OT: going to a breastraunt alone

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footballguy
NC
I'll be on a business trip next month. Unfrotantely there aren't any strip clubs anywhere even close to where I will be staying, and even if there were it's not in a high mileage/extras states. So probably the next best thing (aside from getting an escort which I won't do) would be to go to a Hooters/Tilted Kilt to at least enjoy a meal with a decent view.

I'll be on my trip alone, normally I have no issues with going to a strip club alone (and there are also usually other PL's alone in the club as well so it's not uncommon. But is it pathetic/creepy to go to a breastraunt and eat at the bar alone?

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avatar for LecherousMonk
LecherousMonk
7 years ago
Yes, but who cares? Embrace the lifestyle!
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Stognasty
7 years ago
I used to worry about the same thing with strip clubs. Eventually I just said fuck it. You know why you're there, they know why you're there. Doesn't matter if you're in a group or not. You're there because you like tits and ass. They're there because they would like to make money showing theirs off. It's a win/win.
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vincemichaels
7 years ago
Women are there to be enjoyed, It makes their day to be notice. Like LM above, embrace the lifestyle !!
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s275ironman
7 years ago
Just go and sit at the bar, order dinner, watch the games on their TV screens, and make the occasional glance at the waitresses and bartenders.

If it makes you feel less creepy, take an open seat at the bar right next to another patron. Just don't give a shit whether others may perceive you as creepy. I honestly don't think they will care if you are by yourself.
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Cashman1234
7 years ago
When men travel on business, they still need to eat dinner, and that's what you are doing. Having a beer and dinner - at a place that also has tvs with lots of sports - and usually a nice view of tits!
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Bj99
7 years ago
It's a lot less weird than going to a regular restaurant alone. I'll be the girls love single guys. A lot of us like them better than groups at the sc.
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ButterMan
7 years ago
I agree with the comments above if you feel weird just sit at the bar
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shadowcat
7 years ago
I sit at the bar by myself at the Waffle House all of the time. No big deal.
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JAprufrock
7 years ago
No way is it weird or creepy to go to a "breastaurant" or even a regular bar/restaurant alone. If you're on business, what other choice do you have, other than room service, which sucks and is overpriced (I travel occasionally for work). But even when you're home, I don't see any issue with it.
I go bars alone a lot, after my marriage broke up a few years ago, simply because my friends are married and we don't get many boys nights out.
I always sit at the bar, have a few beers, watch the game, just to get out of the house (it sucks being alone). I never feel weird and feel no need to apologize to anyone who thinks otherwise. Fuck them and the cock-sucking horse they rode in on!
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rh48hr
7 years ago
I go to bars alone all the time. I'm single and if I want to go watch ufc pay per views or a game I can't get at home I just go to a bar. I generally end up making a couple friends at the bar taking about the fights or whatever we're watching.

Nothing to be embarrassed about.
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ATACdawg
7 years ago
You'd hardly be likely to encounter the people who would think you weird in a Tilted Kilt or a Hooters. Just saying.....
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WetWilly
7 years ago
Sit at the bar, where it's a non issue.
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gawker
7 years ago
I used to travel for work and got used to going to restaurants alone. I never felt uncomfortable. However I worked for an extremely conservative organization and wouldn't have dared to submit an expense account with a receipt from a breastaurant.
So after dinner I'd call an escort. What's your hesitation in doing that?
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lopaw
7 years ago
I hit up a Hooters 3 days in a row for lunch when I was on jury duty in an unfamiliar area. I went alone and got lots of great attention from the girlies and never felt weird or uncomfortable. I learned a long time ago that it's not others that make you self conscious - it's you doing it to yourself. Once you get over that you stop caring what strangers think.
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shailynn
7 years ago
I eat half my meals in restaurants alone because of work. At least you can bring your smart phone in and stare at that and look less creepy.
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crazyjoe
7 years ago
Just do it. Have spmething interesting to say like a crazy event that happened at the airport etc
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Jascoi
7 years ago
i have eaten at restaurants and fast food places alone for 97% of the times due to my job and now also because i am single. my favorites are twin peaks, tilted kilt and hooters!
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houjack
7 years ago
Once you realize no one gives a shit what you do and how you feel is all a result of your own thoughts you'll be in a much better place.

Honestly, stop caring what others think of you, you'll be fine.

Doing shit alone is nice sometimes, don't have to worry about what the others wanna do, you can do whatever you want.

As Westbrook says "don't do they, do you."
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rockstar666
7 years ago
People think a lot less about you than you imagine. Just go and have fun.
avatar for Call.Me.Ishmael
Call.Me.Ishmael
7 years ago
Going to Hooters alone is not creepy or weird. How you behave once you get there there is a whole other matter.

No one will care.
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nj_pete
7 years ago
call.me.ishmael got it right ( as did all other) nothing weird here, sit and eat at the bar would be, in my opinion, your best bet.
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Cashman1234
7 years ago
In my view - I find it odd seeing couples at breastaurants. Maybe it's just me - but those places seem to be setup for either single men - or groups of guys.
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MrDeuce
7 years ago
footballguy, I think you can see rare unanimity developing on this topic! For reasons of both work and play, I eat a lot of meals alone on the road. Sometimes It's ethnic food, sometimes it's fast food, and sometimes it's a breastAURANT or even a strip club. Who TF cares what other people think? I got over that a long time ago! For that matter, why would they be thinking about you at all? One difference from some other responses is that at the weird times that I sometimes eat, such as late evening or mid-afternoon, there's usually plenty of room and I much prefer to sit at a table rather than at the bar.
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GoVikings
7 years ago
What Cashman1234 said in his last post
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lopaw
7 years ago
Those places are "set up" for anyone who wants to ogle hot women with great tits. That includes couples and us solo ladies too. Some of us share that visual pleasure and enjoy that environment. Open your mind a little.
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flagooner
7 years ago
The only reason they don't like singles is that the tab, and thus the tip, usually isn't as big.
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san_jose_guy
7 years ago
I don't care for the girls' uniforms at Hooters. Tilted Kilt looks better. But none near here. Plan to go, alone, when I am near one.

SJG
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Tiredtraveler
7 years ago
The food is usually better at Hooters.
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san_jose_guy
7 years ago
^^^^^^ I won't be paying much attention to the food.

SJG
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MrDeuce
7 years ago
I went with a friend to a Hooters on a Saturday afternoon a few years ago. All around us were young married couples with little kids -- and a play area with video games and such! Is nothing sacred?
avatar for san_jose_guy
san_jose_guy
7 years ago
I hope Tilted Kilt is better.

Never have cared much for Hooters.

And Viet Coffee is great.

SJG
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DoctorPhil
7 years ago
face it san_jose_guy you will never ever leave your mother's basement to go to any of them much to the relief of women everywhere
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flagooner
7 years ago
Try the Shepard's Pie at Tilted Kilt. It's actually quite good.
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Corvus
7 years ago
I often eat alone due to work also. Can't find the recent thread about ending up at a Tilted Kilt on a slow night and discussing OTC options with a waitress. That thread was in the past couple of weeks at most?

Go on a slow night, you might find an impromptu escort in that cute waitress who hasn't made much scratch that night. You just never know, weirder things have happened.
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sharkhunter
7 years ago
The only reason it seems weird is because you haven't been doing it. I've done it and it doesn't seem weird or creepy at all to me. I think it seems weird to go in large groups but some people do it. If you're worried about taking up too much space and there are groups waiting to be seated, the bar is a good place to sit. I like going when it's not crowded but I go for the food, beer, and the view.
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kingcripple
7 years ago
No I didn't it all the time. You get more attention if you're alone.
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doctorevil
7 years ago
I thought all of the "Dear Abbey" type questions from PLs in love with strippers were the ultimate display of PLism, and then we get a question from someone worried about going to Hooters. This must truly be the rock bottom of PLism.
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joc13
7 years ago
@deuce "I went with a friend to a Hooters on a Saturday afternoon a few years ago. All around us were young married couples"

These days, if you have a young married couple, it's a lot more likely the wife is attracted to women, too. She is probably enjoying the eye candy as much as her husband.
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JAprufrock
7 years ago
^^^^joc13: Let's hope this results in more young MILF internet porn.
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Mainster
7 years ago
Locally, the Kilt is drawing way better talent than Hooters. Kitchen staff at both chains breaks the same shit on a very regular basis, so I get to visit them each periodically, and always clock out for lunch. On my own time, I'll visit the Kilt by myself without any qualms; my trouble with Hooters is that the food is about a C-, despite how nice the scenery may be.
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goldmongerATL
7 years ago
The the waitress you are on business, that you were planning to drop hundreds at a strip club but turns out there are none around. Oh, and you are staying at a hotel real close by. See where it goes.I give you a 5-10% chance of making something out of nothing.
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goldmongerATL
7 years ago
Should have read "Tell" the waitress
avatar for JAprufrock
JAprufrock
7 years ago
Just got back home from Hooters. Wanted to get out of the house because I'm depressed and hate my life and hate being by myself, but have no choice other than to deal with it until I succumb to my demons, but that's a topic for another day.
Anyway, beer was cold and refreshing. View was nice. Sat at the bar and watched the Cowboys bitch-slap the Giants and just chilled. Had some fries, too.
Absolutely nothing wrong with going to a "breastauarant" alone. You could be in worse places, in a worse situation.
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