than others. One girl came while I pinched her nipples hard - and after she mentioned that she came 3 times while grinding. I also had a dancer orgasm while we were kissing and grinding - and then we exchanged numbers to setup otc for the next time.

I am a jaded old clubber and I am skeptical of anything I see in clubs - but some girls are more convincing than others.

BJ damn right...I'm a fan of trib lesbo porn

It gets me off just to watch the hips of girl's grinding like that

Surprisingly I dislike long strokes..maybe because I don't have a monster cock lol


Any ways...when I get my hard cock laid back against my belly and she grinds her clitoris and pussy lips all up and down my shaft for fifteen to thirty hard min. I've herd many moans of release from my dancers and that wet stain on the front of my shorts that not from me lol

I prefer thin permanent press (no iron) slacks, or track pants. Sweats and pajama pants would be nice for me, but I don't like them for ldk bc I worry ab getting jizz on me.

I haven't noticed it much from just grinding but that may be because of where I club. When I do a VIP with a dancer it is because she has convinced me that it will be a GFE. And that almost always includes DATY. I've been around long enough to know when faking it. When her hands grab my head and her body starts to shudder, I know it's a gusher. Some have told me that they always cum when I go down on them.

There was a favorite 18 months ago that would not do FS with me ITC and I was OK with that too but she said that she would meet me OTC if her BF was out of town. Then during our last VIP I went down on her and she said "Wow. The rules have changed after that and we could meet up regardless of the BF".

I had a buddy that used to say "Show me a guy that won't go down on his GF and I'll show you a girl that I can steal". I believe him. :)

Damn Right shadow lol...that's been one of my biggest improvement in recent years

I've deeply enjoyed and it helps to get my the fastest back in VIP or champagne if I can snack on the snatch...kinda think it's how I'm warming not just myself up but them as well lol

Mutual LDK is very satisfying to me

If she hasn't cummed once I'm finished I've even paid for more time just to eat her pussy until she pours that sweetness out

God damn I'm getting horny just writing this...might need to run to the club LMFAO

I wear a thin black gym pants on with extremely thin black gym shorts on

That way my cum is contain on myself and my bitches need not worry

Holy Shit yes

It's only happened a couple times for me, but the most memorable for me was a 10 in a Tampa Deja Vu who got her rocks off during a bed dance.

Love that! Great memories!

I had an ATF that I had been seeing for months and during one VIP session she was grinding more aggressively than normal and also holding my hands tightly to her hips and then finally she convulsed as if she came. She caught her breath afterwards and said, "Look what I just did." Given that she had never danced that way before in our entire relationship, I'm pretty sure she rubbed one out for herself. Later ones were also not like that one.

Another time in VIP I had a first time met dancer that also involuntarily convulsed on top of me as I LDKed. As she got off of me she looked at my crotch and apologized. I thought she was apologizing for making me LDK but when I looked at my own crotch it was way too wet on the outside for just to be from me. She was also very red in the face from embarrassment. Yeah, I'm pretty sure she squirted on me.

These were my only two 99% sure things.

A couple of years ago I had a favorite who would do this. Her grinding and moaning were pretty convincing, but I still think it was only an act.
Always remember, the fake tits aren't the only things in the club that are not real!

I had a favorite in Indy at BBF who, during one lap dance, was grinding on my knee in an almost involuntary manner, emitting moans every few seconds. When she stopped, she said she was wet, and asked where my hotel was. She didn't say if she came or not, but I think she was pretty close. It didn't bother me that she was off in the zone for a song or two. I like to see a girl enjoying herself.

My ATF came once ITC as a joke to a too loud couple near by, and an old CF came on 2 separate occasions from humping my leg. Both times the room ended up smelling like pussy! LOL But out of the hundreds of lap dances I've had, that likely the only 3 times a girl actually came with me ITC.

Most of my dancers don't fake orgasms...it's not necessary. I guess some do it as part of the show but I prefer they just pretend I'm as entertaining as I think I am, and leave it at that.

i wish most girls did try to make it good for them as well. You can definitely tell, and i think they would actually sell more dances because the fantasy (GFE) would seem more real and worth paying for. Only once had a dancer gotten herself off from grinding on me. She was pretty sensitive, new at it and probably an easy comer. Didn't do a lot of over the top acting or moaning like some other girls; just told me that she came and had a little difficulty standing when she got off of me (no pun intended). Miss that girl. Another dancer or two really seemed to enjoy when i rubbed their nub during dances, with one of them coming after 3 or 4 dances of that and she seemed really happy afterwards. i actually started figuring out what she liked and was able to do it a little more quickly. Very unique dances. But then she started being ROBish (over counting dances) and i stopped getting dances with her :(

Too bad most girls don't like to come during dances. There was one very hot dancer that seemed to really enjoy the way i was touching her in general, but when it started getting hot, she'd go "no not here, not here, not in the club" and actually ended the dances earlier despite having done much more dances with me on previous occasions. So it's not like she didn't want to make more money. She seemed like she didn't want to get overly turned on. Very frustrating.

I toss money until they cum...i have a 100% success rate making them cum

What is her reaction when you try to charge them for the dance after she gets off?

It is rare but if the stars align a dancer will occasionally cum during a lap dance. I posted an article about one time that it happened to me years ago.

When a stripper cry's john believe their cumming LMFAO..that's cute bro

A lap dance is a fantasy of having actual sex. And for sure for me I am thoroughly aroused to know that a sexy woman is going wild on my dick from cumming as I am fucking her. I get off literally and figuratively from it. So yeah for me it isn't mandatory but it sure does enhance the experience if a dancer is aroused from the dance. My ATF will moan softly in my ear as she rides me to LDK. Such a good ATF, but I'm not sure if she has ever actually got off. If she wants to fake it until I make it, I'm all good.

Also I see it as a quid pro quo thing. I'm shamelessly going to try to get off on the dancer, so who am I to judge or care if she gets off on me? You go, girl!

Amen

That's hot to me, I've only had it happen a couple of times.

Was at the club Thursday and I noticed the dancer I had with me Was sitting on my leg and her puss was hot and wet feel on my leg lol

I like seeing pussy cream leftovers on my crotch after an LDK session. LOL when I get home and take my pants off I try to catch a whiff and reminisce about it. Think about that butterscotch pussy.

^^^ lol. "Butterscotch pussy"

LMFAO

TL;DR - Investing time and effort into making the girl happy, or letting her make herself happy, is usually worth it.

I will happily make any body part available to a girl just needing a "human implement" to help her cum. I don't mind being used.

Like shadow, I generally find that once a girl learns I know what I'm doing down there, that additional possibilities open up. I had been pressing my CF from last winter to start up OTC, but she was.dragging her feet. Then, one time in VIP (not Follies) she stuck her pussy in my face and I made her very happy. Maybe it was her last test for me, cause in our aftermath cuddling she finally agreed to OTC. It was really too bad that she came down with a severe bout of GPS before our first sex date.

In other cases, my current exOTC girl is like a Tootsie Pop - how many licks does it take? One, two, POP! Makes my job easy, but then she's "sensitive" after, so I had to manage timing too much.

My soon to be exSB is at the opposite end. Her orgasms are spectacular, but damn it takes so much work to get her there. I like her, but apparently not enough, cause I found myself perusing SA again . . .

And then there's newSB wannabe, who I'm seeing for 2nd time tonight. 1st time was worthy of a Dear Penthouse Forum letter, but the specific thing I like was that it took a "reasonable" amount of time and effort to make her cum, and she was ready for more right after. (Yes, I broke my normal rule of no sex on an SA first date, but trust me, you might have too.)

joc13 - is that who I think it is? :)