Is this now somehow acceptable behavior?

Nope. Not acceptable at all. Could you have decked him, or was he big enough to take you?

Frankly, you and the DS provided a real service by showing his GF what an obnoxious ass he was.

It's not acceptable, but that stuff goes on all the time, especially when you're out in public with a hottie at 4 am.

The sad part is that this is kind of becoming the norm with arrogant assholes and the "me" first generation.

About a month ago I was in a bar. talking with a young lady. This douche bag cuts right in between me and the girl and starts to talk with her. She was really annoyed but is a very nice person and talked a little with him. I tap the guy on the shoulder and tell him that I was having a convo with this lady and if he wanted to talk to her he could wait until we are done. He gave me a look like... whatever oldman ( I am 37 this fuck stick was mid 20's). I grabbed and turned him around and said it would be best if he just left and came back later. BTW... this guy was with his buddies and all looked like they watch too much MMA or Jersey shore....and take protein every meal.... muscle heads. He starts to puff up like he was about to do something..... and I again said.... It would be wise of you and your friends to move on.... I said in nice and calm but direct. The little prick saw that it wouldn't have been good if he wanted to press the issue.

He did move on but kept eye balling me the rest of the night. He even did the bump into me a little aggressive. I smiled and laughed at him. But you see these little fuck sticks think they are gods gift to women and the sad thing.... is women fall for it.... young dumb women. I am sure he is now the boyfriend of a stripper....LOL

One time my gf and I were pulled over late at night. She was driving and had been drinking, but the cop ended up just following us to her house and gave her a warning...

She told me he showed up at her place the next morning with flowers....!!!???

So you're saying that you pay her $500 a session but she is NOT a prostitute? No it has never happened to me. I have better sense than to sit in a car with a hooker at 4AM smoking pot.

He was a drunk asshole.

This was major disrespect. I never had anything that bad happen to me, but when I used to take my ATF to concerts and restaurants, sometimes guys would flirt with her right in front of me. This pissed me off. However, she did look and dress like a stripper, and she would flirt back with them.

If this happens again, you should pop a cap in his ass.

shadow LOL

The dude was an asshole. These fine honeys exude sexuality so it really does come with the territory of hanging with a young hottie. If you decided to kick-ass every time some BS like this happened you would be in the shit constantly.

My question is why the fuck did DS walk up to the guy. WTF could he possibly have to say to her at that time and location that didn't involve fucking? That is the disrespectful part.

Yeah, it was unacceptable for her to go submit to his summons.

^^^^ TOTALLY agree on that as well. DS should have ignored him.

I enjoy taking these young beautiful women out in the civie world. Drinking, eating, dancing whatever. The reason I am out with them is because they are sexy as hell. The honeys always get a lot of attention as all beautiful sexy women do. It's really up to them to handle dudes trying to get their attention. If they would ever disrespect me by paying attention to some other dude, I would just play it off and start texting a different honey that might want to have some fun. So far, that really hasn't been much of a problem.

Definitely non-brilliant behavior on the guys part, but I can understand why DS would have eventually gone to see what was up! Normal curiosity!

But I hope she wouldn't do it when she doesn't have you or somebody else with her since it could turn dangerous! You never know when you might meet a guy with duct tape, zip ties, garbage bags, and a stun gun in his van! Even if the guy is with a woman he could be a violent weirdo!

Fortunately, it sounds like this guy wasn't dangerous! Just a d-bag! :(

I had this happen at Detroit Metro with an old girlfriend. I went to the bathroom and came back to three Detroit Tigers hitting on her full pressure. Quite the scene. I am no bruiser and these were big guy ( names withheld but 80's)s, and drunk, she helped by staying cool but it was a strange event. They knew she was with somebody and they did not care. Yes she was hot. 5'8" blonde hair a size 2 with a great ass. Always dressed to impress too.

Kick him on the nuts next time.

John...it was a fouble butn on him that you didn't get involved. She made the choice on her own.

It certainly doesn't excuse his behavior but sorry to say he might have thought you were her pimp. Does your Cadillac have a velvet interior?

The guy is a wanker. But I'm afraid to say that in society now this attitude is more and more common, people thinking they can do and say what they want.

^There's even a fair chance the guy's running for President.

Bvino: "came back to three Detroit Tigers hitting on her full pressure. Quite the scene. I am no bruiser and these were big guy ( names withheld but 80's)s, and drunk"

Trammell to Whitaker to Evans?

She told me before she went to talk to him that it was just because he pissed her off to make assumptions about her. I knew there was no chance that she was going to do anything with them, and she was totally safe, so ai stayed out of it. Would've intervened if there was a reason to.

Scat, even if she is a prostitute, you don't walk up to a guy's prostitute and try to take her away. There is honor among PLs, or at least there should be. And no chance anybody could mistake me for a pimp. I left my velvet hat with the big flower in it at home this trip.

some thing similar happened some years back, to me only my lady wouldn't go over to talk to him, so he came over to us and asked me to excuse, myself needless to say my elbow in his throat ended the conversation.

Yeah, it's very unacceptable behavior, but I have to agree some of the other posters -- it's a type of behavior that's probably going to become the norm. I'm glad everyone was able to walk away from the situation (relatively) unscathed. (Finding out your boyfriend's a narcissistic shithead should be more of a wake-up call than a major trauma.)

A couple of possibilities about the asshole come to mind. 1) He might've regarded you as the DS's "pimp daddy" or something along those lines. 2) Maybe he's been to the DS's club and gotten some feedback on her.

"I like that your hooker gets mad if people think she's a hooker."

Funny. Maybe funnier still cause I got mad that he thought that about her too.

If you're in public with a hottie, this behavior is nothing new. Late 70's, I'm watching a band in a small club with my hot gf. During a break, the guitarist comes over and invites my girl to his party that night. Gives her a card with his phone # and address. He then asks me for a smoke! I told him to fuck off and left with my girl.

dude I am sorry, I thought she was your Daughter.

"dude I am sorry, I thought she was your Daughter."

Brilliant!

I wasn't there but given what you've spelled out I think it's quite possible he thought she was a pro with her pimp. The fact that she went over to him would probably have encouraged such a thought.

Under such an assumption I don't see a big problem.

Was Bill Cosby nearby?

Being a lawyer you should serve him with a Writ of Ducas Penis.

I've seen this type of behavior but never had to deal with it directly. Most often the girl can handle it and avoid and beat downs. But damn I hate rude behavior in a man.

Dude, I'm totally sorry, but one look and I could tell that girl was out of your league, and I THOUGHT my girlfriend would be into it. Can't believe the bitch ran away on me. Next time you should give me the tuscl secret handshake and I'll back off

:) More seriously, I remember years ago walking down the street in the late afternoon with my then-ATF. She was dressed sexy but not overly so. As we walked by a strip club on the way to the restaurants, the barker out front takes one look at my girl and says "Whoa! Which club do you work at?" He absolutely knew she was a stripper, 100%. I don't think she was giving strippery vibes, but there it is.

JS, at least the DS didn't walk over to the asshole and say, "Listen here, jackass. If you don't quit this and get a life, my boyfriend over there is going to kick your sorry ass!". ;-)