Blue Jeans
Scotthall
Florida
Girls and Guys,
I would like to hear your experience on guys wearing blue jeans. Do the the dancers like it or not. Thoughts on blue jeans.
Thanks,
I would like to hear your experience on guys wearing blue jeans. Do the the dancers like it or not. Thoughts on blue jeans.
Thanks,
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Rule #1 no blue jeans. Too hard on the dancers tush.
Once while wearing chinos, a dancer commented the softness of my clothes during a stage tip. The only time I have had a dancer suggest changing anything was when she asked me to take off my belt before the dance to avoid the buckle.
Bottom line, if you're thinking about how dancers would perceive your clothes, I would suggest soft pants like Chinos unless you're trying to make a handie happen and the club dress code allows wearing shorts in.
Jeans no. Cool 18s by Haggar yes. Underneath, I wear 100% cotton (or 75% or more cotton, remainder lycra) normal-fitting men's boxer-brief type underwear, which helps hold the condom in place. Condom necessary (for me) for the LDK experience. I'm not a commando type guy, would want more layers than that unless I'm genuinely expecting quick-and-easy handjob. I'm not a shorts type guy, would want something that looks a little less casual than that. But I can definitely understand shadowcat's recommendation to go commando (no underwear) with some shorts, especially soft-feel athletic shorts of some sort. I've also seen recommendations for leaving holes in pockets of baggy-fit NBA-type athletic shorts, or removing pockets entirely, while going commando, for easy dancer manual access. Reco's for shorts, commando, pocketless, or slacks with boxer briefs, all vary according to your preferred style, look, cling, and warmth levels, obviously.
SJG
Does this mean that wearing pants with the bottoms of the pockets cut out makes you a bigger chump than the guy wearing unaltered jeans? I had always thought of it more of wearing bottomless pockets making you the trench coat flasher kind of perv rather than how it might rate on the chump scale.
When it is time for your own pants to come down, then you invite her to the back room.
Then take her home with you too, and keep on seeing her regularly.
SJG
Likewise, I have heard theories, even in Argentine Tango workshops, that a man should strive for the maximum possible level of interaction as a strategy for future success.
I hear more often than not that jeans are not a dancer favorite, but I haven't seen a dancer reject a dance because of them.
CP
I've been wearing black 100% cotton pajama bottoms with polo shirt and dress shoes (for the parking lot walk, hopefully noone pays close attention, but I don't care as long as I get it anyway).
Its only in the decades since that it has become accepted as a kind of high culture performing art.
But the main issue against dry humping and dances in strip clubs is that you can't really lead it. Lap dancing used to mean lap sitting. That was fine. No fixed time interval or money agreement. So it was all flexible, just between you and the girl. So you can got to lead it, and sometimes it got very friendly.
Booths and backrooms, mostly what they do is increase the house cut and make it so the girl is performing a service upon you and you cannot do much. No good! Not the way to get friendly with a girl.
Better if you lead it in the front room, and save booths and back rooms until your girl is completely loosened up. You can still give her money, but its just a show of respect.
Save booths and back rooms until it is clearly time for a little bit of BJ, and then insertion.
And if you do it this way, then be sure to take your girl home with you after to continue, and then to keep on seeing her regularly.
SJG
We look like that in central Florida too.
And in my opinion there is no reason for anyone that goes out in public to expect to be treated any better than they appear to warrant. That is some of the problem with what is happening in this country young guys walking around with their pants around their ankles, speaking incoherently then complaining that they are being disrespected. Young women walking around looking like skanks. If you want to be treated with respect you need to show an ability to earn that.
Up until recently, I would always go to clubs expecting to get lap dances. No dancer has refused to give me a lap dance because I was wearing jeans. There were some that even gave me a good grind despite the fact I was wearing jeans.
Now, my motive is not necessarily to get lap dances (unless it is a non-extras club).
In my business I provide uniforms,anyone working for me is required to be at a minimum, clean and making a reasonable effort to look well, when representing my company. We don't have a weight rule nor a rule against facial hair, we do have rules regarding tattoos none may be above their neck and if you have any gang tats that are not covered we will send you home period and beards, mustaches must be neat and trimmed in such a way that your appearance is neat. I expect my employees to make a good impression, and professionalism starts with your appearance, and ability to speak clearly and coherently. I would be a hypocrite if I were to expect less from myself than of my employees.
So why on earth would you ever listen to the Dougsters of this world that jump out at us from dark alleys and try to tell you than instead of expanding and diversifying your own ventures, that you should be putting your money into things which no one can ever know very much about or have any control over, the issues in these stock markets?
SJG
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What does any of this have to do with listening to anyone, I do things that I feel are appropriate including keeping extra cash in accounts that earn income for me. I disagree with the notion that buying stocks and bonds is something that you have no control over. How the hell do you even come to that conclusion? Most of the money lost in the Great Recession has been earned back, and everyone who didn't panic and scramble for the exits has earned more than they ever lost, some people got enmeshed in scams but there are plenty of scams out there, most don't involve the stock market or any other commodity exchanges.
There are also plenty of great investment opportunities, for people that are savvy and experienced in these things. You seem to think that you know everything, that is impossible, there are a multitude of smart guys out there, sometimes you could benefit by listening, if you would have listened to a Bill Gates or a Steve Jobs 30 years ago you might be sitting on easy street, you could have listened to Warren Buffet 40 years ago you would have profited immensely.
There is a whole world out there, intelligence is using experience to sort out the wheat from the chaff, I ran my business for a long time, I have made many mistakes but never was I setback more than momentarily, I always learned what I could and used that knowledge to profit next time.
You need to show some respect for people with opinions that differ from your own, that is your biggest problem as I see it.
To be able to tell the difference, you have to know the people and be closely involved yourself. And so that really leaves you two choices, invest in yourself, or invest in your own circle of close associates. Both of these are good, and especially since it is not just your money you are putting in, it is your own time, energy, and reputation. And this, since I have pulled myself out of working for corporate America's high tech sector, is exactly what I am doing.
As far as Warren Buffet, not ever interested in listening to people like that. Don't want anything to do with them.
And unlike you, Easy Street and Plenty of Disposable have NEVER been specific objectives of mine. I want much more from life than just money to spend.
But you should know better, having run your own business and having made it work. You should know better than promoting what is really just glorified gambling, and better than to be helping Dougster promote this.
SJG
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I respect the fact that you have built a business and run it.
I just wish you would stand up for this and stop endorsing what is really just gambling in these stock markets.
SJG
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