How should I handle this?
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
Thursday, September 17, 2015 1:39 PM
In a few days I'm going back to the club where the DS works. I'm not going to see her. I like this club and went for years before I met her. Mainly I'm going because there are two dancers there that I want OTC. One in particular is a red head that I met the night that DS dumped me. I was trying to convince DS to do a threesome with her, and then after DS dumped me I couldn't find this girl. I really liked this one. She is a newbie and perfect for my system.
I'm inclined to tip DS on stage a few bucks the first time I see her. Only a few bucks. I used to tip her a Benjamin on her first stage set. Then I'll ignore her unless she comes to me. If she does I might buy her a drink and get a couple dances but nothing more. No VIP, no big money of any kind. If she doesn't come by then I'll ignore her the rest of the night.
I was discussing this with Ranukam and he said that I should ignore her completely. Don't even give her a small stage tip. I get that. I would treat others that way. But this is the original DS. And without being pathetic about it, I want to leave the door open to fucking her again. It just seems like the mature thing to do for me not to be mad, just be chill, and hang with her for a short while if she comes over but not spend much.
In the interests of full disclosure, she will be worried that I'm there shopping. She hates one of the dancers that I want. And me shopping there will make her worried that others will find out about our OTC relationship which terrifies her. I don't really care what she thinks, just explaining the dynamics.
Any advice on how I should handle seeing her itc post breakup?
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