I drove way out of my way to my favorite club Saturday. I sat in the parking lot for an hour and then headed home. Somewhere along the way I changed my mind about visiting. I ended up at a different club closer to home. I just wasn't ready to see a long time fav. that day. Anybody else do crazy stuff like this?
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last commentSitting in the lot for an hour is crazy. Nope, never did that.
Not going in because my favorite is there? That would be crazy. I go in when my favorite is working.
Ending up ar a different club than the one I planned? Yes.
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Not really ... my strip club trips aren't filled with angst and introspection, just fun :)
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Sounds like you did the right thing. Sometimes I realize that I'm just not in the mood to go somewhere and I would only there out of habit if I did.
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Every fuckin wacky Wednesday
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Following up with Thirsty Thursday
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I've never sat in the lot for an hour. I never worry about seeing a dancer I'm not getting dances with anymore. If she doesn't like it, too bad but I'm not going to let her dictate how I have my fun.
You can't view dancers as girlfriends or ex girlfriends. They want us for our money, we want them for their bodies. And if we both have fun in the process great! but once it's over, move on.
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^ It sounds like he spent the hour reality-testing what people had told him here and figured out that we were actually onto something and then went to do something more fun than barking up the wrong tree. I don't see any shame in figuring shit out in life.
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Every fuckin wacky Wednesday
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Every fuckin wacky Wednesday
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Every fuckin wacky Wednesday
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Every fuckin wacky Wednesday
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Nina says shut the fuck up joe
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You have a car. What god's name possessed you to SIT in the parking lot for an HOUR. What were you doing that entire time, wanking it?
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A year ago I drove 3:15 minutes to visit the Columbia Platinum Plus. It was going to be a 2 night/3 day stay. I walked in got a seat, ordered a drink and was joined by one of my favorites.
Then she proceed to tell me about the new club policy about a bouncer being present in the couch room whenever a couple was back there.
I told her "Sorry. I don't have to put up with this bull shit". 5 Minutes later I was back in my car driving 3 hours to get to Follies.
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@shadowcat business must have decreased dramatically because of it.
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Tiburon - It has at that club, their Greenville club and Platinum Plus is West Columbia. They are just barely hanging on.
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I have never done anything even remotely this crazy. Damn.
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I hope you didn't get charged for parking
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I may have gone to a club and sat in the lot 5 minutes thinking if I really wanted to go in (probably a dive club where there's often shit you gotta put up w/) - I say "may" since I can't really recall driving to a club then changing my mind b/f I go in (w/ the exception of a few months ago when I went to a club I hadn't been to in a while and didn't go in b/c the parking lot was almost empty on a Fr night).
For the most-part I figure one never knows what may happen in a club and one may go in w/ low expectations and end-up having a great-time.
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I've never sat pondering my situation in a strip club parking lot. It's taken me time to find parking - at some clubs with on street parking - but that's about the most time I'll spend in the car before going in.
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I have driven to the club, and just when I got there my CF texted that she couldn't make it after all.
Ended up not going in that day.
I would not wait an hour to make that decision.
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Yeah - I would wait 59-minutes max - an hour is ridiculous
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I have driven the hour or so to my old favorite club, only to arrive there and then just keep on driving just because I found the lack of cars there disconcerting. That's one club you don't want to be the only customer present at.
I did go to my local nude BYOB club once, only to eat a taco from the taco wagon which was parked there, back when they used to have one make the rounds there and never once stepping foot inside the club. That was during a low period in the immediate aftermath of my favorite dancer of all time for that club leaving.
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Sounds to me that the OP saved himself from walking in and spending a wad of cash just out of habit. Hopefully the alternate venue you ended up at was worthwhile.
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Called a fav one day about 2 years ago, set up OTC, hopped in my car - and - - pulled over about 10 minutes from her place. I didn't wait an hour, or even 15 minutes, I called her up after 10 minutes and lied about a family emergency. Then I drove to a club I knew she had never worked at and spent a couple of hours checking out dancers I hadn't had before!
Yes, it is crazy to pass up a sure thing. Sometimes we don't want more of what we like. Sometimes we just want to be hunters in a different jungle and take our chances.
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^ so you flaked on her - LOL
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As so often happens, Subraman posted what I was thinking before I even thought it:
" Not really ... my strip club trips aren't filled with angst and introspection, just fun :)"
I can't imagine making that boring one-hour drive from Indy to Kokomo, sitting in the Hip Hugger parking lot for an hour (!!), and then not going in.
Also . . . how's that 90-day break from "show clubs" coming along? Face it, dude -- you're hooked! I still think a few months away from clubbing would do you some good.
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