I'll be on a business trip next month. Unfrotantely there aren't any strip clubs anywhere even close to where I will be staying, and even if there were it's not in a high mileage/extras states. So probably the next best thing (aside from getting an escort which I won't do) would be to go to a Hooters/Tilted Kilt to at least enjoy a meal with a decent view.
I'll be on my trip alone, normally I have no issues with going to a strip club alone (and there are also usually other PL's alone in the club as well so it's not uncommon. But is it pathetic/creepy to go to a breastraunt and eat at the bar alone?
I used to worry about the same thing with strip clubs. Eventually I just said fuck it. You know why you're there, they know why you're there. Doesn't matter if you're in a group or not. You're there because you like tits and ass. They're there because they would like to make money showing theirs off. It's a win/win.
Just go and sit at the bar, order dinner, watch the games on their TV screens, and make the occasional glance at the waitresses and bartenders.
If it makes you feel less creepy, take an open seat at the bar right next to another patron. Just don't give a shit whether others may perceive you as creepy. I honestly don't think they will care if you are by yourself.
When men travel on business, they still need to eat dinner, and that's what you are doing. Having a beer and dinner - at a place that also has tvs with lots of sports - and usually a nice view of tits!
It's a lot less weird than going to a regular restaurant alone. I'll be the girls love single guys. A lot of us like them better than groups at the sc.
No way is it weird or creepy to go to a "breastaurant" or even a regular bar/restaurant alone. If you're on business, what other choice do you have, other than room service, which sucks and is overpriced (I travel occasionally for work). But even when you're home, I don't see any issue with it. I go bars alone a lot, after my marriage broke up a few years ago, simply because my friends are married and we don't get many boys nights out. I always sit at the bar, have a few beers, watch the game, just to get out of the house (it sucks being alone). I never feel weird and feel no need to apologize to anyone who thinks otherwise. Fuck them and the cock-sucking horse they rode in on!
I go to bars alone all the time. I'm single and if I want to go watch ufc pay per views or a game I can't get at home I just go to a bar. I generally end up making a couple friends at the bar taking about the fights or whatever we're watching.
I used to travel for work and got used to going to restaurants alone. I never felt uncomfortable. However I worked for an extremely conservative organization and wouldn't have dared to submit an expense account with a receipt from a breastaurant. So after dinner I'd call an escort. What's your hesitation in doing that?
I hit up a Hooters 3 days in a row for lunch when I was on jury duty in an unfamiliar area. I went alone and got lots of great attention from the girlies and never felt weird or uncomfortable. I learned a long time ago that it's not others that make you self conscious - it's you doing it to yourself. Once you get over that you stop caring what strangers think.
i have eaten at restaurants and fast food places alone for 97% of the times due to my job and now also because i am single. my favorites are twin peaks, tilted kilt and hooters!
In my view - I find it odd seeing couples at breastaurants. Maybe it's just me - but those places seem to be setup for either single men - or groups of guys.
footballguy, I think you can see rare unanimity developing on this topic! For reasons of both work and play, I eat a lot of meals alone on the road. Sometimes It's ethnic food, sometimes it's fast food, and sometimes it's a breastAURANT or even a strip club. Who TF cares what other people think? I got over that a long time ago! For that matter, why would they be thinking about you at all? One difference from some other responses is that at the weird times that I sometimes eat, such as late evening or mid-afternoon, there's usually plenty of room and I much prefer to sit at a table rather than at the bar.
Those places are "set up" for anyone who wants to ogle hot women with great tits. That includes couples and us solo ladies too. Some of us share that visual pleasure and enjoy that environment. Open your mind a little.
I went with a friend to a Hooters on a Saturday afternoon a few years ago. All around us were young married couples with little kids -- and a play area with video games and such! Is nothing sacred?
I often eat alone due to work also. Can't find the recent thread about ending up at a Tilted Kilt on a slow night and discussing OTC options with a waitress. That thread was in the past couple of weeks at most?
Go on a slow night, you might find an impromptu escort in that cute waitress who hasn't made much scratch that night. You just never know, weirder things have happened.
The only reason it seems weird is because you haven't been doing it. I've done it and it doesn't seem weird or creepy at all to me. I think it seems weird to go in large groups but some people do it. If you're worried about taking up too much space and there are groups waiting to be seated, the bar is a good place to sit. I like going when it's not crowded but I go for the food, beer, and the view.
I thought all of the "Dear Abbey" type questions from PLs in love with strippers were the ultimate display of PLism, and then we get a question from someone worried about going to Hooters. This must truly be the rock bottom of PLism.
@deuce "I went with a friend to a Hooters on a Saturday afternoon a few years ago. All around us were young married couples"
These days, if you have a young married couple, it's a lot more likely the wife is attracted to women, too. She is probably enjoying the eye candy as much as her husband.
Locally, the Kilt is drawing way better talent than Hooters. Kitchen staff at both chains breaks the same shit on a very regular basis, so I get to visit them each periodically, and always clock out for lunch. On my own time, I'll visit the Kilt by myself without any qualms; my trouble with Hooters is that the food is about a C-, despite how nice the scenery may be.
The the waitress you are on business, that you were planning to drop hundreds at a strip club but turns out there are none around. Oh, and you are staying at a hotel real close by. See where it goes.I give you a 5-10% chance of making something out of nothing.
Just got back home from Hooters. Wanted to get out of the house because I'm depressed and hate my life and hate being by myself, but have no choice other than to deal with it until I succumb to my demons, but that's a topic for another day. Anyway, beer was cold and refreshing. View was nice. Sat at the bar and watched the Cowboys bitch-slap the Giants and just chilled. Had some fries, too. Absolutely nothing wrong with going to a "breastauarant" alone. You could be in worse places, in a worse situation.
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last commentIf it makes you feel less creepy, take an open seat at the bar right next to another patron. Just don't give a shit whether others may perceive you as creepy. I honestly don't think they will care if you are by yourself.
I go bars alone a lot, after my marriage broke up a few years ago, simply because my friends are married and we don't get many boys nights out.
I always sit at the bar, have a few beers, watch the game, just to get out of the house (it sucks being alone). I never feel weird and feel no need to apologize to anyone who thinks otherwise. Fuck them and the cock-sucking horse they rode in on!
Nothing to be embarrassed about.
So after dinner I'd call an escort. What's your hesitation in doing that?
Honestly, stop caring what others think of you, you'll be fine.
Doing shit alone is nice sometimes, don't have to worry about what the others wanna do, you can do whatever you want.
As Westbrook says "don't do they, do you."
No one will care.
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Never have cared much for Hooters.
And Viet Coffee is great.
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Go on a slow night, you might find an impromptu escort in that cute waitress who hasn't made much scratch that night. You just never know, weirder things have happened.
These days, if you have a young married couple, it's a lot more likely the wife is attracted to women, too. She is probably enjoying the eye candy as much as her husband.
Anyway, beer was cold and refreshing. View was nice. Sat at the bar and watched the Cowboys bitch-slap the Giants and just chilled. Had some fries, too.
Absolutely nothing wrong with going to a "breastauarant" alone. You could be in worse places, in a worse situation.