OTC disconnect and heads turning
larryfisherman
California
Speaking of OTC (my previous thread) is there ever a disconnect when you hang out with younger dancers OTC?
As far as them not being into the same things you are, or them being too young and immature (basically acting their age), etc.
I figure it must be a little worse for you older gents. I can talk their language for the most part, but at times it feels like I'm hanging out with one of my little sister's friends.
On the other hand don't you love it when heads turn when you're out with your stripper?
You're the envy of a lot of guys. The strippers I've been with OTC always seem to dress sexy lol.
As far as them not being into the same things you are, or them being too young and immature (basically acting their age), etc.
I figure it must be a little worse for you older gents. I can talk their language for the most part, but at times it feels like I'm hanging out with one of my little sister's friends.
On the other hand don't you love it when heads turn when you're out with your stripper?
You're the envy of a lot of guys. The strippers I've been with OTC always seem to dress sexy lol.
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Honestly, while sometimes I get a kick out of envious looks, it's pretty much a don't care for me. Just like in the club, where I'd rather melt into the background, don't like sitting at the stage since that's where all eyes are pointed, etc., when OTC or doing anything else in life, I'm not an attention whore and I'm in this far more for how she makes me feel (or how she'll be making me feel when we get to the hotel room) than for envious looks.
Funny... I was saying to my ATF recently, "no wonder we get along so great, we both think you're hot and awesome", and she just says "yah" with this "no shit, sherlock" tone in her voice.
When I was 63 out with my 23 yo ATF we'd still get the stares but I usually felt like a pederast.
It's now been 9 years that I've been squiring her around and while there's no major disconnect with our conversation, there is with music. She turns my car radio up to where the car vibrates with hip hop or rap. The radio controls are on the steering wheel so I change it to NPR for shits and giggles. As others have said so long as we're talking about her we're fine.
There are 2 other dancers who I've spent considerable time with and they are both well read and interested in current affairs. My ATF might know who Donald Trump is but only cares if her free healthcare or food stamps are going to be affected.
I travelled twice with my ATF - once to my condo in SC and she was high all five days and drove me nuts. The other trip to Vegas she was on methadone and had travel packs and we got along fine but we're busy all the time - helicopter to the Hoover Dam, passenger in a NASCAR ride at 170 mph, etc.
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No, you're obviously a guy in full-blown midlife crisis who can't accept that he's 3.5 decades older than girls he "dates." These are not looks of envy you get from other people; these are looks of pity and everyone knows the score -- that you're paying exorbitant amounts of money for the fantasy of being attractive to young girls.
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You're also a nut case @FishStix in your own special way. But you still have time to grow out of it. At least you're not pissing away your kids inheritance.
Many of those looks you get when you're with a woman out of your league and/or age range is people staring and thinking "Huh. That guy just walks around with his hooker."
And they're not wrong.
As for disconnect, I'm apparently a good conversationalist, as I've never experienced this.
One thing I learned is these younger girls are obsessed with Snapchat. It seemed like she was taking a picture or snap every few minutes.
lol, what??? No. I don't give a fuck who notices us or what they see or think.
Later though, I believe there would be ones you can see long term and spend more time with.
Learning how to talk with them in the club is an important factor.
SJG
" they might just want to fuck."
Do you really believe that?
I'd give pretty good odds that they just want $$$.
They may be willing to fuck for it, but I would bet that they would prefer to get it without fucking for it. They might consider a quickie preferable to spending a couple hours talking to Fishsticks (I'd rather get kicked in the balls than listen to his BS), but I am willing to bet that the vast majority don't "just want to fuck."