So I've gotten the names of some great girls at this new club I've visited. Of course, I'm a newbie to the entire scene. What's the procedure to finding out if any of the girls are working a certain night? Do I ask the lady at the front door? Do I call in? I'm the type that would rather not waste his time if possible.
Best if you can communicate directly with the dancer by text. Whoever answers the phone at the club will almost always tell you she's there just to get you in the door. If you're at the door, they'll tell you she's on her way in, again, just to get you in the door.
Some clubs, you can ask who their dancers are, without giving away which one you want. One of them in my area is like that. Most clubs don't do that, though. You got to remember not to ask about specific dancers, though.
Like was mentioned above, ask the dancer for her number.
Another thing that worked well for me was the barmaid. Got to know her pretty well. She would call me and let me know that (dancers name) was in. Also would call and give me info on new dancers she thought I'd enjoy. Takes time to develope this, but sure worked well.
A very small number of clubs post a reliable dancer schedule 24 hours in advance on their web site. This is mostly in LA in my experience. I can't imagine why all clubs don't do this. It should be customer service 101.
But if you want to see her it's always best to just get her number and text her.
Stick with us and I bet within 12 - 24 months you're having sex dates with those cute young things.
Only get numbers from a dancer you really wish to see a lot. Make sure its a burner, because you don't want 100 texts asking when you wil be there on your regular phone.
If you plan on calling in to the club, be prepared to be lied to. At most clubs, at least around here, the door girl who answers the phone has been told to always say yes when someone asks if dancer x is working. I guess they figure better to get you there & have your parking/cover/drink money and know you've invested the time to come in when they tell you she's not there.
You are insane if you don't get the number of any girl you'd like to see again. Strippers are not like civilian dating, asking for her number is not some big ceremonial threshold -- in fact, for many (most) girls, keeping in phone touch is part of their business model, and they'll have a google voice number for just this purpose, so they don't have to give you their real number. Not a bad idea for you to get your own google voice number to do the same.
And this way, not only can you check with the girls themselves, you can track them as they change clubs, etc. And don't be surprised at the flake rate. I've known strippers who, even if I ask them the night before if they're working tomorrow, I could never rely on that information until they texted me that they were in the car and on their way, or already at the club
Sam, most clubs don't post dancer rosters. This probably has something to do with not wanting to hear endless bitching from expectant PLs when 25% of the listed dancers don't show. Many of these girls dance in the first place because they don't want to be controlled. Clubs that try to enforce scheduling too tightly can quickly lose their best talent to other clubs and/or end up on the wrong end of "employee" status lawsuits.
I have never called a club about a particular dancer, but I have to imagine that many clubs will say whatever you want to hear to get you in. There may also be sensitivity to potential stalkers.
If you really like one particular girl enough, just get her number and text her. Simple. It is very common nowadays for girls to share cell numbers with good customers.
The most consistent thing about strip-clubs and strippers is that they are inconsistent – i.e. don't depend on the club to tell you what you need to know.
As others have mentioned; best is to get their # so you can text the dancer – even her telling you “yeah baby I'm always here x,y,z days” does not mean she will be there when you show-up on x,y,z.
Get a Google # (Google.com/voice) or probably better yet a burn-phone app for yoru smart-phone – probably not a good idea for a stripper to have your real # - and if your dancer-interest is not aware of these options and thus hesitant to give you her real # (understandably); let her know about these options.
I have enough dancers I like at the clubs I visit, that I rarely have a problem with one of my favorites not being there. If by the off chance none of my favorites happen to be there, then I use this as an opportunity to try out a few other dancers. Because it won't be long before your current favorite either ups and quits or goes from a lot of fun to bat shit stalker insane.
Also learn who a dancer's dancer friends are. You can get some nice insider information about dancers. Most dancers I don't want to get their phone numbers, but knowing their dancer friends lets you know such than as,
Jenna is out of town for two weeks
Bambi violated her parole and is the guest of the county for two months.
Jenna is scouting out Club XYZ for us. Jenna, Bambi and I will be heading there if it works out. Please see us there.
And yes I have actually heard these lines from other dancer.
As a side note, asking one dancer about another dancer can be fun, you never know what answers you will get.
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Another thing that worked well for me was the barmaid. Got to know her pretty well. She would call me and let me know that (dancers name) was in. Also would call and give me info on new dancers she thought I'd enjoy. Takes time to develope this, but sure worked well.
But if you want to see her it's always best to just get her number and text her.
Stick with us and I bet within 12 - 24 months you're having sex dates with those cute young things.
As others have said, ask for her number or give her yours.
And this way, not only can you check with the girls themselves, you can track them as they change clubs, etc. And don't be surprised at the flake rate. I've known strippers who, even if I ask them the night before if they're working tomorrow, I could never rely on that information until they texted me that they were in the car and on their way, or already at the club
SJG
I have never called a club about a particular dancer, but I have to imagine that many clubs will say whatever you want to hear to get you in. There may also be sensitivity to potential stalkers.
If you really like one particular girl enough, just get her number and text her. Simple. It is very common nowadays for girls to share cell numbers with good customers.
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As others have mentioned; best is to get their # so you can text the dancer – even her telling you “yeah baby I'm always here x,y,z days” does not mean she will be there when you show-up on x,y,z.
Get a Google # (Google.com/voice) or probably better yet a burn-phone app for yoru smart-phone – probably not a good idea for a stripper to have your real # - and if your dancer-interest is not aware of these options and thus hesitant to give you her real # (understandably); let her know about these options.
SJG
Also learn who a dancer's dancer friends are. You can get some nice insider information about dancers. Most dancers I don't want to get their phone numbers, but knowing their dancer friends lets you know such than as,
Jenna is out of town for two weeks
Bambi violated her parole and is the guest of the county for two months.
Jenna is scouting out Club XYZ for us. Jenna, Bambi and I will be heading there if it works out. Please see us there.
And yes I have actually heard these lines from other dancer.
As a side note, asking one dancer about another dancer can be fun, you never know what answers you will get.