I was very tempted to sign up on SW today thanks to...
Dancer_
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Rick Dugan's hypocrisy.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showth…
Come on now, Rick. You post so much shit here about how it's nice to pursue desperate strippers on the last day of month when their rents are due. You hoped for more OTC opportunities in Florida thanks to power outrages and weather conditions. You mentioned how recession made OTC possible with girls who wouldn't do anything like that until economy went to shit. Etc etc etc
And then you wonder why strippers cry after banging you? And you really think your behavior is not predatory?
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showth…
Come on now, Rick. You post so much shit here about how it's nice to pursue desperate strippers on the last day of month when their rents are due. You hoped for more OTC opportunities in Florida thanks to power outrages and weather conditions. You mentioned how recession made OTC possible with girls who wouldn't do anything like that until economy went to shit. Etc etc etc
And then you wonder why strippers cry after banging you? And you really think your behavior is not predatory?
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I also don't deny the fact that I bitched about the first two girls in that story on this very board about a month ago. Here is the link: https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=4…
But the stuff with the third girl is what really made me wonder if I crossed a line. I didn't elaborate too much about this on SW, but she was a sweet kid who I was probably too predatory with. Very uncharacteristically, I have felt so guilty about it that I haven't been in the clubs since. Three weeks may not seem like a lot for some people, but for me that is quite a hiatus. It also then made me question whether I did wrong by the first two girls. Hence the SW post.
I would have liked to have posted this here too, but the troll activity has been so bad here for so long that any serious discussion about strip club ethics is likely to go off the rails before it even gets started.
My behavior is absolutely predatory and I never said otherwise. Strip clubs are, by their very nature, predatory environments. /quote
Except of course for this thread: https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=4…, where you state, rather clearly,
"Those of you who view this as predatory are either utterly ignorant or hypocrites."
So, in your own words, and completely in context, you now admit to being either ignorant or a hypocrite.
Again, I will reiterate, I don't care about your OTC activities, and that the fact you actually share both the good and the not-so-good with us is actually appreciated by me. Because, as much of a hypocrite (and a predator) as you may be, at least you're actually going to clubs and [posting about your experiences, and not just filling up this board with nothing but either off-topic BS or just plain idiotic tripe, unlike 90% of the other regular posters on this board.
CP
Please understand that most of the guys who frequent strip clubs and post on this forum really are quite creepy. I'm not justifying it, I think it just comes from the life desperation which so many people feel.
As I see it, the biggest issue is the negative ways in which they see the very same dancers which they are engaging with sexually.
SJG
The link in the OP takes you to the last page of the 6-page thread; you gotta go to the first page to make sense of it:
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showth…
ROFL... Serious discussion where you and all your circle jerkers here just mindlessly recite Ayn Rand? ooookkkkkaaayyyy...
Explained it to you before, RIckyBoy. You are not a full blown sociopath just a narcissist which a near neighbor condition.
So you do feel guilt but not like a normal person does. For example drinking and driving is no big deal to you: Hey, you get to home and people should know to be careful late night because they should know drinking drivers are out there right? But then you sometimes force yourself to say in a strip club you don't like for two hours because you have a rule that you need to do that before you can write a review, whereas most people won't feel a fuck about leaving and writing the review that just said the place sucked ass.
No back to the sociopath/narcissist being neighbors things. Yep in that origin post you reveal in how great a predator you are. That's a sociopathic trait inherit in your narcissism. Even though finding girl for OTC is a real non-accomplishment. Well except to someone with your "personality damage" who thinks it is a big accomplishment due to your confirmation bias which feeds your fantasy. (Remember guys like you are only able to think by four means: fantasy, confirmation bias, splitting, and projection. )
So get it right, RickyBoy! You were always crying here that you would never understand yourself and your motives for going to strip clubs. Are you starting to clue in finally?
Catch Dugly in a mistake and he was just kidding or it was a typo or just doing it "get" someone...
Interesting.
Lol!
Just sort of a sociopath? Nice try Dugly.
rickdugan may be a d-bag. The first story of his I read was his "I know this former addict and I hope she backslides so I can get cheaper sex" story. But he actually tells stories.
Chili Palmer just excoriated rickdugan but I've never seen a crazy story from him. I've taken the position that a fair proportion of rickdugan's stories are exaggeration or outright fiction. But they're entertaining. Like a glimpse into the mind of a seriously sex-obsessed d-bag.
I try to be a positive guy but, I'm sorry, what we have here is an entertaining d-bag vs a boring d-bag. Entertaining = brilliant! So I'm on rickdugan's side on this particular thread.
Saying that made me feel a bit dirty. :(
I think I need a shower!
;)
Lol! What a dumb fag.
Like I've always maintained the guy is the most total faggot imaginable.
The lesson I hope some guys here take away from that thread: SW is beyond a cesspool, of women who (to the extent that they're not just posing) truly horrible and miserable human beings. Stop sending strippers over there to get advice -- yes, there are some helpful threads in Hustle Hut or whatever, but how is the probability that a stripper will also look at other threads? How easy is it to get angry and radicalized by what they read there? Sending a stripper there does a disservice to all of her future customers (which could be YOU), and a disservice to her.
Yep many. Some "full blown" sociopaths there.
Anyway @Dancer95 do what you want my view is it ain't worth it.
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Yes, of course, this is the correct interpretation. It's not so much that Dugan gives a shit one way or another about making strippers cry -- it's a "humble brag," a way of stating something self-deprecating when the real motive is to call attention to himself.
And worrying whether Dugan is predatory or creepy really misses the point. The real comical aspect is the spectacle of a middle-aged guy who's based his entire identity on paying strippers for sex. With 10 thousand posts on two websites over the course of nearly a decade!!! When Dugan's time has come, we should bury him with that white suit and his voluminous posts from TUSCL and SW. Something meaningful he can take with him in his afterlife.
He blames it on the level of "troll activity" but reality is that people are just generally onto him and faggity ways.
That worst part, is I've actually stuck up for this guy in the past! If I was manipulated, I can definitely see how he does it to dancers .. or greases bouncers or strokes managers.
This is hilarious. I wonder if he will ever come back to posting over there.
He has much in common with attention seeking bipolar strippers, therefore he's comfortable in those environs, and any affirmation he can get, albeit it negative is a score in his book.
Well we don't want him. Unless you're talking like a having SJG to use a punching bag type thing.
Anyway, I do a guy a solid by treating him as a "her" for over 2 years now on SW and this is what I get. Ouch on the gratitude bro. ;)
A propensity to readily conspiracy theories is due to the "splitting" aspect of his "personality damage".
Lol!
I still don't understand what's going on though so would love to hear his conspiracy theory.
Dancer95, I'll be in the NYC area this spring and would love to buy a bunch of dances from you. I saw your photo on here a while back and you are just my type. :)
I'll pm you before the trip if you'd be willing to tell me what club you are at. Thanks.
Eh, this will blow over. It isn't the first time that a handful of girls on SW have taken strong objection to something about me and it won't be the last. They turn over on SW about as frequently as in the real strip clubs. I won't ruin several years of careful identity building over a momentary tiff. I'm not saying that he's been building it for two years, only that I've known for two years now.
Rick, nice try to distract our attention.
But hey, I'm sure she'll nonetheless appreciate your belated yet still gallant attempt to ride to her unneeded defense. ;)
Anyhow, since you won't wanna tell us, then nobody cares about whoever you're talking about. Let's come back to your persona.:)
I can only imagine how much fun they had in the "Ladies" only section as well. ;)
Lol! What a dumb fag.
As far as the two sites.... on here we will disagree about how we treated a stripper, we will call each other out for being a predator, we talk about helping them out. At SW the super predators are idolized. It is a sad world we live in
But then the dumb bitch stop making me pay for it. Lost its appeal after that...
Member turnover
ricklightenment, if you will.
And ricklightened masses are a beautiful thing. ROAR!!!
Keep on bumpin!
There may be some "code switching" going on when certain TUSCLers wander over to SW lol. At least when I still logged in over there the ban hammer fell fast on the blue team. I thought the non-man hating chit chat was interesting, but it was a lot of work trying to have a substantive discussion that didn't regress into "us vs them" in tone. Even when some of the girls were game, inevitably one of the presumed queen bees would try to divebomb it.
Seems like the main girl to get all in Rick's ass was the Genoveve girl. I mean once the cat got out of the bag about Rick's posts over here that's when she really did damage. She had all the dancers wanting to ban him by the end of the thread, the name Rick Dugan may as well have been Richard Ramirez as far as they were concerned.
Funny part for me though, was seeing that Rick even posted something like that there. I'm relatively newer to these strip club forums, so I've only been reading them since mid 2017. But even since then I noticed that Rick's posts on here were much more abrasive than his posts over on SW. Which is why it surprised me to see he would even post that type of thread on there. A couple of folks in that old thread alluded to an almost Dr. Jeckll and Mr. Hyde type thing. Well maybe due to that thread, the disparity between his SW and TUSCL posts has magnified even more so.
Still after all that, it seems Rick was mostly right. He still posts over there but is now squeaky clean with all his posts. He still gets a bunch of likes on a lot of his posts and it seems they've mostly forgotten about this whole ugly incident. I guess now all his humble brag threads will be strictly for the locker room that is TUSCL.
I post some stuff there, others here. Fascinating. 😁