Relationship Issues for PLs
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
Friday, May 15, 2015 5:10 PM
Pole dancer posted her woes about being unable to have a relationship with a desirable guy because of the stigma of being stripper. But how does this work in reverse for the strip club enthusiast? Are we able to have relationships with desirable civilian women if it is known that we frequent strip clubs?
For most of us, I think we have the exact same problem. Most women would have no interest in us if they knew that we frequent strip clubs. The main difference is that it's easier for us to hide our hobby whereas it's really tough for a stripper to hide her job for very long. Also since many of us are older, we may no longer care about the civilian relationship so much. But for those of us who seek out civilian women, I think our hobby presents us with the exact same problems as pole dancer's job presents for her.
I know there are a select few here who are with sexually liberal women who don't mind them visiting strip clubs, and may even participate. But those women are as rare as dream strippers. For the most part, I think we have the exact same type of issues that pole dancer was complaining about.
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