I was wrong .....
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
Like many of you, I'm a slightly older guy, conservative, kind of set in my ways, convinced that I'm right about most things. So it's extremely humbling to find out something about which I have been totally wrong my entire life. That's what happened to me recently.
I've been completely anti-drug my entire life. Occasionally I was kind of a dick with my kids trying to make sure that they never smoked pot. I had little respect for pot smokers. I thought they were lazy, shiftless, and lacking in ambition. While I questioned the obscene amounts of money that LE spent on enforcing drug laws. I otherwise have no problem with the notion that marijuana should be illegal. I didn't really distinguish between marijuana and other drugs like cocaine or heroin.They were all illegal drugs, I had no interest, and they were a blight to society.
I was dead wrong. Completely. Can't get more wrong. I love getting high and am going to do it for many years to come.
I've learned two things through this. First, you can't criticize something if you don't understand it. And sometimes, and this is true with marijuana, you can't understand something until you've experienced it. Second, there is at least some truth to the adage that "you're only as old as the women you fuck." When you build a regular relationship with a young woman, she will challenge many of the assumptions that you base your life on. And listen to her because sometimes she may be right.
With one exception that you will see below, I'm not planning to make a big pitch for marijuana in this post. Everybody decide for yourself. It's all good. But there is one thing about pot that seems particularly relevant to this board and so I am going to share that. Marijuana enhances the strip club experience in a way that alcohol cannot touch. When I'm high in the club, I don't just hear the music, I feel it and I see it too. I've been listening to music for 50 years, but I never really heard it, I never really understood it, until now. And the second thing is the combination of being high and naked women. Marijuana enhances all sensations and makes things that are good that much better. In strip club terms, what this means for me is that most dancers are elevated by about 1.5 points in looks. So a7 becomes an 8.5, an 8 becomes a 9.5, etc. Now of course this can be dangerous. If you make a 5 into a marginally acceptable 6.5, you will be ashamed of yourself in the morning if you're not careful. But when you find a 9.5, or that one in a million dream stripper, for the first time in your life you will experience an 11 +. It's getting even better now that I've figured out how to smoke pot in the club without detection.
And when the night of clubbing, fucking and sucking is over, the pot will cause you to slowly drift off into a peaceful sleep. You wake up in the morning refreshed, with no hangover of any type, and at least partial memories of a great time the precious night.
So if you never tried pot before, or if your use was very occasional or decades ago, just consider the possibility that the guy with the dream stripper sex stories might be onto something. We've got to be willing to consider the possibility sometimes that what we think is right might actually be very wrong.
I've been completely anti-drug my entire life. Occasionally I was kind of a dick with my kids trying to make sure that they never smoked pot. I had little respect for pot smokers. I thought they were lazy, shiftless, and lacking in ambition. While I questioned the obscene amounts of money that LE spent on enforcing drug laws. I otherwise have no problem with the notion that marijuana should be illegal. I didn't really distinguish between marijuana and other drugs like cocaine or heroin.They were all illegal drugs, I had no interest, and they were a blight to society.
I was dead wrong. Completely. Can't get more wrong. I love getting high and am going to do it for many years to come.
I've learned two things through this. First, you can't criticize something if you don't understand it. And sometimes, and this is true with marijuana, you can't understand something until you've experienced it. Second, there is at least some truth to the adage that "you're only as old as the women you fuck." When you build a regular relationship with a young woman, she will challenge many of the assumptions that you base your life on. And listen to her because sometimes she may be right.
With one exception that you will see below, I'm not planning to make a big pitch for marijuana in this post. Everybody decide for yourself. It's all good. But there is one thing about pot that seems particularly relevant to this board and so I am going to share that. Marijuana enhances the strip club experience in a way that alcohol cannot touch. When I'm high in the club, I don't just hear the music, I feel it and I see it too. I've been listening to music for 50 years, but I never really heard it, I never really understood it, until now. And the second thing is the combination of being high and naked women. Marijuana enhances all sensations and makes things that are good that much better. In strip club terms, what this means for me is that most dancers are elevated by about 1.5 points in looks. So a7 becomes an 8.5, an 8 becomes a 9.5, etc. Now of course this can be dangerous. If you make a 5 into a marginally acceptable 6.5, you will be ashamed of yourself in the morning if you're not careful. But when you find a 9.5, or that one in a million dream stripper, for the first time in your life you will experience an 11 +. It's getting even better now that I've figured out how to smoke pot in the club without detection.
And when the night of clubbing, fucking and sucking is over, the pot will cause you to slowly drift off into a peaceful sleep. You wake up in the morning refreshed, with no hangover of any type, and at least partial memories of a great time the precious night.
So if you never tried pot before, or if your use was very occasional or decades ago, just consider the possibility that the guy with the dream stripper sex stories might be onto something. We've got to be willing to consider the possibility sometimes that what we think is right might actually be very wrong.
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As I get older, I find my taste in women changes. Women that I wouldn't have taken a second look at a decade or two ago (high or not) such as 45 year old MILFS -GILFs are now viewed in a different light. Thru a series of rationalizations, the pool of women that I find attractive grows each day. That could be a good thing...right?
I view it like alcohol. I think a lot of teenagers can't use it responsibly. It can contribute to questionable decision making. But like booze it can be used responsibly and be fun.
Honestly; I am not educated enough to say pot; or other particular drugs; are bad and should not be done.
For me often times drugs, and other things; are a way of dealing w/ the symptoms and not really the core problem – kinda like an escape.
But we don’t live in a perfect world and in today’s world many people are often overworked; under-slept; and overall over-stressed; and many are unable or not in a position to solve/remedy these issues and can only try to alleviate the symptoms – that’s why so many in our society are not only habitual drinkers; but the psychiatric drug market is huge (whether it’s anti-depressants or just sleeping aids).
Marijuana is a natural product for the most part AFAIK and does seem to have positive medicinal effects akin to other natural herbs – but IDK enough about the possible side-effects to say one should avoid using it.
Personally – I’ve always strongly disliked smoking in general and could not see myself w/ a cigarrete in my mouth and the same sorta thing would apply to a joint (although I’m aware one can get the effects thru other means other than smoking it).
I don’t think I’ve ever met a person that became a better person or became more successful b/c of drinking or doing drugs – although this is not the same as saying one can’t be successful doing those things.
My strongest objection against me using it personally is becoming sorta dependent on it and I would not personally like to go down that road.
To each their own.....
The DS is a purist and has always smoked blunts but those things kill my lungs and make a horrible smell. It almost got us kicked out of our last hotel room together. I'm in the process of converting her to a vape, and she's excited about it.
Not trying to convert you if that's not what you want. But I'd be glad to bring the vape next time I'm in Miami if you want to see that what I'm saying is true.
Thanks for the info though; but not really too curious at this time.
Isn't loosing self control, in the sense of the type of self control that society says men should have, exactly what strip clubs are all about. In a strip club we do what men everywhere wish they could do but don't because their wife, kids, community, church, mom, female friends, etc all tell them that they must have self control. If that was me I wouldn't go to strip clubs.
I think 50 is actually a great age to start having this kinda fun. Cause I've got the maturity, experience, good job, and responsible lifestyle all in place. In other words it's a lot less likely that pot is going to negatively Impact me like it would a teenager. Plus I'm tired of being a boring old fart.
Now I gotta go cause there are little green alien bugs crawling on my skin and I need to deal with that.
I went through 25 years years of random drug testing before I retired and still managed to have a fulfilling sex life. So I think I can get through the rest of my life with out it.
One of my favorites has a BF that is a drug dealer and she has told me several times that she likes me because I don't judge her.
But again not every brain can manage dome people get more depressed after smoking. Some will want a better high go to stronger drugs. But that's the same for alcohol. .
GAC, definitely true. It affects everyone a little differently. For me it's almost all good but I agree that's not always true.
I try not to judge people for their choices even if I disagree. My suitemates one year were using drugs. They did not try to give me anything. I think they were afraid I might really go crazy. Someone told me I had a natural high. I was thinking that's not true unless I've been exercising a lot. I used to be very fast on a bicycle able to go 45 to 50 mph on a flat road and saw a lot of amazed people on occassion riding in their cars. Lol, I once remember a cop gunned his engine when I passed him on a side road. He was on a different road or I wouldn't have passed him on a bicycle. Even then I heard about cops pulling people over for speeding on bicycles. My average speed was only about 15 mph but after an hour, I definitely felt the runners high and it lasted for hours.
Honestly it sounds like you guys are describing some different drug that I've never heard of. But to each his own. Not trying to convert just sharing what I've found and the impact it has on strip clubbing.
We just need the men in black to make everyone forget all about anything unusual taking place atPP and kill any investigations. People's memories are not reliable after Allen encounters. Maybe I have had contact. Actually if true, they are constantly watching me and that would explain all the flashes of ghosts. I did meet some weird people at PP. Probably aliens. I think one girl even told me she was from a star system I never heard of. I just can't clearly remember very well.
All of these laws have costs so we should focus on consequences! Have the cops film a standard sobriety test and if you fail you're in trouble! Doesn't matter if you're drunk or stoned! But if people smoke pot or drink that is really they're business! ;)
Of course I do not want a stoned or wasted driver going the wrong way down a road and killing people but there is a big difference in my opinion between what they call the legal limit and really getting wasted and driving somewhere. The cops are never around if you spot someone breaking the law out on the road. They are too busy investigating reports that someone had sex at a strip club somewhere. Our tax payer money getting wasted.
Then our tax payer money gets wasted more in the court system paying all these people for the court cases. I see no open sex in strip clubs. What happens is somewhere sometime when the club was slow, someone supposed got away with touching someone's titty or some other action and the prosecutors want to shut a place down because of it. The next thing they'll do if successful shutting everything down is go after illegal activity in your homes like playing Yathzee. Yes, it's illegal to play games in South Caolina if using dice and the game is based on chance. You could argue skill is involved but it would be like arguing against some high dollar prosecutor who can throw a gazillion charges out there.
Actaully I think there is more money to be made going after strip clubs in other states so that's probably where the prosecutors will go later on. Wasting more tax payer money.
Just posting sort of as a rant but in case any politician wants to take a chance and save tax payer money and let the police go after crimes most people care about instead of worrying about joe blow or Jane smith touched a titty in a club, then here it is.
I say no. I was once a victim of a hit and run driver whom no one saw and a victim in years past of a vandal in a parking lot. There were no police around. Apparently now they are worried a dancer could get aroused by her jumping on a customer like she was a cheerleader and putting her vaginal area near my face for a few seconds max. Really? I never even knew a girl could get aroused so easy. I don't get aroused very easy either. Soliticors and prosecutors are worried though and tax payer money is getting spent investigating and prosecuting.
If females in clubs get aoused that quickly, you should all send your wives to strip clubs to learn the secrets of how to get aroused in under 3 seconds.
I think laws need to change or cheerleadering practices might get shut down next. Cheerlaeders might get aroused too easily and be performing lewd behavior when they lift a cheerleader up and hold her up.
SJG
Given you admitted background, I'm just wondering where you score your weed? Does DS bring it? I know it isn't all that difficult, but I would have a tough time finding a reliable source, especially for the kind that is used in the vapes.
This picture demonstrates a point I was trying to make about weed.
http://m.joyreactor.com/post/711725