How did you start strip clubbing?
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
How did you start strip clubbing?
The readers digest version of my story. My wife was a few years into her sexual devolution. I was in Vegas on business. Was reading about things to do and I came across topless shows on the strip. I loved them and was quickly hooked.
Next trip to Vegas I started looking up strip clubs. I imagined strip clubs as dangerous and full of crack whores, but I figured Vegas would be safe. I went to Spearmint Rhino at 5 pm on a weekday. It was dead. Got a lap dance from the first stripper who asked, and I LDKed 60 seconds into it. Not my proudest moment. From there forward I started going to clubs in every city I visit.
The readers digest version of my story. My wife was a few years into her sexual devolution. I was in Vegas on business. Was reading about things to do and I came across topless shows on the strip. I loved them and was quickly hooked.
Next trip to Vegas I started looking up strip clubs. I imagined strip clubs as dangerous and full of crack whores, but I figured Vegas would be safe. I went to Spearmint Rhino at 5 pm on a weekday. It was dead. Got a lap dance from the first stripper who asked, and I LDKed 60 seconds into it. Not my proudest moment. From there forward I started going to clubs in every city I visit.
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I might have visited on my own eventually. I was way underpaid so if that was a little fringe benefit, I enjoyed it. My boss did pay the cover charge for us. I had been saving every dollar I could and my first strip club visit, when I was told to bring a lot of cash, I brought $50. I usually carried a lot less cash around than that.
Mine started very innocently.
I hadn't been to a strip club in over 10 years. After I got married, I stopped going. Not that I went that much before. I had been for bachelor parties and that was about it.
One day, at a work Chistmas party, a business associate said he was going to take me to a bar after the party. I had no idea we were going to a strip club. He just said, "follow me to a club where I know a lot of people." I was hooked after seeing so many hot, fit, young girls all dressed up and willing to have sex with me.
Ever since then, I've been going off and on. For a few years, I went 3-4 times a week after work during the week.
I've been going MUCH less since my divorce. I've realized I was going so much because I was so miserable being married to my mean, obese, controlling wife.
I dated a stripper for a couple years. And did a lot of OTC with her and many other strippers at various clubs.
Now, I've been focusing on civilian dating, and having a really good time doing that. But still hit a club after work once in awhile. But now it's like only once or twice a month if even that any more.
I was in Minneapolis for my first live Vikings game (2009) and a buddy of mine and I went to one of the local clubs the night I got off the plane. This was my first time ever going to a strip club and ever since then I've been hooked!
A few hours, and several romps with a very attractive and cooperative little Vietnamese girl, later and I've pretty much been hooked ever since.
With the exception of a few trips here and there with friends it would be several years before I would get into strip clubs again which came with traveling for work.
Years later a trip to seductions and sundowner in Niagara falls Ontario made me realize there are clubs out there that offer more than lap dances. All this time I thought what happened on my first strip club trip was a fluke!
Fast forward to last summer. Mrs sea had mentioned for several years about wanting to go to a SC. Sometime around the end of last summer she said she decided she def wanted us to go ASAP so last Fall we finally had a chance to go. She quickly fell in love with it and has turned into a SC hound. I love watching her in a SC.
1. Went to bachelor party for friend. Was massively depressed by sad looking old PLs staring at dancers. Stayed away for 15 years.
2. Got married
3. Had kids
4. Had no sex for better portion of decade
5. Went to SC on business trip near hotel on a whim
6. Got immediate boner. Then LDK. Been happily partaking ever since.
Brilliant!
Strippers = brilliant solution!
I eventually moved and went several years without going to a strip club. I wanted to go over the course of a few years but had no one to go with and I didn't think anyone went to a strip club alone.
I eventually got married and the strip club urge disappeared. After I had been married a while my sex life with my wife got less frequent. The urge to go to a strip club came back. After doing some reaearch I realized that lots of guys went to clubs alone. I still was hesitant to go but then when I saw some reviews of my local club was full nude and allowed full two way contact I couldn't pass it up and decided to go.
Originally I planned to only go one time and get a couple lap dances and hopefully get to squeeze some new tits and get it out of my system. After my first visit to this club I was hooked. I got LD's from three different dancers that night, all three let me squeeze their tits and encouraged me to suck their nipples. I went to the VIP room with the third dancer (who is my ATF) and just planned for maybe a more intense laps dance, I was unaware that extras were very common at this club (and I didn't believe that you could have sex with a stripper at any club). She gave me a HJ in the VIP room without me asking for one. I felt bad that I got the HJ but I also wasn't getting sex from my wife.
I went back regularly and each visit I started getting more confident and wanted more and more. I got dances from many different dances (and became a regular of several dancers) and went to the VIP with a few where I got either a HJ, titty fuck, BBBJ (one with CIM), and even went to the VIP with two dancers at once for a combination HJ/titty fuck which was amazing. Eventually that wasn't satisfying me and I finally got FS from my ATF ITC (and she asked me if I had a condom before I asked if we could have sex) and then we started OTC. I also got FS from two other dancers ITC.
So basically I went from just wanting to go for a couple lap dances and full two way contact to get it out of my system to wanting FS.
It sounds horrible, but I didn't feel all that guilty about going at first since I wasn't gettin any action from my wife, I felt a little guilty about the HJ though. The more and more I went I still felt guilty but I guess I just ignored it. I remember right before I got FS ITC I really thought about it. But after that it made it much easier to have sex with a stripper. I felt bad but it was almost like "you've already cheated once, what's the point in stopping now?
JS – around what year did you become “introduced” to the wonderful world of SCs?
But they are not like what people post about her. They were no touching then, and they still are. I really like both of them, but tragically the Hip Hugger was recently closed down.
SJG
The Pilgrim Theatre was one of the most infamous places in an area of downtown that was called the Combat Zone, Boston's way of containing the seedier elements of society (like yours truly, I guess). The typical thing at the Pilgrim Theatre was for them to show what were then called XXX movies for an hour, put live strippers on stage for 30 minutes, then repeat that rotation. At age 20, I had never seen a stripper, and I asked my roommate about it -- and wondered whether it would be OK to bring my girlfriend, who was as curious as I was. He said sure, and told me that they didn't do anything the law didn't allow. Sounded safe enough for me.
We came into what looked like a normal movie theater with a stage. Yes, the porno movie was going full tilt, as graphic as anything you'd see online today, and the most startling thing was that instead of the movie soundtrack, all you could hear was loud rock music blaring from the speakers. Much to my delight, it was the Allman Brothers. Sweet!!
The strip show was quite an eye-opener for my 18-year-old girlfriend and me -- apparently the law allowed the girls to dance in nothing but high heels, and the expression "spread eagle" took on a whole new meaning for me.
I transferred to a university in the Midwest, and I definitely hit a few strip clubs there with my buddies, but at that time, I don't think there were anything resembling lap dances, let alone extras.
Fast forward 25 years and 20 years of marriage. I started traveling more (on my own) for work and got the itch to see some new sights. In 2000 I started visiting clubs pretty regularly whenever I could. I think I've been going to Follies in Atlanta that long, and I can remember going to Tootsie's in Miami when it was in the old location. I discovered TUCSL only a year ago, and if you read my reviews, you'll see I've made good use of the knowledge I've gained here. Thanks to all my TUSCL brethren (and sistren) for all of the tips!
The fraternity was more like a strip club except only one stripper.
One thing that shocks me, I surprised nobody said "well I was picking up my sister from her shift at the club, and I walked in to see what it was all about and kinda liked it." LMAO
After college I started a job with lots of traveling. It didn't take long for me to get bored spending 3 to 5 nights in a hotel in towns and cities I didn't know at all.
One night went into a strip club just looking for something to do, quickly realized that looking at naked women and having them grind on you was a nice way to spend an evening. Still haven't found anything better to do when I travel.
Once on a business trip to Atlanta in the late 1990's with my boss, he brought me to The Gold Club and we brought one of the dancers back to our hotel where she took care of both of us. I started using escorts and pretty much just escorts from2000 to 2009. Then one night I stopped for a drink and a piss at a strip club, met my ATF, and have been hooked ever since.
I was fortunate to have a lot of female company before marriage and until the heartbreak of a hysterectomy spoiled sex at home, there wasn't a demand. Now that I'm an old fart and still enthralled by hot young pussy, I am content to pay for it when I have to.
My first trip solo was impulsive, to the club closest to my work. It's got hot girls but is low mileage, but I really enjoyed talking to the dancers, one in particular who evolved into a platonic OTC friend for a time.
My evolution has been gradual and still in process. I'm still happy with 2 way LDs and the occasional lapgasm. But I'm thinking a lot more about OTC (ITC FS doesn't interest me much).
"I was drunk the night my sister started her new career as a skank ass stripper. I went to the Hog Pen Club to pick her up, in the rain. When I got to the club in my old pickup truck she'd done got screwed in the ass by all the bouncers."
I was hooked from then on!
The next week I headed for Detroit and the Wild Mustang (now the Toy Chest). The girl I'd met wasn't there, but I was knocked out by the selection that was. I had brought about $50, thinking that should be more than enough. I don't think I said no to any girl who asked to dance for me. I got one $10 dance each from maybe four different girls, and thought I was being very extravagant. It wasn't until a later visit that I learned about VIP dances.
How could I not get hooked.