Strippers make no sense !
Stripperheels
Not every stripper but the strippers that give their phone number out just to make the guy think she likes him so he will keep coming to see her make no sense cause eventually the guy is going to catch on and it's gonna backfire in her face and she's gonna lose her customer ! I just had that happen to me and now im mad at her and we still text but I'm going to tell her in a nice way how I feel ! She's a nice girl I don't like that she's doing this game
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As they say in basketball: "don't hate the player; hate the game."
Don't get so worked over a teenager in lingerie. Visit the clubs. Pay/tip the girls that fancy your interest, enjoy yourself, return to your life. Use the club for its intended purposes. Re-visit as necessary. Enjoy the show / enjoy the ride. Not really complicated.
What? It makes total sense for a stripper to give out her phone number and make guys think she likes them. This is good marketing. This is how dancers make their living. If you are so delusional that you think that every stripper who gives you her number is in love with you, the problem is with you.
She wanted you to know when she is working so you could come in.
She was hoping you'd man up and suggest a paid date.
She genuinely liked you and was considering dating you but changed her mind after she got to know you a little better.
She wants a friend and not a boyfriend.
Just imagine how upset you'll be when she cancels a date to hang out with her best customer. Or some guy takes her away to Cancun for a few days. Or you stop by her place and find her paying off her dealer with a BJ.
Did she imply that she was open to a paid date? Somebody else on here mentioned using Ockham's razor to evaluate things (I can't remember the context). I suggest you do that. If the simplest explanation for her giving you her number is wanting to get you to pay her out of the club (based on other actions) then that's probably why she gave you her number.
If she did not do so she may be stringing you along. She may feel that enough guys will fail to call for some reason (e.g., they're married or in a LTR); instead they'll just return to the club. She can make money off of those and if she loses the occasional PL that thinks he's going to become her boyfriend it is probably for the best anyway. After all, PLs that want to become stripper boyfriends are probably best avoided. ;)
There you go. No need for any more discussion. Where's that close thread button? Close thread! Close thread! lol I love when PLs refuse to own their sucker-itude (I'm pretty sure that's a word) and blame their crazy thoughts and feelings on the stripper. I do think there are strippers who are maliciously manipulative, but anyone who reads anything into a stripper giving out her number, should be doing some contemplation on their own emotional state and emotional intelligence
I have 4 sisters. I noticed they often didn't go out with guys who just walked up and said wanna date? Kind of like a dancer asking wanna dance out of the blue. They wanted to be talked into it even if they really liked the guy. Phone number, ot texting, step a to going out. For me we usually already agreed to go out and the number was just to contact her.