The answer to the question is that the people who work at strip clubs do regularly fuck the talent. Especially the ones who are in charge, as well as the ones who are young and good looking. I was just discussing with blow job queen the number of strip club employees that she had blown. There were several, and I don't begin to think that she was telling me about all of them.
yeah it's like I may be my boss's favorite since I always do what he says, and get his requests done in a timely fashion.
A Stripper is their bosses favorite because they give the best BJs.
It may be a Bill Clinton/Monika L thing.... you fuck what's closest to you. I could imagine a lot of dancers are pretty horny (from rubbing their clit against guys crotches all night) and a little drunk, whose the last guy they see before they go home at night? The doorman and the DJ "you'll work - I'm taking you home tonight."
Buddy of mine from high school is the head bouncer/asst. manager at a larger SC in New York State. He's been there for probably 20 years or so, and had just about every job there (except dancer of coarse). He has told me that the first few years he worked there it happened all the time, but learned his lessons the hard way. Seams to be that when your nailing the talent it makes it really hard to be their boss, and has almost cost him his job a few times. Also, he says that the normal stripper drama gets really old really quick.
A long time ago when I used to go the Hip Hugger in Kokomo Indiana, the owner's brother was the doorman. I guess he received no pay but he got to keep the late fees from the dancers. $3.00 for every minute they were late plus all the beer he could drink. A pretty good gig for no work
If a man was employed at a strip club and got significantly more $ than the dancers did, then he also would be comfortably able to retain their services and so they would respect him.
But unless one is the owner, I don't think the money is that high. So the dancers would look down upon him. The shits.
In John Hubner's book about the Mitchell Brothers, they quote a dancer describing how they referred to the male staff as Eunuchs. Some said they felt sorry for them and that they should fuck them. But the dancer said, "I'm not going to fuck them!"
So if you are staff, then the dancers look down on you, unless you are making more money that dancers do.
san_jose_guy, again you are trying to understand strip club mentality without ever have been to one. First thing to understand is that the dancers look down on everyone, especially themselves. But as far as bouncers go, cooked ones usually are looked down at by the dancers (because they see them taking their money) and the incorruptible are usually looked up to because the girls usually see them as protectors. It doesn't matter how much money they make, it's all about attitudes.
I've actually talked to a couple of doormen...or rather every doorman at the clubs I visit. Usually their always big and burly and always talk about how they've had better. So usually it's because they've had better, the talent there isn't up to their standards or since because their so burly and big, pulling tail for them is easy which is why they don't worry. I've also seen slim looking doormen. These guys generally just aren't into strip clubs because their either married or have standards and the club just does not fit in them. That's what I have always gotten when I talk to the doormen. That and who can outlift the other in the gym. That's always an awesome conversation. too bad I can't outlift any of them so far.
Impala wrote, "again you are trying to understand strip club mentality without ever have been to one. "
You entire argument is completely wrong. I have been far more involved with strippers and their affairs, and with AMP and AAMP women then you could possibly imagine. I treat them the same as I do other women.
Just consider this, why do street hookers respect their pimps? It is because the pimp gets their money.
Strippers do not look down on everyone. They don't look down on me, not at all. They do though look down on guys who work for little money.
And if I find myself in a situation where they do seem to be looking down on me, then I save my money and decline to engage.
I have a different experience of strippers than you obviously do because I don't treat them the way you must.
chessmaster, I have had good, bad, and totally unworkable off the clock relationships with sex workers.
Extremely rare to find one who would "fuck the entire staff".
The reason is this, though they do sex for money, they still hold on to the personal dignity that they are only doing it when they agree to and when they get that money. Doing it out of obligation would be an indignity they would never tolerate. I have found this out personally.
@Shailynn, idk if you were serious about horny strippers. So if you weren't kidding, then I can assure you that it's not true at all. We have to pretend to be attracted into strangers all night long and it kinda burns you out sexually to the point that your interest in sex declines. I didn't have sex for almost 8 months(well, till I got into escorting and OTC) and didn't really want it at all. I mean, I kinda slightly did, but ehhh, it's like whatever for me.
We are hungry, tired and sleepy after our shifts. Hardly horny though. Well, if you offer me a grand or two, then yeah, I will get super wet.:)
@GACA why the hell would you want to come to NYC on new Year's eve? That's sooooo annoying to be at. I'd rather be in the mountains that day rather than NYC.
I think it would be extremely unpleasant for a man to be employed at a strip club. I believe that it would turn a guy into a real creep.
^ This from the creep king of TUSCL!
Just consider this, why do street hookers respect their pimps? It is because the pimp gets their money.
^ More moronic shit from the sanjose juvenile. SWs don't respect their pimps. Pimps control them with fear of violence or not giving them their fix not because of respect. I don't have time to address your other bits of wisdom, maybe others will.
For many of us heavy SCers; seeing nakid chicks is kinda routine to where ti does not have that much of an impact; I assume if one worked in a SC and there multiple days per week; it would be even more passe.
I think the DJ's get more ass than the bouncers & managers. I know several dancers who have had flings with the same DJ. He's young, good looking, and suave. More power to him. My current fave lived with him for about 6 months. When they broke up he threw her out of his apartment with no where to go. Heartless bastard.
" I think the DJ's get more ass than the bouncers & managers."
Interesting insight. DJ's do have panache that bouncers and managers don't.
And even if TheeOSU doesn't understand this, women look up to guys who are in charge in situations and to guys who have got it fixed so they get the money. Even if a pimp is violent with his women, there is still some reason the women go along with it besides just fear.
I would not want to be staff at a strip club, not unless I was something like a DJ who was known to have outside stuff going on.
My experience is that initiating sex with a woman, just the initial entry before she wakes, goes over extremely well. But I would not recommend it in all situations, and best to have given her some advance warning.
They like it right then, and in the morning they are still very obviously pleased. You can do lots of things if you treat women right.
But my point on this thread is, like it or not, women look down on guys who have shitty jobs.
“... When they broke up he threw her out of his apartment with no where to go. Heartless bastard ...”
Those are the guys that seem to get the most pussy and for free; where we nice-guys have to pay for it and often times get treated like shit on top of it.
@papi haha, what is the exact definition of a nice guy? Because what you quoted is something I'd do right away. Hell I dumped a bitch point blank because she expected me to pay for everything and REFUSED to get a job.
I think it's rare that anyone in a SC gets a salary they could live on. They all depend on tips. Nobody gets laid much if they sleep under a bridge and have no place to shower. Not having a steady income makes your attitude towards work very different, you're very focused on the $$$ and everything else takes a distant back seat.
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last commentThe answer to the question is that the people who work at strip clubs do regularly fuck the talent. Especially the ones who are in charge, as well as the ones who are young and good looking. I was just discussing with blow job queen the number of strip club employees that she had blown. There were several, and I don't begin to think that she was telling me about all of them.
Based on personal knowledge, but I am sure it can vary club to club, also.
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A Stripper is their bosses favorite because they give the best BJs.
It may be a Bill Clinton/Monika L thing.... you fuck what's closest to you. I could imagine a lot of dancers are pretty horny (from rubbing their clit against guys crotches all night) and a little drunk, whose the last guy they see before they go home at night? The doorman and the DJ "you'll work - I'm taking you home tonight."
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But unless one is the owner, I don't think the money is that high. So the dancers would look down upon him. The shits.
In John Hubner's book about the Mitchell Brothers, they quote a dancer describing how they referred to the male staff as Eunuchs. Some said they felt sorry for them and that they should fuck them. But the dancer said, "I'm not going to fuck them!"
So if you are staff, then the dancers look down on you, unless you are making more money that dancers do.
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You entire argument is completely wrong. I have been far more involved with strippers and their affairs, and with AMP and AAMP women then you could possibly imagine. I treat them the same as I do other women.
Just consider this, why do street hookers respect their pimps? It is because the pimp gets their money.
Strippers do not look down on everyone. They don't look down on me, not at all. They do though look down on guys who work for little money.
And if I find myself in a situation where they do seem to be looking down on me, then I save my money and decline to engage.
I have a different experience of strippers than you obviously do because I don't treat them the way you must.
SJG
Extremely rare to find one who would "fuck the entire staff".
The reason is this, though they do sex for money, they still hold on to the personal dignity that they are only doing it when they agree to and when they get that money. Doing it out of obligation would be an indignity they would never tolerate. I have found this out personally.
SJG
We are hungry, tired and sleepy after our shifts. Hardly horny though. Well, if you offer me a grand or two, then yeah, I will get super wet.:)
But whatever, GACA, you are always welcome here:)
@dancer95 спасибо, дорогуша
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This from the creep king of TUSCL!
Just consider this, why do street hookers respect their pimps? It is because the pimp gets their money.
^
More moronic shit from the sanjose juvenile. SWs don't respect their pimps. Pimps control them with fear of violence or not giving them their fix not because of respect.
I don't have time to address your other bits of wisdom, maybe others will.
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Interesting insight. DJ's do have panache that bouncers and managers don't.
And even if TheeOSU doesn't understand this, women look up to guys who are in charge in situations and to guys who have got it fixed so they get the money. Even if a pimp is violent with his women, there is still some reason the women go along with it besides just fear.
I would not want to be staff at a strip club, not unless I was something like a DJ who was known to have outside stuff going on.
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I suppose your version of being in charge and a woman looking up to you would be when she wakes from her sleep while you're raping her.
My experience is that initiating sex with a woman, just the initial entry before she wakes, goes over extremely well. But I would not recommend it in all situations, and best to have given her some advance warning.
They like it right then, and in the morning they are still very obviously pleased. You can do lots of things if you treat women right.
But my point on this thread is, like it or not, women look down on guys who have shitty jobs.
SJG
Those are the guys that seem to get the most pussy and for free; where we nice-guys have to pay for it and often times get treated like shit on top of it.
I always say that if I were to live again I'd be a divorce attorney. Its either that or being a pimp.
Women respect the guys who get the money, even if it is being made off of women.
Sorry Impala, there is much you are just missing.
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