How much would you pay ITC for a HJ?

$200+ is what you'd expect to pay in this area. And now you know why I have mostly shifted to OTC :)

Personally if its safe to ask for it, im asking for it the first vip dance of the night. If she refuses i go to the next one. If she accepts we go at it right there . I give her $60 for tip , and my number for otc when she's ready and im done for the night , mission accomplished.

Ya subra looks like youre in CA. I would imagine they are pretty pricy out there but that is still less than what this guy paid. Im in the Dc Maryland Virginia area so our cost of living is not as steep as CA. So when this dude spent a total of near 400 just for a HJ i thought he surely must be a troll.

Im pretty sure he was dead serious because prior to these messages he was asking me all sorts of crap about a particular dancer in my area like what i did with her. What did i mean about touching her ass in my review, almost felt like stalking.

So he probably really did drop that much ultumately on jus a HJ.

$0 I can jack off my own dick. I pay for BJ & FS

If your arms are long enough, you can give yourself a hj.

Nah but sometimes you don't want to feel a dick in your hand.

I'll give that guy that much credit for only asking for a hj.

$43 at the Blue Moon. A few years ago, a dancer told me if it comes out, it is $100. In Tucson, it was not over $25 at the Boat At the another famous place in Tucson, it was part of the $7 lap dance. OK, it took a few to get the deal done. It Hotlanta, under $50...

Thanks, very insightful mtnboy!

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So next week if she's still in town im going to only do 1 vip dance with this dancer and before that during the front of the house cuddling im going to tell her i never had a hj before and see if i get it free.

We are paying for handies? No. No no no no.

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I like the profile pic.

I feel danny mcbride spent some time on tuscl real low key when he was doing research for his kenny powers role.

Since I only pay $50-60 for a bj in my area, I can't see going over $25-30 for a hj.

I go to dives so I would just tip an extra $20 on top of the dances - in a nice club I would not tip more than $50 on top of dances - but like others a I usually don't care for HJs, they are a lazy way for non exteas girls to make extras $$$

At the club mtnboy49 is referencing, some dancers will give you a HJ for the cost of dances (now $46) but most of the time an additional $20-40 will do the trick. BJ are not available at this club as there is not enough privacy. FS cost will vary among dancers as well.

Mines come with the song and dance for no extra charge... against my will.

Like a dancer told me one time "I can do it myself but it feels so much better if some one else is doing it". There have been times that I didn't see any dancer that I wanted to spend $152 plus tip on for BBBJ in VIP but didn't want to go home with blue balls. In those cases I can generally get a discreet HJ done for the cost of dances plus a $20 tip.

It seems to me that the tip for a HJ should be similar to that for an LDK. Many people seem to agree that 50% of the price of the dance(s) is appropriate:

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(lapdanceking82 was a dissenter on the 50% tip, however)

But your friend gets a "non-brilliant" for cumming in a napkin. I would think that a proper ITC HJ ends with you letting the cum go where it wants to go. Come on folks, free the cum. It's the brilliant way! ;)

HJ is pretty much part of the CR experience here so the same 10 -20 tip for a full contact private applies. Buyer's market. If you exclude the $40 room fee bbbjcim is between 150 -200 here.

I'd pay for the dances, but that's it. And really, I'd probably rather feel on her than have her jerk me off, so I'd probably stop her if she started.

Cost for dances and a tip.

"Like a dancer told me one time "I can do it myself but it feels so much better if some one else is doing it"

Exactly!

Yeah, maybe I'm only a little surprised about the anti-HJ faction, some of my buddies are the same way. Me, I FUCKING LOVE HJs, and will pick a HJ over a CBJ 9 out of 10 times (obviously, I expect a lower price for the HJ)

It depends on the girl in my experience. Some will dive their hand into the pants and go at it during the song and are fine with a tip after. Others will quote astronomical prices like those mentioned in OP.

I agree with Shadowcat. I'll never go to a VIP just for a HJ. At least in VIP I'll will settle for a CBJ. I will get a HJ on the floor as part of the dances and in those cases I will pay the cost of the total amount of dances plus a $20 or $25 tip.

It depends on which of my two heads is answering the question, and when.... and it depends on how hot the woman is......

It depends....

A HJ is certainly better than CBJ, but a HJ ain't all that either. I think I would pay $80-$100.

Cost depends upon the club. I've paid as little as $10 and as much as $300. These days $100 would probably be my max.

IME, stroking from outside the shorts and quite often inside from up the thigh is SOP for a lap dance. Some of the girls unbutton and unzip to get easier access (I always go commando). There doesn't seem to be any expectation for more than the usual dance price, but for good enthusiastic service I generally tip about 50%. This is at at club with $10 lap dances so I it still only comes to $15 per song.

Yes, I'm frugal (cheap) but it must be sufficient because they keep returning, wanting my repeat business.

I once had a girl at Tootsie's offer $150 for an HJ. I laughed her out of the lap dance room.

@subraman yeah, I like HJs too, and would also prefer a HJ over a CBJ any day (I'm like 2 out of 30 lifetime cumming from a CBJ, but I'm batting 1.000 on HJs).

In my fav club (a hit-and-miss place as far as extras go), a HJ is pretty much the "standard" of what you can hope to get in VIP, and I've had sessions on either side of that standard. If I meet a girl I like in that place, I'll go to VIP with her and see what I get. So, sometimes I end up paying 175 for that handjob, and sometimes I get more, and sometimes I get less (and that dancer never gets any money out of me again, ever).

In this place, "paying extra" for that initial HJ can be a springboard to other stuff, like greater ITC extras or OTC.

To someone's comment on tipping for LDK.

I wouldn't I don't specifically ask for something. Its not something i ask the dancer to do. It just occurs if shes doing a good job. Its biology and an occupational hazzard.

If she can't get fired for it no reason to tip for it IMO. The majority of dancers that get a LDK on them are trying to make one in the first place.

30 to 60 is normal, but you can pay as much as 120 if you take your time .. same for BBBJ or you can get FS for 30 to 300 also. All in the Clubs .. jax fla, area. in the Balt area it was more expensive but could be had at non block clubs for 60 to 200 for HJ of BBBJ.

Buying dances is a chumps game. Paying money for ejaculation services is simply paying to increase your own sexual frustration.

Instead, treat your girl as a civilian and get to know her and get a front room makeout session going. Then, when it would be time for your own pants to come down, you invite her to the back room, hopefully for FS. If you can't do that, then DATY her. Then take her home with you to continue, and keep seeing her regularly.

SJG

Lol you're crazy.

Seriously dudes do not eat a stripper out in the club.

Just look at how many dudes have given quotes for bbbj and fs. Now you can assume if men admit on here to getting FS in the club there is at least one man that did BBFS on a dancer in the club.

...and now you talking about putting your face down there.

Lol paying for extra ITC and daty otc is a better investment than the hospital bills for std treatment and damage to your pride when one of these resentful dancers pushes a big wad of PL nut right in your mouth as you dine at the Y.

I've never asked for a HJ but have been given a good # of them - if It's a visit where I think I may pop then I usually will not let her do it b/c it would end my visit prematurely - often times I'll let them give me one b/c I'm fairly certain I won't pop but like her playing with my dick.

For me HJs are similar to BJs in that few girls seem to be good at it and most seem to be going thru the motions just to get paid.

Chad, maybe you would like to live like Howard Hughes did, top floor of a Vegas hotel, all carpets and furnishings covered in plastic, all food and drink sterilized, air purified, and of course no one could touch him.

If you are inclined to look down on the dancers in strip clubs, to look at them as something like inanimate objects, they probably better if you just stay away from them. Go some place else where there are women you won't feel that way about.

SJG

Lol ibcan assure you dude if you're waving money around in any woman's face in exchange for her willingly objectifying herself . 99% of them are going to hate you. That's the nature of the business. You're an opressor. You should at least act like you have some sense about the situation and not put yourself in a compromising situation.

To think that most dancers like you or like their customers in general is the naivete of a teenager.

The average stripclub patron from what ive seen is typically an unattractive, out of shape , old, white male talking up the same woman that in her spare time is dating and hooking up with professional atheletes and body builders for her physical jollies.

I never said anything about them being inanimate. If anybody is treating them one dimensional its you.

I just don't put them on a pedestal like you because i know humans.

Seriously i hope nobody is listening to you in earnest about putting their mouth to the snatch ITC of any dancer known to give extras.

You mind as well go to the cdc and ask them to inject AIDs and herpes right into your arm.

Kids Stick to HJs and CBJs while she's on the clock.

Judging by your fomulaic post you seem to think all dancers will respond uniformly to your "make out sesh in the front" which can only ever result in them waking up next to you.

Your lack of nuance suggests you think less of them than i do.

I think it's all an issue of the local-market, different cities have (a) different prices and (b) different expectations of service-level per price. One great thing about the sex-industry is that some places consider a certain service to be MORE whereas other places consider it to be LESS. So, for example, a lap-dance in some towns near-ish to Tampa, Florida, is MORE expensive than a hand-job from most willing dancers. Whereas in most cities, the lap-dance is LESS expensive, and the hand-job is a price-point up from it, and then the blow-job is another price-point up from that.

Weirdness, how different places have their own Zeitgeist about certain services. In fact, if you think about it, a hand-job which lasts about two or three songs' worth of time and which does actually get the guy to finish, presuming he isn't a really difficult cum, is certainly less work than lap-dancing for the same amount of time.

I used to receive spontaneous hand-jobs from many of the girls I was "regular" customer to, back in one city where I lived, simply because they (so it seemed) were comfortable with me, were interested in keeping me coming back the next night and the next because I'd be spending money, and were likely just as horned-up about sexuality (they were drinking, partying, etc.) to at least SOME degree as I was.

I fondly recall one dancer of my past, and this story. She was really seeming to get into the lap-dance she was giving me, grinding some, but also moaning and standing back to pose, and rotating to look at herself and how hot she was in the mirror. Kind of an up-and-down motion of her whole body got going, lasted about two songs, and during that time she was simply grasping my (entirely exposed) cock and moving up-and-down with her hand about at the same rate as the up-and-down of her whole body. The moaning was very stimulating to me; the way she was glazed-eyed and just basically lost in the experience was very stimulating to me, too, and even if it was JUST an act (though I believe it was not; I believe she was actually getting into a self-hypnotic positive state of sorts, really) it was still hot as hell. I popped my cork after about three songs, loved every second of it, felt very "intimate" with the girl, and she only asked me for the usual price of a 3-for-1 lap-dance at that club on that night. It's like, it was actually ENJOYABLE for her, in her own mind, to be able to GET ME OFF like that. It doesn't happen often, you have to know the gal and have some rapport, but it's not like they aren't human heterosexual (most of them) females (again, most of them) ya know ...

Chad, its simply a matter of treating them no differently than you would any other woman. You don't seem to do this. So whatever, they have to deal with you, not me. So at least they are separating you from your money.

SJG

@bookguy "It's like, it was actually ENJOYABLE for her, in her own mind, to be able to GET ME OFF like that."

That was definitely the case with my wall dance HJ at Follies. She was getting wetter the closer I got. I said something about it, and she said "of course I'm wet, I've got my hand on your dick". Having me in her hand appeared to be a big turn on for her.

i've been takin for ride a few times (and I'm still so slow on learning..). do not pay in advance. one time I did VIP with a hot sexy lady and she had told me $300 tip for 'everything.' all I got out of it was a hand job. (damned expensive.)

and then Thursday night another hottie said $200 for everything bareback. so i paid her. in advance. at least I got a good bare back blow job from her. still....:(

^^^ sounds like they don't teach them very well at stripper school what "everything" means.

Or, I suppose they're teaching the SW curriculum, in which case they got it exactly right.