Strippers Pregnancies
GACA
Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Fckn pssied. I know it's not my life, but it's the 2nd time in six months when I'm really vibing a dancer, and boom, ends up pregnant.
What is up? There's a fckn pill for this shit...
Rant over...but what us up with these girls and getting pregnant?
What is up? There's a fckn pill for this shit...
Rant over...but what us up with these girls and getting pregnant?
Got something to say?
Start your own discussion
24 comments
:)
Female contraception is no more reliable than what goes on between than girl's ears.
We need better male contraception!
SJG
But I still say that most female contraception is more reliable and trouble free than the women who use it.
If a stripper really had an unintended pregnancy, why would she tell you about it?
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.ph…
SJG
SJG
-->"Well, if they get pregnant, he'll love her forever, right?"
IMO, based on me having no qualifications to remotely have an opinion but being an expert on the forums :), It's definitely much more complex than try to trap a man, and more than just inability to think things through and make rational unselfish decisions. A desperate drive to have someone to love and be loved by, for example, is a pretty universal constant, especially for someone who feels like she (or he) is lacking both.
But the married family life seems to be deteriorating. I plan to marry and have children have one day, but I don't want kids until I'm financially and emotionally ready. Thankfully I take preventative measures (ie contraceptives) so I've never been faced with a pregnancy. When I am, I hope I am at least engaged.
I think I'd be an adorable pregnant woman, and a great mother --- but again, not for another few years. I've got money to make and degrees to get.
Of all the strippers I've known who have gotten pregnant, and I have either personal knowledge of them (that is, the stripper told me directly) or heard 2nd-hand through one of her stripper friends whether it was planned or not, exactly 0 of the pregnancies were planned pregnancies with long-term partners. Which doesn't mean it doesn't happen, there are plenty of times where a stripper got pregnant in a club and I have no idea whether it was planned or not, but I have no direct or indirect knowledge of any planned pregnancy. I do know that in a number of cases, the stripper and her fuckbuddy or boyfriend were not using birth control, so she consciously or subconsciously knew that this could (would) happen.
GACA - just be thankful it's not yours. I'll never forget a stripper called me that I hadn't seen for several months and first thing she said was she's preggers. Silence on my end of the phone for a minute while I was doing the math in my head and I realized "schwew - no way it could be mine, and no way she could try to blame me."
Probably fairly often – and many probably strip so they can better provide for their child(s).
I was at this little club a couple of months ago and was leaving as the club was closing and one of the AA dancers I know asked me if I could drop her off at home not too far away and I said sure.
As I'm driving her home she mentions she had not danced for a while b/c she was pregnant and had given birth and very nonchalantly tells me “the baby came out white – IDK who baby that is – but I'm keeping it” - she did not seem to be sweating-it so I just took-it in stride too.
SJG