How many strippers did you ask before you were given the OK for OTC?
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It's all in the title?
I'm still asking but I think I've hit up 20 strippers so far.
I'm still asking but I think I've hit up 20 strippers so far.
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It amazes me sometimes, JS69 says he overpays and I'm not sure what he's offering but I've offered sizable amounts as well, thrown out crazy numbers just to see if a stripper will bite. It's seems like $5,000 won't convince a stripper to come back to my hotel, then the next night I find one just as hot that will do it for $125.
I still don't suggest it unless I'm pretty sure the girl will at least consider it. I've seen guys get clocked for making indiscreet suggestions about OTC.
But in the early days my attemts were much more hamfisted. Today I target girls who are more likely to say yes, though from time to time I cannot help but engage in a little pursuit. :)
If your in a club that is basically a brothel your going to experience a massive amounts of Yes"s
Just keep that in mind the next time you go clubbing
In clean clubs my first time around it took me asking every damn bitch on staff before i found that one girl and then she priced it at $1,000
My first go around at a Nasty club i got offers from it felt like every cunt in the house lol...prices ranged from $50 car bj to $200 hotel fuck
I need to start speaking with an English accent.
And obviously at a club like this if you was to ask everybody for OTC you should have a 50/50 shot....but if you asked only the dick hand shakers out you would have a much higher yeild
Also, if you're new to the club and/or the dancers, then the chances for success decrease. Attempting a "speed dating" approach can work, but it's more challenging and may require more cash.
Keep in mind that OTC with a *complete* stranger puts the dancer at greater risk. We swap cautionary tales of PLs getting ripped off, blackmailed, beat up, or waking up in the tub minus a kidney. Strippers swap cautionary tales about beatings, rape, and getting strangled in bed.
I had to ask three dancers before I got OTC. I wasn't very familiar with the first two. The third was a dancer who I'd had ITC FS (twice) with in a club where the private rooms were on the small side. After the second time, I tactfully told her that I was losing interest in awkward sex in a glorified closet. She took the hint and offered OTC.
Though to be honest, in my experience, girls working in the dirty clubs aren't as easy as one would assume to take OTC. After all, why would you leave the club to collect one p4p payment when you can rack up multiple right in the relative safety of your own club? This is especially true for girls with transportation issues, SOs., etc.
The key issue to getting any kind of girl OTC is the amount of time and money invested ITC getting to know each other so she will feel SAFE going OTC with you
But, @JS69: "OTC without sex is like peanut butter and jelly without bread. You could do it but why would you?"
I think it would be more accurate to say that "OTC without sex is like peanut butter and jelly without the peanut butter, jelly and bread."
The first OTC I experienced was due to the dancer offering - which was a nice surprise. The dancer was riding me - and she came hard on my pants. She calmed a bit - pulled out her phone - and asked for my number. Turned out to be a good OTC girl. Much more relaxing fucking her on a bed.
This is fine with me. But for myself, I treat all women as civilians. So all talk about outside contact is done in a completely civilian manner. I have found that most girls, if you approach them like civilians, they are quite available and willing.
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Ummm, yes Drew, fucking the girl is usually the point of it. Only on this board is there ever any confusion about that. IME 19 times out of 20 when I ask a girl to meet me outside she doesn't even ask what I want to do with her - it's a given.
Of the remaining 5% who do ask, they really understand too, but usually fall into one of the following camps: (1) want to hear some confirmation, which an amused "What do ya think I want to do?" usually satisfies; (2) wish to discuss the "date" because they want to go for food/drinks first so that it doesn't feel like a pay-for-pussy event; or (3) aren't really interested in OTC but are fishing for information. After doing this dance so many times over so many years it has become pretty easy to figure out which is which.
3 years later I managed to get back to Memphis to look up Danny's again but found it closed permanently. I had noticed a bill board advertising a Gentlemen's Club called Platinum Plus. So I went there. I was not there long before I was approached by a great looking girls who asked "do you like red heads with big tits". I replied that I did and she sat down. We talked for awhile and without even getting any dances, I was bold enough to ask if she wanted to come to my hotel room. She said yes, we agreed on price ($150) and she asked for $30 up front to pay her club tip out. Back then I was pretty naive and gave her the money. I the went back to my hotel room to wait for her. She showed up 30 minutes later. Her hair still wet from a shower.
Platinum Plus then became my favorite club. :)
But it's sometimes worthwhile to say it explicitly to prevent the dancer from being surprised (or "surprised"...) when you're both in the hotel room. This prevents any renegotiation of the price ("Well, if I'd known you wanted *that*...").
Not an issue for me. I get to know my dancers a little before asking for OTC. For the traveling PL, though, it's more of a risk.
It doesn't need to be complex, but it shouldn't sound like you want to date them.
Pricing is going to depend on dancer and the region. Look at what local escorts are getting and offer somewhat less, partly because you're the one paying for the room and partly because she's probably going to ask for more. The end price should wind up being fair(ish) for everyone.
Also, it's not impossible that roughly the same conversation has taken place in a non-parody setting...
Part of the fun of clubbing is it can be like a box of chocolates - as you don’t always know what you’ll get.
It’s easy for a dancer to agree to do OTC stuff with an old guy who has the money she needs. But actually meeting that old dude in a filthy hotel room by the airport - without a bouncer - and the relative safety of a club - can be a different story.
Esta, you and the OP suffer from the same malady - you were hunting for OTC in NYC. The problem with NYC, especially Manhattan, is that there are too many thick wallets chasing too few girls. While the list of clubs in Manhattan looks like a lot, on a per capita basis NYC is not a club mecca. And when you can find a potentially willing girl, she wants a lot for it - more than most guys are willing to spend.
You may have more a little more luck in the boroughs, but even there you may want to choose nights like Monday or Tuesday. But even those clubs get very busy and stage tipping can get intense, so these girls are often not under a lot of pressure to earn in unconventional ways.
Though this is all based upon my pre-COVID experiences. I don't know what the clubs are like at the moment.
My Golden Period for OTC in the northeast was definitely the couple of years following the Great Recession. When the market plunged down to below 7,000, club spending in places like NYC dried up dramatically. Oh the memories.
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