How much of an impact does music have?
s275ironman
Detroit
Most clubs allow the girls to pick the songs they get to dance to during their set. Often times, their choices will be from one genre of music. Do their choices have much of an effect on whether you are interested in them?
I have found that most of the ones that I go for have the same taste in music as I do. I like to listen to rock music, and I somehow usually pay more attention to girls on stage if they are dancing to rock music.
Music is not the #1 factor in my choices, though. Looks are, and always will be #1 for me. It just turns out all my past and current favorites have danced to rock music.
Does anyone else find themselves drawn to dancers that have the same taste in music?
I have found that most of the ones that I go for have the same taste in music as I do. I like to listen to rock music, and I somehow usually pay more attention to girls on stage if they are dancing to rock music.
Music is not the #1 factor in my choices, though. Looks are, and always will be #1 for me. It just turns out all my past and current favorites have danced to rock music.
Does anyone else find themselves drawn to dancers that have the same taste in music?
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I went to a newish club a year+ ago that tried to go w/ a rock-theme and after an hour my head was splitting w/ all the guitar twang - I'm no hip-hop connoisseur but prefer it to constant rock and I feel hip-hop is better and sexier for the dancers to dance-to since I like booty shaking.
w.r.t. to song influencing my choice of dancer - not in the least - it's about how she looks and if she's my type - a great song will not convince me go get dances w/ a girl I don't like or even if I'm in the fence about-her - and a terrible song will not keep me from getting dances from a dancer I like.
And gives you spirit to take a chance
And I wrote some rock 'n' roll so you can move
Music fills your heart
Well, that's a real fine place to start
It's from me it's for you
It's from you, it's for me
It's a worldwide symphony
Thank you Barry Manilow
As for whether dancers pick the music. Most of the clubs I go to it's about fifty fifty dancer's choice and DJ's choice.
At @shadowcat's favorite club, I just have to tune out the music. So much of it is bad language and actually demeaning toward women that if I listen to it too much I'd be too depressed to have any fun.