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rickdugan
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Last night a former one and done OTC partner confronted me about why I haven't taken her out since. She sounded rather upset as she asked. She's seen me take another out several times since and she wanted to know if she offended me.
Backstory: about two months ago, with a horrible itch to scratch on a slow night with few options, I took a girl out that would normally not make the cut.
I may be an a-hole, but I am not gratuitously cruel. The truth is that her body was not to my liking when I saw her with all of her clothes off. What I told her is that she did nothing wrong, but that I just have certain preferences.
I'd be curious to hear how others might have handled that.
Backstory: about two months ago, with a horrible itch to scratch on a slow night with few options, I took a girl out that would normally not make the cut.
I may be an a-hole, but I am not gratuitously cruel. The truth is that her body was not to my liking when I saw her with all of her clothes off. What I told her is that she did nothing wrong, but that I just have certain preferences.
I'd be curious to hear how others might have handled that.
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Tell her the truth. You aren't that interested in females b/c you're a faggot.
Tough crowd.
Tell her to meet you back at the Hotel then never show
It's a hoe anyways; what the fuck does it matter?
Of this one who was distressed, do you like her? Usually that means more than just looks, and usually you can discern this early on in talking with her.
SJG
1. Anything said after "No, thank you" is said by the first loser.
2. "Nah, I'm looking for a little variety tonight" is simple and sweet and often suffices for most cases where you're trying to let the girl down easy.
3. combine 1 or 2 with eye contact, crack a wry smile, lean in, and at most repeat the same line only once more.
Sometimes a young lady will pry for more information or demand an explanation, like with your dancer in your scenario. I tend to be Mr. Honestly but I'm not sure where what exactly honestly buys either you or her in this case. It's hard to deliver an iron fist in a velvet glove.
Here the girl is like a car. You can't magically paint a silver car blue or can you put a V8 engine in a I6 model. All the salesman can do is work with you on price. So unless your hang up was on price, there isn't much she (the stripper) can do about it. Right? This isn't a teachable moment for her. She cannot magically make her body "hotter" or your type. So what's the point? I see nothing uncomfortable about it.