The OTC thread – from SW's perspective
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I just need a moment to vent about something I know we all experience. Starting tonight, I'm going to ignore men (regulars or guys that I've met once) who don't spend money on me, or spend but eventually expect me to meet them outside of my club. It seems like all of my regulars are trying to get me to meet them outside of work. I wish men understood that it's my job to make them feel important, to make them believe that I really am into them. It's not even just my regulars acting this way, but men I've seen maybe a couple times who ACTUALLY think I like them. I'm worried I'll loose money if I start being a bitch but I see no other way of making my feelings known. I am there JUST TO MAKE MONEY. That is IT.
It literally makes my job so stressful trying to maintain a work relationship with them so I still make some money, but I'm realizing it's not worth it. It's so exhausting. As soon as you imply that we should get together at some point, I'm going to walk away. I don't care if you pay your measly $40 to me or buy me drinks until I'm buzzed - neither pay the bills.
It use to be funny how dumb guys are, but now it's just sad and angering. I just feel so uneasy on the inside and upset. I feel taken advantage of, I guess. Not even sure if what I've shared here makes sense. I'm just fed up.
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Good entertainment. Don't take 98 percent seriously.
I'm sure I stroke more egos in a single day than her, it's part of my job and it just goes with the territory. Yeah I bitch about it sometimes after work to my friends or significant other...she has the right to vent about it too, but I never say "you know what I'm going to start ignoring my diva-like customers," most of the ones that bring me the most drama also bring me the most business. If she blows off every guy that isn't a total sweetheart like Motorhead she's going to starve as well.
All she has to do is politely say she doesn't meet OTC and I'm sure guys will still buy lap dances from her. If someone offers her a drink, she should say "how about we do a lapdance instead." If she gives a good dance I'd say there's better than a 75% chance the guy will buy at least a second dance. There, that dumb bitch probably just made $50. Do that 10 more times throughout the night then you made some money!
One of them adamantly told me should would never do OTC
Three of them enthusiastically agreed and tried hard to pin me down to committed place, day and time.
The fifth (unfortunately the finest) initially said yes but then turned out to be a hustler that had no intention of following thru.
Better than 50% success rate. Makes it hard to resist the temptation to at least ask after finding a honey worth pursuing.
If she can't handle it, then maybe she should hang up her heels. From her exhaustion comments and her remarks about how they don't understand that it is WORK, it sounds like she is a bit anti-social and doesn't really understand human interactions. As all too many of these girls learn quickly, it takes more than nice tits and ass to do the job and many who try simply aren't cut out for it.
Funny. I don't seem to get this reaction from girls I'm interested in OTC meetings.
The smart ones realize they don't have to pay the club all their fees and it's actually less time out of their day to do OTC and guaranteed $.
Maybe these girls on SW like going to work on a slow day with customers who aren't spending any $ in the club?
Would you rather do an OTC and make money? Or sit around an empty club for 7 hours maybe going home with no $ or even having to owe fees to the club when you didn't make anything that day?
One advantage of being a stripper but also doing OTC is you can pick and choose your clients. The same way a guy using backpage isn't sure what will show up at his hotel room, a sex worker doesn't know if she's going to get a client who smells awful and is high on meth, or even just seems a little "off".
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I think that there is a mental risk/reward element to it for each side. Sure risks exist, but in my experience they are fairly low. The reality is that both parties to the transaction usually have ample reasons not to screw around
Yes there are some girls who will jump with any guy who makes an offer, but in my experience many girls who are considering OTC tend to ask at least a few questions and get comfortable before taking the plunge. For example, a middle aged business guy probably isn't too serious a risk and likely has lots of reasons to avoid problems, including marriages, careers, kids, etc.
From a customer standpoint, I tend to steer clear of girls who are brand new to the club and aren't from the area. Beyond that, as long as she isn't high or strung out, is willing to take payment after the fact and will go to a hotel of my choosing, I'm good. Keep in mind that most dancers also have lots of reasons not to mess around, including kids to feed, criminal records that make more LE exposure problematic, a need for discretion, regular clubs that pissed off guys can find them in, etc.
They want to entice and turn-on the customer in order to get all his $$$ but are then flabbergasted when the customer she turned on (on purpose) asks-for or wants sex – really? - that's like putting your hand in the dog's mouth and complaining when he bites you.
Women having sex w/ men for $$$ has been around forever; thus why is called the oldest profession in the world – and most sex providers throughout history probably had encounters w/ men they did not know very well if at all; it's kinda one of the occupational hazards and many a occupation has its hazards.
Back in the day before the Internet most providers would have to stand on a street corner often in bad neighborhoods and have to get in a stranger's car – at least in a SC the dancer has had a chance to interact with the PL and often times over a period time (weeks/months).
And PLs take a chance too – they could also be victims.
In the end; as w/ many things in life; one cannot totally eliminate risk – I imagine most dancers take certain precautions such as getting to know the PL.
That one, she just needs to be fucked long and slow. Getting paid well will also help her feel better.
Can't worry about such comments. Girls talk like that, but it is mostly to each other.
SJG
Sunshine of Your Love
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Can't worry about such comments. Girls talk like that, but it is mostly to each other."
so when a woman tells you NO you can't worry about such comments because what she needs is to be fucked long and slow. maybe you could toss her a few dollars afterward so that, you know, it would help her feel better.
you really are a piece of shit
SJG
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SJG
us? us?
you got a mouse in your pocket do you basement boy?
But women are also much, much more likely to be victims of sexual assault and domestic violence......that's all I was getting at with my last post